FabSwingers.com forum: Greedy Girl Gang Bangs

By *ntense fun OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Heading to one this weekend and it will be my first

Wondering what to expect

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Dicks I would presume

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By *ahootCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

pmsl!!! so funny Kola!! ask a stupid question! lol...

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By *ntense fun OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Ok perhaps it wasn't phrased right

I was more meaning specifics

But fair dos it was a stupid question

Was meaning

Like will I have much say in what's going on

I'm assuming no still means no

What is the ratio of males to females

But thanks anyway for the replies

I'll just suck it myself (literally and metaphorically) and see

And if anyone else is thinking about going down this route in future and would like advice then I'll happily let you know about my experience and won't make them feel like crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly all to common, trying for a cheap joke in the forum.

Enjoy yourself, and the fact you are willing to offer advice after the event is a bonus.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

This thread is a classic example of why the Fab forums need a major review and update.

Most forums these days have 'stickies', threads at the start which are permanent, contain FaQs, and also house threads dealing with regularly asked/aired subjects, like this.

Wakey wakey Admin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok perhaps it wasn't phrased right

I was more meaning specifics

But fair dos it was a stupid question

Was meaning

Like will I have much say in what's going on

I'm assuming no still means no

What is the ratio of males to females

But thanks anyway for the replies

I'll just suck it myself (literally and metaphorically) and see

And if anyone else is thinking about going down this route in future and would like advice then I'll happily let you know about my experience and won't make them feel like crap "

Just two questions OP;

a) How much say would you like to have? Total control of events maybe?

b) Whatever makes you think that in these or any other circumstances "NO" would mean anything else but NO!?

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By *ntense fun OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I've been in a fair amount of group fun where I have had total control and loved it

This is me stepping out of my comfort zone and pushing my boundaries that little bit further so no I don't want indeed I really don't want control lm just not really not sure what to expect and what will be expected of me and I was hopeful that some nice fabber might come along and give me some info

But never mind

As to your second question there have been situations I've heard of that once you are in the zone you are anyone's game !

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"I've been in a fair amount of group fun where I have had total control and loved it

But never mind

As to your second question there have been situations I've heard of that once you are in the zone you are anyone's game ! "
that would be your choice to relinquish control never I will say again never should no be taken for anything but that. As to what to expect it really iss simple dicks plenty of them all wanting to use any orifice available

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I've been in a fair amount of group fun where I have had total control and loved it

But never mind

As to your second question there have been situations I've heard of that once you are in the zone you are anyone's game ! "

OP, please ignore the nasty comments, it says more about them than you.

Might I suggest that if you're trying to push boundaries, maybe have everyone agree to a safeword? That way you can relinquish control to an extent, but you ultimately have the final say.

I've never been to a greedy girls day, although I have had 4 guys at once at a club (one of whom was my partner so he knew to pull the plug if I was unhappy).

Have fun and keep us posted!

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

No will always be no in any aspect of life and swinging. Do what your comfortable with. Be confident and enjoy it. It's an experience and a boundary pusher. Just have a good time. That's all that's required. Most are friendly and will welcome you in. It's not clique like most in swinging. Just have a good time and embrace it x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

If you go together, at least mr can keep an eye on you and make sure you feel comfortable.

Other than that, have fun and if it gets too much....stop

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"I've been in a fair amount of group fun where I have had total control and loved it

But never mind

As to your second question there have been situations I've heard of that once you are in the zone you are anyone's game !

OP, please ignore the nasty comments, it says more about them than you.

Might I suggest that if you're trying to push boundaries, maybe have everyone agree to a safeword? That way you can relinquish control to an extent, but you ultimately have the final say.

I've never been to a greedy girls day, although I have had 4 guys at once at a club (one of whom was my partner so he knew to pull the plug if I was unhappy).

Have fun and keep us posted!

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which nasty comments if you mean mine perhaps take another look they may not be full of cotton candy but they certainly aint nasty. The op asked what to expect and imo thats precisely what can be expected. If you percieve someones opinion to be nasty report it and im sure admin will take a look and make a judgement.

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By *ntonio24888Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Lol

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By *ntense fun OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Oh please don't fight

I've not taken offence at anything

The first reply was simple

What should I expect

Well dicks

In some ways

To the point and accurate

I wasn't clear what I was asking

I think the comment straight after about my question being stupid was a little hurtful but again I can see why the poster said it

But I've had some lovely and helpful private messages as well as messages on here and I'm now looking forward to Friday but also shitting a brick about it

Anyone sexy coming along to ease my nerves and get me all turned on ?

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By *ntense fun OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm after an answer to my post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if you go kola,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm after an answer to my post

It's like a big party that you get to choose what one or how many you want to play with,

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By *ntense fun OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm kinda getting the feeling you all know each other lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I jumped in with my smart arsed comment thinking it was a cheeky bloke who was posting ...not the lady of the couple. I have, however, apologised privately.

Mouth in gear before brain day! Well, I am getting on...

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts. Can you drop the bickering please. Thanks.

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Do you know the guys that are going ?

Do you them all to be strangers ?

Do you want a free for all or pick and choose.

If you are laying down some rules , make sure any new people arriving no them too

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By *ntense fun OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Do you know the guys that are going ?

Do you them all to be strangers ?

Do you want a free for all or pick and choose.

If you are laying down some rules , make sure any new people arriving no them too"

Thanks

Was just chatting to hubby about that

He will be with me and I think I will chose and then if new ones come in I'll give him a sign as to whether they can stay or not or perhaps even just watch

Who knows

This is a new adventure

And I'm trying to persuade my FB who I was a couple with on here to come along too

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've never been to one yet but I can understand that dipping your toe into something new can be nerve racking. Why not plan to go socially and not to play and if you feel comfortable then join in. Cj and her team do a good job to make people feel safe and to make it an enjoyable experience. Just keep in mind it's supposed to be fun if it's not then you have the right to say no. Good luck xxxxx

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By *uzzyDuck75Man
over a year ago

Glasgow & Yorkshire

"Heading to one this weekend and it will be my first

Wondering what to expect

Would agree with the concenus here....no certainly means no. You always have the choice and you are in control of who plays and who stays.

BTW it'd be interesting to hear how you got on and would you go back

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By *ntense fun OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Heading to one this weekend and it will be my first

Wondering what to expect

Would agree with the concenus here....no certainly means no. You always have the choice and you are in control of who plays and who stays.

I went had fun and would go back

BTW it'd be interesting to hear how you got on and would you go back

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By *ntense fun OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Heading to one this weekend and it will be my first

Wondering what to expect

Would agree with the concenus here....no certainly means no. You always have the choice and you are in control of who plays and who stays

BTW it'd be interesting to hear how you got on and would you go back

I went had fun and would go back

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Yay, glad to hear it

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By *uzzyDuck75Man
over a year ago

Glasgow & Yorkshire

"Heading to one this weekend and it will be my first

Wondering what to expect

Would agree with the concenus here....no certainly means no. You always have the choice and you are in control of who plays and who stays

Fantastic, good on you for taking the plunge

BTW it'd be interesting to hear how you got on and would you go back

I went had fun and would go back "

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