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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone interested in getting enough folk up for this to make it happen?

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By *rmag3ddonMan
over a year ago

East lothian

Sounds like a good idea i'd be up for that.

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By *ohn_spartanMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Excellent idea

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Didn't realise it was full of old people? Saturday night there I'm sure that half the people there was under 40? So an under 40's night would have even less people attending

Old people and swinging eh

Maybe we could also see if enough people are interested in a over 6ft, under size 12, red head night?

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't realise it was full of old people? Saturday night there I'm sure that half the people there was under 40? So an under 40's night would have even less people attending

Old people and swinging eh

Maybe we could also see if enough people are interested in a over 6ft, under size 12, red head night?

John "

So i am under 40 under a size 12 and a red head i can wear big heels for the 6ft bit lol.

So anyway this is someone else business and the world of fab is not about just your tastes if it was it would be hell of a boring. You joined fab to have a change from your sex life and spice it up. Everyone is the same. But if you want to pay cjs bills and dictate who should come to her club then you will have a right to say who should come. I have many friends from a wide age range and age is just a number if age is your problem its not everyone elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw can't have that, most my fave people that go to cjs are golden oldies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I highly doubt this would ever become a thing but entitled to want it I guess. I can't see CJ wanting to alienate a group of people who have helped to get her club where it is today. Our preference is also for couples under 40 but we'd never write someone off whos over that mark let alone try and tell them they can't attend a particular night lol. Age is but a number anyway there are some seriously sexy folk on this site who are north of the big four O.

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

If it's going to happen then it better be soon as hit the big 40 in September

The beauty about cjs and swinging in general is the verity of people you meet! It's a big enough club now that there is plenty of room for all age groups without alienating a certain category!

Imagine it would be hard to control!

"Right folks have you got ID with you? I can see some grey hair creeping in there"!!!!

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

"Right folks have you got ID with you? I can see some grey hair creeping in there"!!!!

"

I'm only 38 too.... Grey hair and a ginger beard and I'm the one under 40, Karen is hot as fuck and way younger looking than me and she's over 40

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"Right folks have you got ID with you? I can see some grey hair creeping in there"!!!!

I'm only 38 too.... Grey hair and a ginger beard and I'm the one under 40, Karen is hot as fuck and way younger looking than me and she's over 40

John "

Hot as fuck i agree

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Would CJ be able to attend by special dispensation ?

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Does that mean I won't get in,and me being a regular, well over 40 under 5' and not a redhead ?

oh well best to get my knitting out and have a night in then!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

If Cjs was so packed that It was having to open more nights then perhaps. But till then it would be a bad move. I'd say set up a party and once you have a big enough list contact Cjs and see what they say.

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"

"Right folks have you got ID with you? I can see some grey hair creeping in there"!!!!

I'm only 38 too.... Grey hair and a ginger beard and I'm the one under 40, Karen is hot as fuck and way younger looking than me and she's over 40

John "

Yeah you are punching well above your weight! Lol

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm sure Cj's would organise a private party...if that's what people want..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that's a bit cheeky tbh. There was a lot of young couples there on sat. And even the "the over 40s" looked great. Iv seen a lot older at clubs in my time

Him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing like making us feel like old codgers before our time!

Mrs KK would just make it Mr KK get yer pipe and slippers out you're past it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing like making us feel like old codgers before our time!

Mrs KK would just make it Mr KK get yer pipe and slippers out you're past it! "
looked at your pics you ain't past it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my age it is very hard to achieve a meeting so why not go the full way and exclude me from cj s as well

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By *elicious squeezeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Oh well I'm definitely past it!!! Would seem a shame to exclude people because of their age. It's all about fun and meeting like minded people. ??

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Oh well I'm definitely past it!!! Would seem a shame to exclude people because of their age. It's all about fun and meeting like minded people. ??"
lol but its ok to exclude based on sex

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

We're an early/mid 30s couple but out preference is 40's so not for us.

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire


"

"Right folks have you got ID with you? I can see some grey hair creeping in there"!!!!

