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Taken from another post but good advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought i would put my post from another thread in here for Single Males, Hope you digest this.....

People do meet and it's the ones that stick at it, regularly get to socials, create a unique profile to them, unique style of pictures, guys that won't shag anything and are genuinely fun, people that are not complaining or causing arguments, want to actually get to know someone before meeting, willing to travel....

That's just in my view summarising it,

My own experience, I joined the site as a single male a year ago after 5 years being around the scene on and off as a single male/Cpl , first meet within a week as I went in chat and had banta and tongue in cheek cheekiness, first social not long after that, had a few more meets where I was driving hours up and down the country and expense of hotels and that, got a regular fuckbuddy, went out with her mate, left site, re joined, few more socials, met my misses on here, broke up but kept and still close (Going to swingfields with her) few more socials, and here I am today, all because I'm a gobby twat in the right sense, I'm mad as a hatter and became different from the normal type of guy on here, you want to leave your mark, maybe my youth helped but not by much as I see other guys that just be themselves prosper from this great site.

So if your a single male reading this ...... Start the emphatic land of hope and glory music,...... Here's my 11 quick steps on how to fully prosper from this site ......... 1)Don't expect to get it from anyone and anytime, you have to stand out to them. 2) Be unique. 3) Spend atleast an hour on your profile and truely sell yourself. 4) Don't be a twat and whiney. 5) Get to a social and be prepared to travel to one and/or travel to meets. 6) Have banter. 7) Don't ask for a meet straight away in messages. 8) Spend atleast 5-10 mins on a opening message after reading the profile thoroughly and not copy and paste. 9) Don't obsess over a girl and seem needy. 10) Have a variety of pictures on your profile and not just cock ones, or if they are cock ones make them stand out (reference sunglasses one on my profile.) 11) Spend that 5 pound to become a site supporter and get in chat more often and join in with the convo.

Now I know that might not appeal to some of you but them 11 steps might make your stay on this site more pleasant, WARNING them 11 steps DO NOT guarantee a definite meet but will increase your chances. Also yes I probably will get some stick saying "that's not how the site works" etc.... But in reality you have to stand out from the masses of single males

Thank you for reading

Lone_wolf.

xxxx

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Step no. 1 add pictures to your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Step no. 1 add pictures to your profile "

surely the most important too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Step no. 1 add pictures to your profile "

I prefer anonymity and love my privacy

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Everyone is unique and we all stand out in our own ways for either all the right reasons or all the wrong reasons.

What the op has written worked well for him but that's not to say it will work well for everyone.

Just be yourself and let things progrest how they are ment to in a natural way.

Rome wasn't built in a day but for some if they haven't met in the first few weeks they are throwing thier rattles out the pram moaning about it.

Far to many men and women moan about the quality of meets they are having and I believe that's down to the fact if they ain't meeting every week then the sites crap or if people ain't falling over themselves to meet them they are timewasters...Slow down relax and just let things happen ...most importantly keep it fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's broken step no 4 already with a moany status about being bored

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

No pics on profile = no interest from me. Need something to look at to get an idea if I'm interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buying my tena's in bulk now! This place is hilarious.

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By *alnsanCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Step no. 1 add pictures to your profile

I prefer anonymity and love my privacy "

Have always thought that about hidden profiles in regards to privacy for whatever personal reasons may be, but don't get why people put effort into having a decent written profile & only having friends only or no photos available to compliment their profile, think some would benefit from even a single photo (not all photo's need to be revealing).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry to all as it seems i might have mislead people with this post especially with the first paragraph .

I took this post from another section of the site as i thought it might help some single guys out as it seems to have got a great response on the other section but people seem to think it is me who wrote this ( would love to take credit ) but the credit goes to someone else who does have pics on there profile ( if you look through the sections you will see the original poster ) .

As for me i am not here to meet people as i am happy the way my life is so thats why i like my anonymity and privacy . Thanks

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Sorry to all as it seems i might have mislead people with this post especially with the first paragraph .

I took this post from another section of the site as i thought it might help some single guys out as it seems to have got a great response on the other section but people seem to think it is me who wrote this ( would love to take credit ) but the credit goes to someone else who does have pics on there profile ( if you look through the sections you will see the original poster ) .

As for me i am not here to meet people as i am happy the way my life is so thats why i like my anonymity and privacy . Thanks "

I understood that this was someone else's comments lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

A wee suggestion from me; check over your profile before you submit it, correcting spelling, punctuation and grammar.

It's important to some people!

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee

while you may like what you see or hear on here, no amount of pictures or online conversation can compare to an actual meet......that's why socials have there uses , putting names to faces and actual face to face talk ....then and only then can you move on

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