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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it to much to expect on a swingers site ?

Why lie about being married , can accomadate etc .isn't a good start to trying to meet someone. Surely honesty is best. Lies have a habit of coming back to haunt you.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"is it to much to expect on a swingers site ?

Why lie about being married , can accomadate etc .isn't a good start to trying to meet someone. Surely honesty is best. Lies have a habit of coming back to haunt you."

And bite them in the bum

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By *alnsanCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Too many people try to use different persona for different walks of life but if they find they can't be honest with themself then you have no chance of them being honest with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always trust a dishonest man to be dishonest.

It's the honest ones you need to watch out for.

~ unknown quote

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I don't understand why anyone feels the need to lie on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why anyone feels the need to lie on here"

Some folk don't view them as lies...

The truth is always subjective... there is my truth, your truth and THE truth.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Unfortunately some people will say what ever it takes to further their own agenda . This is not exclusive to here and happens anywhere . I find at least here it's easier to suss the liers .

Ideally no people wouldn't lie but we know it's the real world .But the comfort I take is most are honest and the ones who lie will get found out .Karma is a great thing .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being honest is truthful with no Inbetween. A lie. Is a lie..no matter how much you try to justify it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being honest is truthful with no Inbetween. A lie. Is a lie..no matter how much you try to justify it..

"

In the situation you referred to initially that is very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"O, what a tangled web we weave when first we practise to deceive"!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


""O, what a tangled web we weave when first we practise to deceive"! "

I practice trying to meet some folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well.i have been here about nearly a year and have met a few nice women and couples but lots of superficial girls who think there it and (there no).it's a nightmare trying to find a nice regular playmate in here most girls go for looks rather than giving someone a chance then hey they get a nice surprise a nice genuine person

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

A lie never gets you anywere be honest upfront best way to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?"

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee

seriously on sites such as this why lie ??

be open be honest

far too many both male and female on here play games

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?"

I doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?

I doubt it "

There's an exception to every rule and anyone who wears white so well must be it if anyone is

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?

Yes "

To late Steph got in first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe nothing. Trust no one.

Lots of folk can't even be honest about a simple thing like their age.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?

Yes "

A child

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?

Yes

A child"

Only if they're too young to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?"

Since we are all human, I very much doubt it Miss Red.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this might be a bit strong but i believe all of us are just total

Hypocrites me included because we have all at sometime in life lied even if it has been a little white one plus how many people would tell the truth if someone outside of Fab asked them if they where a swinger

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

One of the regular 'lies' seen on here are the people who re-invent themselves with another profile, trying to promote an alternative personna.

Often after they've caused some sort of upset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always honest, but people on fab pick and choose what they want to hear when it comes to honesty.

Sometimes I'll say things in the forums then receive abuse messages for it, people only like the truth when it suits them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?"

I might be pushing it with 'curvy', but to the best of my knowledge I've never lied on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?

Since we are all human, I very much doubt it Miss Red. "

Wise words Jinty and exactly my point. I also agree with Thoas and Cult on their points. Just to be clear I feel the OP is correct in what she says but it is interesting that the overall answer to her question is that honesty is the best policy when there have been posts on Privacy and Infidelity where the overall agreement (though not exclusive) is that people’s reasons for being here are their own and should not questioned which negates this one to an extent.

I am not judging any of that at all I just find human behaviour very intriguing. I guess Cult hit it on the head when he said people only like the truth when it suits them. In saying that my opinion for what it’s worth is that everyone’s reasons and business is their own on here and that should be respected as you don’t know their reasons, but… when it comes to meeting then one should be up front and honest so the OP is spot on too.

As you also said my dear Jinty – oh what tangled webs…

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Honesty starts and ends with trust

If your don't trust how can yout expect honesty.

Op everyone I'm sure are guilt to not being totally honest about somethings even you I'm sure

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"You can complain that Fab is riddled with lies and half-truths, but is it really any different to real life?

To be devil's advocate... is there anyone that has never told a lie?

Since we are all human, I very much doubt it Miss Red.

Wise words Jinty and exactly my point. I also agree with Thoas and Cult on their points. Just to be clear I feel the OP is correct in what she says but it is interesting that the overall answer to her question is that honesty is the best policy when there have been posts on Privacy and Infidelity where the overall agreement (though not exclusive) is that people’s reasons for being here are their own and should not questioned which negates this one to an extent.

I am not judging any of that at all I just find human behaviour very intriguing. I guess Cult hit it on the head when he said people only like the truth when it suits them. In saying that my opinion for what it’s worth is that everyone’s reasons and business is their own on here and that should be respected as you don’t know their reasons, but… when it comes to meeting then one should be up front and honest so the OP is spot on too.

As you also said my dear Jinty – oh what tangled webs…

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I dont think the ops problem is with the lies and deciept to what is meant to be their one true love. Its more that they attempt to make you dublicitous in their deception by hiding this from you.by decieving folk on here they remove choice from prospective meets. Its another indicator of a me me me attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie all the time on here, I'm forever telling single guys we're not looking for any more guys while we actually are. I lie to save me from telling the truth that they do nothing sexually for Mrs A

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