I'm only 38 too.... Grey hair and a ginger beard and I'm the one under 40, Karen is hot as fuck and way younger looking than me and she's over 40

John "

I thought u were older than Karen

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"

"Right folks have you got ID with you? I can see some grey hair creeping in there"!!!!

I'm only 38 too.... Grey hair and a ginger beard and I'm the one under 40, Karen is hot as fuck and way younger looking than me and she's over 40

John

I thought u were older than Karen "

He had a tough paper round

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Although playing devils advocate. I see both sides.

Attended cjs a few times and found it was mostly older people who I wouldnt choose to play with. However had a great social night anyway.

Also attended a few times and although younger people there have choose to play with over 40 as they were more on my wave length and ticked my boxes.

So suppose it depends if u play based on a number or on a connection.

I'm 31 and certainly an acquired taste so I tend to make my choice based on who I get along with or in some cases don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would defo go to an under 40's night!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

If there's a demand for it then yeah, why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree its a good idea, could also do a over 30s night so then us 30-40 yr olds could go to both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ageism rears its ugly head once more...

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By *exquisiteCouple
over a year ago

bathgate

And what would happen in the couples where one is over 40?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I'm just jealous I fall into the "old codger" category these days.

On the plus side if we did an over 40's I might make it as one of the young wipper snappers

Ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe asking Caroline privately would have been a better idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you're missing out on some good fun if you exclude the over 40s! Some of the best times I've had at CJs are with those that don't normally fit within my age preference. That's the beauty of the place!

If we are throwing out suggestions for nights... I'd like a "uniform appreciation night."

I'm sure someone finds my old Morissons uniform sexy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been wanting to go to cjs but nervous because I'm a young single guy, what's it like for young guys like me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been wanting to go to cjs but nervous because I'm a young single guy, what's it like for young guys like me ?"

Toys r us probably

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't realise it was full of old people? Saturday night there I'm sure that half the people there was under 40? So an under 40's night would have even less people attending

Old people and swinging eh

Maybe we could also see if enough people are interested in a over 6ft, under size 12, red head night?

John "

My my my John is that a wee harrumph haha

I think singles nights would be good every so often, spoke to Caroline about it but without age restriction

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

There were lots of young couples there on Saturday. Got to agree with the majority of people age is only a number, we know lots of amazing sexy couples over 40. Not sure Cj would do this but worth asking I suppose.

Why not choose a night then ask lots of under 40s couples to go the same night? That way everyone's happy?

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"Right folks have you got ID with you? I can see some grey hair creeping in there"!!!!

I'm only 38 too.... Grey hair and a ginger beard and I'm the one under 40, Karen is hot as fuck and way younger looking than me and she's over 40

John "

Yeah we all only talk to John to get close to Karen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"Right folks have you got ID with you? I can see some grey hair creeping in there"!!!!

I'm only 38 too.... Grey hair and a ginger beard and I'm the one under 40, Karen is hot as fuck and way younger looking than me and she's over 40

John

Yeah we all only talk to John to get close to Karen "

Isn't that what everyone does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the club facilitates enough play areas for 'play'..regardless of age,gender and sexuality.Its easy enough to have a private room.

There isn't really any need for 'exclusivity' to one particular group in my opinion, I'd prefer to socialize with all..and of course have my sexual preference for play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

besides I'm a terribly young 40

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"Didn't realise it was full of old people? Saturday night there I'm sure that half the people there was under 40? So an under 40's night would have even less people attending

Old people and swinging eh

Maybe we could also see if enough people are interested in a over 6ft, under size 12, red head night?

John "

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"Although playing devils advocate. I see both sides.

Attended cjs a few times and found it was mostly older people who I wouldnt choose to play with. However had a great social night anyway.

Also attended a few times and although younger people there have choose to play with over 40 as they were more on my wave length and ticked my boxes.

So suppose it depends if u play based on a number or on a connection.

I'm 31 and certainly an acquired taste so I tend to make my choice based on who I get along with or in some cases don't "

exactly, age is irrelevant, there are plenty of absolutely stunning "over 40s" and a shit ton of less so attractive people in their 20s-30s that go as well. Why not just have a "attractive people only" night instead? I jest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG gutted at the thought .... met lots of lovely people all ages and find .... variety is the spice of life xx have fun no matter what xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'm 37 and C is 41, so that rules us out!

