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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After the recent social and hitting it off with a member of the hotels staff a phone call this morn left me disgusted

Us swingers get a bad name and publicity thats uncalled for would you leave your own bedroom in this way?????

One double bed piss soaken watersports or dam lazyness get a grip

Used condoms left lying

One lovely lady even left her soiled panties

Come on guys and gals have a little respect if not for yourself then for those of us that do give a shit about what others think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

boak!!!

glad i went straight home

thats discusting,

would hate to see these peoples homes if thats the way they leave hotel rooms

discusting

auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bad news!!!!-again makes u think of them increasing room checks to make sure the rooms not being used by a bigger party than its intended for!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"bad news!!!!-again makes u think of them increasing room checks to make sure the rooms not being used by a bigger party than its intended for!!!!!!"
here here if this is whats happening all over then i see more blocks coming up again us that do enjoy our hotel fun ,they turn there noses at the large amounts going back to rooms unless there is complaints they let it be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After the recent social and hitting it off with a member of the hotels staff a phone call this morn left me disgusted

Us swingers get a bad name and publicity thats uncalled for would you leave your own bedroom in this way?????

One double bed piss soaken watersports or dam lazyness get a grip

Used condoms left lying

One lovely lady even left her soiled panties

Come on guys and gals have a little respect if not for yourself then for those of us that do give a shit about what others think

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That is absolutely disgusting...As someone who uses hotels every single week on business I find most hotel staff "turn a blind eye" to having "room visitors" but with actions like the aforementioned we will all find ourselves getting "room spotchecks" by hotel management. This is a practise used by some hotels for "Stag Party's" but it will become the norm over weekend for any kind of groups if so called adults leave rooms in this state.....

Remember last Sunday's papers and how eager they are for a story which I have to say someone at the hotel with happily give them...

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By *bzguyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen and shire

Disgusting more Minks than minx it would appear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't there a clause in hotels booking agreements/ contracts to allow them to bill the room booker's credit card for any additional cleaning services required?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once again it is all down to respect, and seems too many people lack it. If you can leave a hotel room in this state I dread to think what your own home is like. I for one hope not to get invited to it. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to change the subject too much but it surprises me how many doggers quite happily fling used condoms onto the ground or onto the bushes.

Just the sort of thing likely to attract complaints from vanilla users of the location and encourage access controls - not to mention the intrinsic risks of leaving a DNA sample behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i work in a hotel and if the guest is paying cash then they have to leave a £60 dep and if the room is in a state in the morning then they loose the dep same goes for card payments then the card will be charged accordingly, only the other week i had to deal with a pissed bed, used condoms, cum stains up the wall, really not nice to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another reason for the lifting off the name and shame rule as this gives all who used that hotel a bad name

Glad I dont bother going to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another reason for the lifting off the name and shame rule as this gives all who used that hotel a bad name

Glad I dont bother going to them "

And that would work how exactly as the issues above happened off the site and completely out with the sites control?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Name and shame isnt required i think the ones in question will hopefully be disgusted with their behaviour and never do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But will they? Remember your Birthday party last year, and all the fall out that caused... Let's face it some people on here don't know the meaning of discretion. So long as they get their jollies, the don't give a f**k..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay in hotels a lot, I always tidy up, put things in the bin. I even turn down the bed, even though I know they will just strip everything anyway. I think some people just don't seem to care.

Jimmy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we get a night away from our kids I like to know I will have a nice relaxing time.

I dont want to hear people banging on random doors, waking people who have nothing to do with the social we have just been at, shouting down hallways, people smoking in non smoking rooms, d*unks upchucking in random places, the worst being in a bin just outside the lift in one hotel, sadly they missed most of the bin

or people telling me (loudly) that the staff are "little hitlers" for doing their jobs.

I like to go back to my room and not worry that Im going to be kept up all night unless the person I'm sharing with is the one to do it

And having worked as a cleaner I know its a thankless job so I would NEVER want to leave a room in a mess never mind how the OP mentioned, quite frankly to me thats a very grotty person (or people) who would do that and say nothing, or try to clean it up in some way

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should show far more respect ...

Kat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stayed in a few hotels over the years

For a mattress to be swamped badly, does the hotel not have a stock of spares for wastage.

Folk wet beds either deliberate or accidental,I wonder how many beds are turned over to hide a wet spot or a simple valence sheet is used.

