FabSwingers.com forum: Anal help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, I'm a bi guy who prefers women but is happy to play with guys. I've been asked a few times if I'd like to be fucked by a guy but know that it's probably going to hurt etc. Any hints on how to minimise the pain and how to enjoy it will be appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm wondering if the fact you find it hurts so much means you are not THAT bi... I might be wrong... just a thought... maybe you are just exploring????

Red x

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By *ay2571Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Lube, lube and more lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Douche. Lube. Relax. Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find someone with a small cock, that would help.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Don't forget to leave it till you're really in the mood forit and are fully relaxed into the situation.

Like already said, make sure there's plenty of lube. It's one situation where its hard to have too much of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want to be relaxed but turned on. Lots and lots of stimulation, lube and patience!

Have fun

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Hmmm wondering if the fact you find it hurts so much means you are not THAT bi... I might be wrong... just a thought... maybe you are just exploring????

Red x "

Well a girl can still find anal really sore if not done right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As any girl with a vag will say you gotta be relaxed and in to mood. Even more so with anal.

My advice:

1/. Buy yourself a douche, beginner butt plug and lube.

2/. Have a warm bath and relax - quality me time -have a glass or two.

3/. Get comfy on your bed and self-pleasure in a teasing manner

4/. Caress/massage your bum cheeks going closer to your hole

5/. Lube a finger or 2 and massage the opening and slip a finger in - just to get your bum used to the pleasure

6/. When you are ready - lube the butt plug, GENTLY massage and slide it in. Dont force it all in - just what you are comfy with until you want to take more.

7/. Once your bum is used to having a butt plug, buy a bigger one if you want or enjoy your first cock.

And when it comes to play - your lover should be following the same routine - foreplay until your ready.

And do enjoy - anal with an experienced giver at same time as oral buy an experienced giver can be truly mindblowing

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By *wick119Man
over a year ago

Prestwick

Clean out passage / small plug / bigger plug - leave in for hours then let the good times roll!

Only speaking from strapon / fisting with my gal but same thing really.

Enjoy

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