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By *anarkshirelassCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

I would assume that any planned event would have to out with the 'normal' arranged nights thus being on a Monday to Thursday night.?

And if so how busy would it be?

Also, I can't see CJ informing regulars who are decrepit ,old and saggy that they can't attend because its 'crèche night' lol lol

It is her business after all.

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

and me with my zimmer frame, will Cj turn me away from the door ?

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee

under 40's night ?? so next it will be under 30's under 20's ??

id put money on an over 40's night topping the lot as we really do know how to party

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By *fcouple3343Couple
over a year ago

hamilton

Went to cj's for the first time on Saturday and there were loads of young people there! We personally thought it was a great mix of people. I felt reasonably young till I read this post! At least my partner could still go to an under 35 night while I sit at home with my knitting and a cuppa lol

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow


"Didn't realise it was full of old people? Saturday night there I'm sure that half the people there was under 40? So an under 40's night would have even less people attending

Old people and swinging eh

Maybe we could also see if enough people are interested in a over 6ft, under size 12, red head night?

John "
Ohhh Count me in for the last part

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Didn't realise it was full of old people? Saturday night there I'm sure that half the people there was under 40? So an under 40's night would have even less people attending

Old people and swinging eh

Maybe we could also see if enough people are interested in a over 6ft, under size 12, red head night?

John Ohhh Count me in for the last part "

Haha I never even thought about you hehe x

John

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By *aviecazCouple
over a year ago

cumbernauld

You got to be having a laugh I started going to cjs in my early forties so now 50 yrs old and this post has made me feel ancient too many regulars would say no to it tbh and think caroline would have difficulty in saying yes to it just saying caz xxx ??

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire


"You got to be having a laugh I started going to cjs in my early forties so now 50 yrs old and this post has made me feel ancient too many regulars would say no to it tbh and think caroline would have difficulty in saying yes to it just saying caz xxx ?? "

Ur only as young as u feel and ur banters some of best of all the people I've meet

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Under 40s only .... well that's me truly fucked!! Or not as case would be lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under 40s only .... well that's me truly fucked!! Or not as case would be lol x "

Ya look 40 though ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like how the op is saying nothing now!

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Now where did i put that zimmer

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I think from a business sense it wouldn't be financially viable as cj's would make far more money opening the club to everyone at a weekend than a select group such as under 40's .....I think it would be a big drop in cash as the under 40's has always been lower in numbers.....and at the end of the day it is a business that's only opened select days of the week.....I could be wrong but that's my view.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

OP asked a perfect reasonable question as far as I can see. There wasn't any malice in it.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"OP asked a perfect reasonable question as far as I can see. There wasn't any malice in it."

To be fair ineas early 20's when I first started swinging and felt the same as the op...

But anytime there's a select group asked for it seems to put some noses out of joint ....just like the bbw night etc.....

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"

To be fair ineas early 20's when I first started swinging and felt the same as the op...

But anytime there's a select group asked for it seems to put some noses out of joint ....just like the bbw night etc....."

I know, I was replying to some of the earlier posts.

I agree there's a problem on fab that as soon as people think they may be excluded from something they seem to get upset but that's an issue for them. I recently turned 40 so I'd be excluded from these nights but I don't see a problem with that and can understand why.

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Most people on here lie about there age on here. Younger make themselves older and older make themselves younger. How would it work. Bring your I'd lol to prove your under 40. I'm in the old and past it at the grand old age of 41 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall into the horrible group of being an ugly over 40s fabber but doll is very hot red head but would need 8 inch heels to get to six foot so guess were barred but I see an opportunity here I'm looking into getting a stock of red hair dye and five inch heels for the ladies and any men who would prefer not to go to such an elitist night you could get the same and we will crash the next tv/cd night

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Decided not to go there lol

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"

To be fair ineas early 20's when I first started swinging and felt the same as the op...