Ps never ever been a swampy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yuk! Thats just awful. Do some people have no shame. Poor Poor staff. x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Wow, what a class act the people responsible are.......

hookers off the street behave better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can add anything further to what View has said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one can't add much more than what I have read I am digusted about this. I am so glad that we didn't hold the social in the same place as I know the management would be coming to us for recompence. It is things like this that makes you want to have nothing to do with socials and I mean attend them I hope that the people that left the rooms in this state are ashamed of themselfs.

We have stayed in many hotels and how we leave them is the way we find them except that the bed has been slept in and has been striped so that the staff have a head start. The odd time I have even left a tip for the girls as the room has been so clean, it isn't fair on them to walk into that in the morning they don't get paid enough for them to deal with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who stays in hotels at frequent intervals, we both find this shocking and disgusting. Also, as we have often wondered about dipping our "toes" into the socials, don't think we will bother, it's a shame that as usual the minority spoil it for the majority. Pity you didn't know who it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant understand why folks would wanna sleep all nite in a soaked bed either is beyond all comprehension ,let alone leave soiled knickers about an what ever happened to bins or down the lavi with condoms ffs they do supply bins in all rooms and bathrooms,

the both rooms i was in one i booked an one i stayed in were left as they were when we all arrived, i mean 5 mins tidy up time is all it would have taken ffs

i hope person / persons responsible are disgusted with themselves as much as we all are ,

sioux

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

I have been known to cause a flood or two myself which is why i take a shower curtain with me if i intend to play. always tidy up, even take air fresheners and spray the room before leaving to. there is no need for the mess

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(disgusting) that sums it up, some people have no morals but who ever they were knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lazy sods, among all you pack, just one asda poly bag or the like,a quick zip round the room before you depart,"dive-bomb" the condoms(fill em with water)and woosh gone down the loo,all little things that keep what you do discrete and you can depart with yer conscience clear.

And you leave lookin like your average person that spent a night in hotel. Its no difficult whoever you were.

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is totally dsgusting that the people / person did this , but if someone cant deal with their own personal hygiene how can they be expected to keep their hotel room clean ,my opinion is they should be banned from socials altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words fail me on this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm wonder if the responsible person bothered to shower after spending the night in a piss soaked bed.....or if was easier to pull worn clothes back on again and totally swerve clean water of any kind!! I hate to think...

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Sw Scotland

Boaaakkkk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of all the people i seen at the social i did not think any one of them would have left rooms in such a state,totally disappointed in my thinking and at the behaviour of the guilty parties involved,hope there card gets hammmered for the cleaning bill.

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By *urioduoCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

not condoning this in any shape or form but the one question I have is how did the hotel know the persons using this room were swingers we dont sign the register advertising the fact, if another member has told hotel staff majority of folks in the hotel were swingers then they now have all details of folks i.e home addys etc which then exposes all the folks there to possible .... well we all saw papers on Sunday .... just my thoughts and as I say not condoning what happened its totally out of order

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By *MRcdoltMan
over a year ago

The Hurlet (Barrhead)

"Another reason for the lifting off the name and shame rule as this gives all who used that hotel a bad name

Glad I dont bother going to them

And that would work how exactly as the issues above happened off the site and completely out with the sites control?

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I agree not the site's fault but if the criticisms are valid then that rule should not apply - name em & shame em I say !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not condoning this in any shape or form but the one question I have is how did the hotel know the persons using this room were swingers we dont sign the register advertising the fact, if another member has told hotel staff majority of folks in the hotel were swingers then they now have all details of folks i.e home addys etc which then exposes all the folks there to possible .... well we all saw papers on Sunday .... just my thoughts and as I say not condoning what happened its totally out of order"
funny i was thinking that too lol

auds ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally outrageous behaviour, no excuse for it and i hope the people involved are thoroughly ashmed of themselves , it shows a total lack of descretion and self respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of the reasons i have never got involved in the party scene, i like my privacy and it would appear that from the comments etc on here my caution in getting involved has been a very wise move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a straightforward thread about one set of people makin an arse of things.

If just take on board that part and kinda ignore the speculative stuff, its a good point well made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I point out to anyone wishing to try socials that this behaviour doesn't always go on at socials etc ....socials are very enjoyable evenings.

As for what happened at the hotel hopefully this is a lesson to people !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With Jo on this ,the social was a great night and what happened afterwards was nothing to do with organisers

I posted this as i was disgusted and thought it might bring shame on the ones involved so keep yer hate mail from my inbox guys i posted for a reason and havnt named or shamed anyone and would post similar if i felt the need

Forums are great for getting your point across and all comments are appreciated we all have diffrent _iews

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is just Fkn Mingin ....

