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By *lawless dove OP   Woman
over a year ago

bothwell

Has anyone done this on here.

Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.

My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you recognise any of the people whom they have met,are they fab regulars?

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By *lawless dove OP   Woman
over a year ago

bothwell

Only 1 displayed

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

How are you going to know who she is when you meet?

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By *lawless dove OP   Woman
over a year ago

bothwell

I've sent my photo when very tipsy at the weekend. She said all the guys she's met have been happy to go along with it.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I guess it's up to you.

If it's a public place at least you've got a chance to walk away if you don't like them

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

If I'm confidant, I wouldn't send a picture wheres the need. They are going to like what they see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a photo could be anyone, why not chat online and cam together surely that is best?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As been said, public place not at other end of the world, that way you haven't lost anything from a no show or if you don't like, no real harm done then really

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If I'm confidant, I wouldn't send a picture wheres the need. They are going to like what they see. "

You can't possibly know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a blind meet ...omg ....more more more of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are meeting in a public place then that's something I suppose but I would also make sure someone knows where you are. I would also ask that person to phone you half to three quarters of an hour into the meet to make sure you are ok. So if you want to leave then that's a perfect opportunity to do so without causing offence or its a check you are happy and safe. You can never be too careful. Good luck OP.

Red x

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By *ad ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I had a blind meet once. Actually it was more of a blindfold meet. It was scary, exciting and because I'd chatted quite a bit and spoken to her it was amazing.

Like others have said. Meet in public place first or have a chaperone sat in a corner near you.

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By *heesyheadbandMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

no harm in going along to meet her, just make sure it's a public place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are meeting in a public place then that's something I suppose but I would also make sure someone knows where you are. I would also ask that person to phone you half to three quarters of an hour into the meet to make sure you are ok. So if you want to leave then that's a perfect opportunity to do so without causing offence or its a check you are happy and safe. You can never be too careful. Good luck OP.

Red x "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone done this on here.

Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.

My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications. "

Go with your instinct

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By *lawless dove OP   Woman
over a year ago

bothwell


"Has anyone done this on here.

Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.

My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications.

Go with your instinct "

That's exactly what I am going to do. Thank you all for your comments and advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm confidant, I wouldn't send a picture wheres the need. They are going to like what they see. "
lmao .. How do you know they are going to like what they see ? ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone done this on here.

Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.

My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications. "

Personally I prefer a blind meet. Gives that little extra adrenaline rush.

Arrange a time, a pub/cafe, mention what you're going to be wearing, a basic physical description, turn up 15 minutes early, and watch out for the other lost looking sole.

Simple.

Exactly what used to happen with contact magazines and classified personals. Does anyone else remember the days before digital cameras? You know; when you needed to send the film away because you didn't want the local photo place to keep a copy for themselves

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

When we first started we met a few couples without swapping pics first. We don't now - no pic, no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"turn up 15 minutes early, and watch out for the other lost looking sole.

"

Careful now, you could end up like a fish out of water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"turn up 15 minutes early, and watch out for the other lost looking sole.

Careful now, you could end up like a fish out of water "

Yep,you wouldn't want to be left floundering.......*cue tumble*

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Not something I'd ever consider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think as long as u feel comfortable then its up to u.

i have never met anyone i havent seen first. but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"turn up 15 minutes early, and watch out for the other lost looking sole.

Careful now, you could end up like a fish out of water "

Yup caught on autoincorrect. Kinda wish it'd at least swap out with something totally wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm confidant, I wouldn't send a picture wheres the need. They are going to like what they see. lmao .. How do you know they are going to like what they see ? ???? "

My thoughts as well lmao

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Has anyone done this on here.

Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.

My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications. "
would never consider it .

My time for meets are limited as it is so I'd rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than meeting someone I might not be attracted to

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"Has anyone done this on here.

Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.

My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications. would never consider it .

My time for meets are limited as it is so I'd rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than meeting someone I might not be attracted to "

100% agree. I barely have time to even chat to new folk on here, let alone take time out to meet someone I haven't even seen! I'm very picky so it'd just be a waste of time for me.

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