But anytime there's a select group asked for it seems to put some noses out of joint ....just like the bbw night etc.....

I know, I was replying to some of the earlier posts.

I agree there's a problem on fab that as soon as people think they may be excluded from something they seem to get upset but that's an issue for them. I recently turned 40 so I'd be excluded from these nights but I don't see a problem with that and can understand why."

Says more about the people who's noses get out of joint lol....I am with ya lol

Nowt wrong in wanting a select group....age, sex, race etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

To be fair ineas early 20's when I first started swinging and felt the same as the op...

But anytime there's a select group asked for it seems to put some noses out of joint ....just like the bbw night etc.....

I know, I was replying to some of the earlier posts.

I agree there's a problem on fab that as soon as people think they may be excluded from something they seem to get upset but that's an issue for them. I recently turned 40 so I'd be excluded from these nights but I don't see a problem with that and can understand why.

Says more about the people who's noses get out of joint lol....I am with ya lol

Nowt wrong in wanting a select group....age, sex, race etc ."

The point here is if you want to have a select group thats why people organise there own parties not to tell a club owner who they should invite. Would be the same if someone suggested an over 40s night. Its cjs business and alienating certain groups would have an effect on her business. No one goes to a club to expect everyone to be to there tastes. And you wouldnt expect that going in to town if you where on a night out.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"

To be fair ineas early 20's when I first started swinging and felt the same as the op...

But anytime there's a select group asked for it seems to put some noses out of joint ....just like the bbw night etc.....

I know, I was replying to some of the earlier posts.

I agree there's a problem on fab that as soon as people think they may be excluded from something they seem to get upset but that's an issue for them. I recently turned 40 so I'd be excluded from these nights but I don't see a problem with that and can understand why.

Says more about the people who's noses get out of joint lol....I am with ya lol

Nowt wrong in wanting a select group....age, sex, race etc .

The point here is if you want to have a select group thats why people organise there own parties not to tell a club owner who they should invite. Would be the same if someone suggested an over 40s night. Its cjs business and alienating certain groups would have an effect on her business. No one goes to a club to expect everyone to be to there tastes. And you wouldnt expect that going in to town if you where on a night out. "

As I said earlier cj's is a business therefor won't go for this idea I said that in an earlier post....and I don't think the op is telling cj anything I think they were just putting some feelers out.....I think there's a place for all sorts of nights ....under 40's night work in other clubs down south....but as I said earlier i don't think it makes business sense for cj's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

To be fair ineas early 20's when I first started swinging and felt the same as the op...

But anytime there's a select group asked for it seems to put some noses out of joint ....just like the bbw night etc.....

I know, I was replying to some of the earlier posts.

I agree there's a problem on fab that as soon as people think they may be excluded from something they seem to get upset but that's an issue for them. I recently turned 40 so I'd be excluded from these nights but I don't see a problem with that and can understand why."

I dont think people are huffed ..i just think as its been said that as a Business outlook it would be in the best interests of CJS ..too cater for all walks of life.Im sure they do well and others enjoy that continued success.

Personally ..ive never attend nor feel inclined too.

I think in any post ive read it just seems like banter in a non-malicious way.

Not unless ive over-looked a post that states anything different.

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By *inkyCJWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I have been watching this post with interest. I never expected to see someone suggesting on the forum for an under 40's night but TBH I have been asked many a time by various guests for an over 40's night. Not that they have anything against younger guests but that they feel a bit, dare I say it (flabby) lol with some of the perfect younger bodies around. Anyway interesting points made and business as usual at the moment. CJ xx

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"I have been watching this post with interest. I never expected to see someone suggesting on the forum for an under 40's night but TBH I have been asked many a time by various guests for an over 40's night. Not that they have anything against younger guests but that they feel a bit, dare I say it (flabby) lol with some of the perfect younger bodies around. Anyway interesting points made and business as usual at the moment. CJ xx

"

Haha @ flabby

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Op looks like a party is a way to go...apartment party maybe

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I have been watching this post with interest. I never expected to see someone suggesting on the forum for an under 40's night but TBH I have been asked many a time by various guests for an over 40's night. Not that they have anything against younger guests but that they feel a bit, dare I say it (flabby) lol with some of the perfect younger bodies around. Anyway interesting points made and business as usual at the moment. CJ xx

"

I resemble that remark ( flabby ) sadly

Even with the corset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again I can see both sides of the argument.

