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people takeing the hump if you say no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do guys ect start messageing wanting excuses when u say not intrested .or when they stay 400 miles away and U say no go off on one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys ect start messageing wanting excuses when u say not intrested .or when they stay 400 miles away and U say no go off on one"

I my experience is anything to go on its coz we get so few replies tey want to keep trying with the ones who at least do reply...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys ect start messageing wanting excuses when u say not intrested .or when they stay 400 miles away and U say no go off on one"
mrs dlt gets that quite a bit,if I am turned down I just accept it,say no problem and go looking for another victim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be lucky . I've never in 7 years on this site had a cheeky mail . Always been pleasent.

Hope I've not just cursed myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be lucky . I've never in 7 years on this site had a cheeky mail . Always been pleasent.

Hope I've not just cursed myself "
hang on I'll send a "fancy a shag?" Message and we can rectify it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be lucky . I've never in 7 years on this site had a cheeky mail . Always been pleasent.

Hope I've not just cursed myself hang on I'll send a "fancy a shag?" Message and we can rectify it "

See a day later than the curses 13th aswell

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

To be fair it's not just some guys that get the hump , some fems and couples can strop ect to an Olimpic standard . I guess that some have a sense of entitlement. Maybe it's an ego thing . Or maybe their exspecations of the site are unrealistic.

What ever the reason ,if they can't take a no with dignity and grace then confirms not type of person you'd want to meet.

Fortunately there are wonderful people across all the categories and just focus time and energies on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys ect start messageing wanting excuses when u say not intrested .or when they stay 400 miles away and U say no go off on onemrs dlt gets that quite a bit,if I am turned down I just accept it,say no problem and go looking for another victim "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they go in a huff cause you say no or don't reply, then good, you have dodged a bullet as they are not worth it

Here endith the lesson lolllll

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

[Removed by poster at 14/05/16 11:12:33]

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I've been on here since day dot and to be honest yes I've had abusive messages but I could honestly count in one hand how many there have been so I too must be doing something right .

I don't get involved with argumentative people and if anyone starts that carry on I simply block them and they are gone in an instant .

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Happened for the first time last week to us. Single guy got in touch, despite the fact we're not looking for guys. We politely declined then ignored a further mail asking why not and finally got an email about how he was laughing at us and some other stuff I never bothered reading. Just blocked and moved on.

It was amusing though imagining the rage while he was typing that last message claiming to be laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually send a polite reply saying no thanks, never had one abusive message back in all the years we have been here. All drama free here

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have had a few abusive messages

The worst one was 'I hope you get murdered'

The funniest one was 'You're a 2 dollar-hooker' lol

But to be honest, I smile, block and think Phew!! Glad I said no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened for the first time last week to us. Single guy got in touch, despite the fact we're not looking for guys. We politely declined then ignored a further mail asking why not and finally got an email about how he was laughing at us and some other stuff I never bothered reading. Just blocked and moved on.

It was amusing though imagining the rage while he was typing that last message claiming to be laughing "
worst of it is its the attitude of guys like that who lead to guys being blocked which prevents the genuine ones from getting in touch

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

taking the hump is a little poor, if someones not interested that's the way it goes i suppose lol

no need to get abuse, just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tough titties if they don't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tough titties if they don't like it"

pmsl, not too tough, don't like it when they are like bags of sugar (40 year old virgin).

Abusive of in a huff, block, move on and you've missed an egit

best way to be

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By *mberbCouple
over a year ago

Lothians

Thats why you have a block button and notes now you can put to peoples profiles and they dont know. thats the way we work it.

No point in reporting as nothing ever happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had abuse for turning anyone down. Mostly because nobody in their right mind would ask to. One lady did, but anyone who knows her knows she's not in her right mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tough titties if they don't like it

pmsl, not too tough, don't like it when they are like bags of sugar (40 year old virgin).

Abusive of in a huff, block, move on and you've missed an egit

best way to be"

Its sand not sugar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one recently who replied that he was winding me up and that he could never fuck anything as fat as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one recently who replied that he was winding me up and that he could never fuck anything as fat as me."

From what I see, he has no taste.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol i get that too .why bother to message then .thanks guys .and electric ur hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one recently who replied that he was winding me up and that he could never fuck anything as fat as me."

I get this too...

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By *anarkshirelassCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Lass got one recently...declined his offer then came the 'fatty' one liner.

This from a guy that's 43 in age.

Suffice to say lass wasn't at all bothered...but I'll hopefully meet him at a social night, if he's got the balls to attend one, then it will be can I have a word with you in the back alley.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Lass got one recently...declined his offer then came the 'fatty' one liner.

This from a guy that's 43 in age.

Suffice to say lass wasn't at all bothered...but I'll hopefully meet him at a social night, if he's got the balls to attend one, then it will be can I have a word with you in the back alley. "
still man doesn't know what a sexy stunning woman your Mrs is then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys ect start messageing wanting excuses when u say not intrested .or when they stay 400 miles away and U say no go off on one"

Because they're arseholes

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I had one yesterday who, when I said you're not what I'm looking for, asked me how did I know and that I didn't know what I was missing. Immediately blocked. Well it was that or come back with a rude response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worth lowering yourself to their level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst I've had was some crazy threatening to throw jelly tots at my car.

Bee-atch wouldn't throw wine gums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst I've had was some crazy threatening to throw jelly tots at my car.

Bee-atch wouldn't throw wine gums."

Wine gums? Wouldn't that be like drinking and driving? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, but you can drive over potholes and speed bumps without spilling anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horsey and Max have it right - proves your instincts were right to say no

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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Is this a case of "can't get a hump so best take one"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a case of "can't get a hump so best take one"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm to busy fighting the duck hoard to take the Gump..i get rejected everyday asking for help in my quest....they all be sorry if the ducks win though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever get knockbacks. . mind you that's because i'm to old to message most women on here, lol.

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