Buboo .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree way u buboo

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

Take some consiliation from the number of people who have taken the time to condem the one who was so irresposible to leave the room like that.

From the thread the perps are very much in the minority and the rest of us are happily nailing our respect colours to the mast.

It is good to see so many decent people standing up against such behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we decide to organise another social the person who done this will most certainly not be welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so glad we went home. Next time everyone is at a social there is always gonna be that 'was it them?' looking around..

Hopefully they will be ashamed of themselves and be more thoughtful in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

colin i hada great night atthe social , but a for the hotel, i dont know as fact who messed up the hotel but can take an educated guess to who it was as there was only 1 person there that was disgustingly unhygeinic.

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By *urioduoCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

had it been determined that it was indeed people who were at social responsable for this, last social we were at there was loads of us in the premier inn, there was right racket during the night involving drink, sex, loud music smoking in rooms etc police were involved too but had nothing to do with swingers who were occupying a large number of rooms in the hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This makes me think shame for those who organised and others who attended the social, are all organisers now to take into consideration how others will behave afterwards in hotels? Or do we just charge extra to provide them with a nanny and baby-sitter?

It makes one wonder who exactly are the adults. Sickened that this person(s) behaviour marred the evening for some. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made some enquiries this afternoon and I understand the cheap and cheerful hotel chains have an informal warning system in an attempt to ensure anyone who's left a room in poor condition or treated staff badly etc finds it difficult to book a room again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the same way Laine I could crawl under the floor boards because of this as I was one of the people who orginised (sp) it and feel that I should apoligise to the hotel for the actions of one or two people as if it hadn't been for the social they wouldn't of been there and this wouldn't of happened. Makes me think twice of doing it again. I only wish that the whole night even after was enjoyed without this happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just say whos room it was? Stops people trying to double guess, we stayed at the hotel and lots of people know we stayed there, does this make us suspects???

This sort of forum could blight the people who stayed there, all of us...

So was it our room? G

ps all we did was get changed and then sleep in ours.... just in case you thought it WAS us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gandl as we can't name and shame on the site we can't name names and I know for a fact it wasn't YOU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it , name names be rebelious... lol it may have been our cousins room from Aberdeenshire field, they are not used to living indoors lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the same way Laine I could crawl under the floor boards because of this as I was one of the people who orginised (sp) it and feel that I should apoligise to the hotel for the actions of one or two people as if it hadn't been for the social they wouldn't of been there and this wouldn't of happened. Makes me think twice of doing it again. I only wish that the whole night even after was enjoyed without this happening

They are adults Chelle, and responsible for their own behaviour.

However I do think it a timely reminder to others to employ a little more discretion, the hotel had no need to know some guests were swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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did u book the room???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laine wasnt there Avi. We were so who did the deed? ohh and what deed was done?

Lets be honest, i moan if i have to hoover lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what i was meaning was for chelle gandl... she shouldn't feel bad cos she didn't book the room.... no need for her to be embarrassed thats what i was trying to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what i was meaning was for chelle gandl... she shouldn't feel bad cos she didn't book the room.... no need for her to be embarrassed thats what i was trying to say"

Ok the way I see it is that if the social wasn't on the hotel room wouldn't of been booked by the people who left the room in the state it was in. As they had booked the room because of the social. I just feel a bit guilty and upset that the fun that was had at the social wasn't carried on to the hotel and became marred by this. I think that xplains it in a word I just wish that it didn't happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Chelle applaud yourself here for having a great night and raising a fantastic amount for a worthy cause ,im a bit miffed now i brought this to attension will keep my disgust to myself from here on

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think you were right to bring this into the light FF, we catch enough bad press as it is without this disgusting kind of behaviour, the only thing the guilty party can do now if gather what personal respect they have, delete their profile and close the door quietly behind them with their head hung in shame for the trouble they've caused.

Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes what happened wasnt nice...hopefully people will now take heed of what people think and it will make people think from now on.....its not the first time it has happened and wont be the last....

i do feel thou the thread is turning rather sour and that isnt a good thing...leave things be and let the person read it and have a think....not run them off the site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chelle applaud yourself here for having a great night and raising a fantastic amount for a worthy cause ,im a bit miffed now i brought this to attension will keep my disgust to myself from here on

Happy swinging

You were right huni I am glad that you did bring it up I think now though it is time to put it to bed so to say No pun intended by the way lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think the last poster is right, this needs putting to bed now.

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