It's hard to be in your 20's and turnig up somewhere that has an average age that matches your parents - definitely not meant to offend older people but can be a turn off. I can also see the opposite being true.

As cj said probably a place for both an over and unders night.

As usual the fab community members take it personal and get uppity about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again I can see both sides of the argument.

It's hard to be in your 20's and turnig up somewhere that has an average age that matches your parents - definitely not meant to offend older people but can be a turn off. I can also see the opposite being true.

As cj said probably a place for both an over and unders night.

As usual the fab community members take it personal and get uppity about it "

I dont take it as a personal issue...what I dont really like is 'select' groups.To me cj's has always been a great social place(for all sorts ,even me ). Yes its a swinging club, so there will be people wanting sex..but if you or they are outwith the sexual interest, I pointed out above that its easy enough to find a private area if you dont want mingling with your personal undesireables.

I'd rather any club had no exclusions, especially for the socialness that is in essence the actual modern version of swinging.

When questions like these come up, I often feel its like people tend to think that having their pre-set to-do listers, that it'll make up for their lack of finding enough hot/young people like themselves via the site itself.

besides the point that cj's has been attracting many younger types in recent times anyway..to the point it'd be pretty impossible an entire under 40's night that everyone would find the time to get round to shagging everyone...mainly cos most of the nite theyd be posing anyway

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

How about an OAPs discount? Doh, I meant disco!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again I can see both sides of the argument.

It's hard to be in your 20's and turnig up somewhere that has an average age that matches your parents - definitely not meant to offend older people but can be a turn off. I can also see the opposite being true.

As cj said probably a place for both an over and unders night.

As usual the fab community members take it personal and get uppity about it

I dont take it as a personal issue...what I dont really like is 'select' groups.To me cj's has always been a great social place(for all sorts ,even me ). Yes its a swinging club, so there will be people wanting sex..but if you or they are outwith the sexual interest, I pointed out above that its easy enough to find a private area if you dont want mingling with your personal undesireables.

I'd rather any club had no exclusions, especially for the socialness that is in essence the actual modern version of swinging.

When questions like these come up, I often feel its like people tend to think that having their pre-set to-do listers, that it'll make up for their lack of finding enough hot/young people like themselves via the site itself.

besides the point that cj's has been attracting many younger types in recent times anyway..to the point it'd be pretty impossible an entire under 40's night that everyone would find the time to get round to shagging everyone...mainly cos most of the nite theyd be posing anyway "

Well said Pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact is ...Swinging is about consenting Adults participating in mutual sexual exploration.

I can tell you from the early days of Fabswingers anyone under the age of 28 or younger was pretty much rare.It does seem over the years that there is a massive increase in the younger generation coming through.

As the young lass has stated ..Why would she want to be around people that matches the same age as her parents..By the same token the reveresed attitude would be why would people the same age as her parents want to be in the same presence as their kids..

What happened too like-minded people enjoying mutual discussions and inter-acting through conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about couples where one is under 40 and one over? Does the 'oldie' not get in?

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By *ifeCouple66Couple
over a year ago

Fife

Defo agree! Make it 20th May weekend so that me and my fiancé can come as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about couples where one is under 40 and one over? Does the 'oldie' not get in?"

Good point....

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By *ad ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I didn't read every post on this thread. There are lots of drawbacks in CJ having an under 40's night or an over 40's night. Most have been discussed here..... but if you find enough willing to attend an under 40's night you could approach CJ and ask to privately hire the venue for a night and then organise it amongst yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could turn out like a night of geordie shore/towie or last of the summer wine..

respectively speaking...

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

An under 40's night.??

what about the older woman and under 40's guys only....

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Love your way of thinking lol x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"What about couples where one is under 40 and one over? Does the 'oldie' not get in?"

I'd need to leave C in the car with the window down, if he's lucky I'll give him a bag of crisps and a can of pop

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"What about couples where one is under 40 and one over? Does the 'oldie' not get in?

I'd need to leave C in the car with the window down, if he's lucky I'll give him a bag of crisps and a can of pop "

Surely a mini roll too

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

This thread made me smile

Am 45 and flabby but I am told I look younger...

If I hold my flab with a tight corset and leave my walking stick at home, can I go to the Under40's night lol

Been to Cjs a few times and personally the last thing I check out is people's age lol but that's me

Am happy to go there and mingle between the young and the old bodies doing my thing

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"What about couples where one is under 40 and one over? Does the 'oldie' not get in?

I'd need to leave C in the car with the window down, if he's lucky I'll give him a bag of crisps and a can of pop

Surely a mini roll too "

Depends how good he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far too shy to go (no really) so it won't ever matter to me... however I can see the plus points and the negatives ones ... personally I think it should always be mixed

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Think we oldies need to watch out, there could be several bennefits to this idea for the management. First there would be no need to instal a stairlift to enable the aforementioned auldie's access upstairs. The need for emergency recusitation equipment would be negated. neither would there be the enormous queues at the toilets as our weakened bladders threaten to burst. The carparks would not be filled with disabled taxis able to carry our wheelchairs, zimmers and crutches. and lastly no need for sack barrows or supermarket trollies to carry the recently sudden deseaced from the club, after they have suffered cardiac arrest from chasing the younguns around the place. We also would'nt inflict the rest with our severe lack of sense of humour. LOL

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee


"Think we oldies need to watch out, there could be several bennefits to this idea for the management. First there would be no need to instal a stairlift to enable the aforementioned auldie's access upstairs. The need for emergency recusitation equipment would be negated. neither would there be the enormous queues at the toilets as our weakened bladders threaten to burst. The carparks would not be filled with disabled taxis able to carry our wheelchairs, zimmers and crutches. and lastly no need for sack barrows or supermarket trollies to carry the recently sudden deseaced from the club, after they have suffered cardiac arrest from chasing the younguns around the place. We also would'nt inflict the rest with our severe lack of sense of humour. LOL"
hahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I pre book for the " Flabby night " please !!!!!!!

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Think we oldies need to watch out, there could be several bennefits to this idea for the management. First there would be no need to instal a stairlift to enable the aforementioned auldie's access upstairs. The need for emergency recusitation equipment would be negated. neither would there be the enormous queues at the toilets as our weakened bladders threaten to burst. The carparks would not be filled with disabled taxis able to carry our wheelchairs, zimmers and crutches. and lastly no need for sack barrows or supermarket trollies to carry the recently sudden deseaced from the club, after they have suffered cardiac arrest from chasing the younguns around the place. We also would'nt inflict the rest with our severe lack of sense of humour. LOL"
oh Mr Blue I want to chase you round the place but if I catch you please remind me what to do as this oldie is demented....Rx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we oldies need to watch out, there could be several bennefits to this idea for the management. First there would be no need to instal a stairlift to enable the aforementioned auldie's access upstairs. The need for emergency recusitation equipment would be negated. neither would there be the enormous queues at the toilets as our weakened bladders threaten to burst. The carparks would not be filled with disabled taxis able to carry our wheelchairs, zimmers and crutches. and lastly no need for sack barrows or supermarket trollies to carry the recently sudden deseaced from the club, after they have suffered cardiac arrest from chasing the younguns around the place. We also would'nt inflict the rest with our severe lack of sense of humour. LOL"

I think the defibrillators in the dungeon idea would be good though. Much better than a violet wand. Certainly more entertaining. And bugger the riding crops, a good wallop with a crutch would be more satisfying. St Andrews cross? Nah, stretchers uprighted, that way people could get carted out without being untied, and the clothes wouldn't need much cutting off. Not much fabrics in a thong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and me with my zimmer frame, will Cj turn me away from the door ?"

The day that happens will be when CJ decided to retire

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Think we oldies need to watch out, there could be several bennefits to this idea for the management. First there would be no need to instal a stairlift to enable the aforementioned auldie's access upstairs. The need for emergency recusitation equipment would be negated. neither would there be the enormous queues at the toilets as our weakened bladders threaten to burst. The carparks would not be filled with disabled taxis able to carry our wheelchairs, zimmers and crutches. and lastly no need for sack barrows or supermarket trollies to carry the recently sudden deseaced from the club, after they have suffered cardiac arrest from chasing the younguns around the place. We also would'nt inflict the rest with our severe lack of sense of humour. LOL oh Mr Blue I want to chase you round the place but if I catch you please remind me what to do as this oldie is demented....Rx"

Ahhh Mrs R, as darwin says in the origin of the Species "nature finds a way" Then we could manage, but probably forget with our impending Alzheimers, and do it all again and again. You'd end up Be-jesusing me into oblivion

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes and some of us that are on the wrong side of 40...oh jesus please help us to remember how to shag and have fun and keep up with the younger ones!!!

Mr Blue are you over 40?...you are just like a 20yr old..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesss she is hot as fuck ????????????

Sharon is over 40 but much sexier and hotter then under 40 ladies !! And she is hot as fuck too .. Ps she dosent have chuuby body and ginger hair (

Tony


"

"Right folks have you got ID with you? I can see some grey hair creeping in there"!!!!

I'm only 38 too.... Grey hair and a ginger beard and I'm the one under 40, Karen is hot as fuck and way younger looking than me and she's over 40

John "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Psss want to buy a fake id, ages available 37, 38 an 39......

Going fast, first come first served....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our tastes and preferences. That's what makes the world go round. Each to their own as they say.

Me, I'm happy being an oldy and meeting oldies and I'll leave the young yins to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and some of us that are on the wrong side of 40...oh jesus please help us to remember how to shag and have fun and keep up with the younger ones!!!

.."

There's many "younger" ones who'd struggle to match your enthusiasm and stamina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we oldies need to watch out, there could be several bennefits to this idea for the management. First there would be no need to instal a stairlift to enable the aforementioned auldie's access upstairs. The need for emergency recusitation equipment would be negated. neither would there be the enormous queues at the toilets as our weakened bladders threaten to burst. The carparks would not be filled with disabled taxis able to carry our wheelchairs, zimmers and crutches. and lastly no need for sack barrows or supermarket trollies to carry the recently sudden deseaced from the club, after they have suffered cardiac arrest from chasing the younguns around the place. We also would'nt inflict the rest with our severe lack of sense of humour. LOL"

See now I've just got visions of a Benny Hill comedy chase scene in CJ's (music n all)!

Ex

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Well the unders have maybe never seen the movie cocoon all us auld geriatrics swinging from our zimmers and taking the odd artificial limb off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be good to have a BBW night for us fatties lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the difference between meeting someone that 39 and a half years old and someone who's 40 and ten days old (apart from 192.5 days of course!) Does it mean they play better or talk differently? Or do you feel you have a mental block once the clock ticks over to the big 4.0.? Of course not.

Why don't you look to organise your own party though?

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Think we oldies need to watch out, there could be several bennefits to this idea for the management. First there would be no need to instal a stairlift to enable the aforementioned auldie's access upstairs. The need for emergency recusitation equipment would be negated. neither would there be the enormous queues at the toilets as our weakened bladders threaten to burst. The carparks would not be filled with disabled taxis able to carry our wheelchairs, zimmers and crutches. and lastly no need for sack barrows or supermarket trollies to carry the recently sudden deseaced from the club, after they have suffered cardiac arrest from chasing the younguns around the place. We also would'nt inflict the rest with our severe lack of sense of humour. LOL

See now I've just got visions of a Benny Hill comedy chase scene in CJ's (music n all)! Benny Hill! Have we met? LOL

Ex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmmm, not amused,

we wont be allowed to attend x

if its ever allowed at cjs x x

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By *issncuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

erm.......might just be being pedantic here.....but with due respect to Cj and Michelle......who would open the place and supervise?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's many a fine tune been played on an older Fiddle ! X

That is all

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