FabSwingers.com forum: Admiring from a distance

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Do you have that one person who you admire but for one reason or another don't make a move on them but instead choose to admire from a distance ?

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Aye. Jessica Alba, she's too far away to need a restraining order

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yes. But I'm not saying who as I'm a monk

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By *ylons_gurlTV/TS
over a year ago

Dumbarton

I do, but I can never ever say. Someone in my work. Sometimes I want to tell, get it out and in the open but I fear getting hurt. So I will continue to just look from a distance (in an unpervy way) lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Shame most prefer to sit in silence than take the chance by letting the person know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup,one I know and one I don't. I don't really send out many emails anyway basically due to the high amount of emails fems get from guys at it is. I only send ones to those I already chat to so I think the two I like won't be hearing from me anytime soon ha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In everday life Yes, but I wouldnt risk losing her friendship just to get my leg over.

In Fab life, where do I start, hubba hubba

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but I am concerned about her need to buy large amounts of Tena Lady. (I am not into watersports).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same. Old story we never say as we don't want rejection. There was someone years ago. Never said a word now it's to late. Just regret never letting them know just how much they helped lighting up my life. So take the change it's better than doing nothing life is to dam short.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

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I've often thought this too but been proved wrong many times .

Go on take the chance and don't live with regrets

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

I've often thought this too but been proved wrong many times .

Go on take the chance and don't live with regrets

Definitely... What's the worst that could happen?

K x

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Had someone id liked for ages but wasnt in a position too take it any further and thought they were defo out my league but messaged him other night and ended up going for drinks with him and meeting him again this weekend.

So should just go for it

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

I've often thought this too but been proved wrong many times .

Go on take the chance and don't live with regrets

They live too far away anyway so total nonstarters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

This is definately me ...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Had someone id liked for ages but wasnt in a position too take it any further and thought they were defo out my league but messaged him other night and ended up going for drinks with him and meeting him again this weekend.

So should just go for it

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Brilliant !!! Good for you hope it goes well

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

So should just go for it

Brilliant !!! Good for you hope it goes well

Well was about time i got myself back out there. Been too quiet and one track focused too long.

Sure we will cross paths soon xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

So should just go for it

Brilliant !!! Good for you hope it goes well

Well was about time i got myself back out there. Been too quiet and one track focused too long.

Sure we will cross paths soon xx"
great xxx

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

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thats not something I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

thats not something I believe. "

Snap! Can't view yourself in any lesser light than we see each other, especially on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have that one person who you admire but for one reason or another don't make a move on them but instead choose to admire from a distance ?

Nope

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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes. A certain Chardonnay loving, suit admiring sexpot.

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By *lascumMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

Go for it ... You might find they think that they're out of you're league and wouldn't approach you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the vanilla world there are one or two young ladies but for one reason or another I will not make a move because they are too close to home ie, My best mates eldest daughter, or a girl I had a crush on at school has re-entered my world as a client.

On here........yes but due to age restrictions on their part I'm fecked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah there's one guy in particular that I like to admire. Couldn't possibly tell him how I feel. Mainly because I lose the ability to speak around him.... Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never did understand why Scots people don't speak their mind in matters of the heart or lust yet, can be outspoken on other issues

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

thats not something I believe.

Snap! Can't view yourself in any lesser light than we see each other, especially on fab

Lol, well I look at them and then look at me and nope, wouldn't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

thats not something I believe.

Snap! Can't view yourself in any lesser light than we see each other, especially on fab

Lol, well I look at them and then look at me and nope, wouldn't happen "

There is an attraction in your personality .....

Anythingelse comes part of who you are x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

thats not something I believe.

Snap! Can't view yourself in any lesser light than we see each other, especially on fab

Lol, well I look at them and then look at me and nope, wouldn't happen

There is an attraction in your personality .....

Anythingelse comes part of who you are x

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spot on

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By *implyJayGeeMan
over a year ago

Garthamlock

Yeah there's one or two on here I would say I rather fancy. Fab has an ability to knock confidence out you but when either ignored or blocked for no reason etc. For that reason I generally sit back and wait for it to come to me, which isn't often I'm afraid.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've got far far to many all here on fab. Although I am quite shy it's more I just don't have the time or due to distance and I would have to use public transport that keeps me from contacting trying to arrange something. Hopefully one day though xxxxx

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Got a few on our hotlist.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

For most people, there's always at least one other person.

For me, my shyness and previous experiences of admitting an attraction, hold me back.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a few on my hotlist though all live too far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lord there's someone on this thread............I need to man up ...............

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Yes. A certain Chardonnay loving, suit admiring sexpot.

Nae idea giese another clue ?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Possibly more than 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The one that got away" who is now one of my best friends leaves me thinking "what if" most days. But there's no way I'd jeopardise our friendship by attempting to take things further.

There's one on here too, we do chat now and again about random stuff but I can't see it going any further to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the 'not in my league'....maybe I'm missing out on something?

And, yes for me there is one guy, he's just too young!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even the Tena Ladies are out of my league.

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By *lawless doveWoman
over a year ago

bothwell

There was 1 couple from fab but plucked up courage and have since met. No one out with fab at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's someone we like, we message them, what's the worse that could happen (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

L just go for it hehe xx

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ooooo there are a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to just take the shot and see, not worked out too successfully for me so far though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long a distance? Does America count? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So envious of all those with the confident 'go for it' attitude. I'm decidedly in the 'admire from afar' camp.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"How long a distance? Does America count? Lol

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absolutely

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

As some have said what's the worst thing that could possibly happen?

Just go for it you never know you might just gain a new friend if nothing else

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By *elledegoreCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh always ! Male and females everyone has secret crushes ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As some have said what's the worst thing that could possibly happen?

Just go for it you never know you might just gain a new friend if nothing else

Exactly, totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As some have said what's the worst thing that could possibly happen?

Just go for it you never know you might just gain a new friend if nothing else

Or you could say something, be rejected, or worse, ignored, with only the additional neurosis of knowing there's one more person in the world who wants nothing to do with you?

On a brighter note, it's Friday!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"As some have said what's the worst thing that could possibly happen?

Just go for it you never know you might just gain a new friend if nothing else

Or you could say something, be rejected, or worse, ignored, with only the additional neurosis of knowing there's one more person in the world who wants nothing to do with you?

On a brighter note, it's Friday!

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well surly taking the chance is worth it you just never know what the outcome might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well surly taking the chance is worth it you just never know what the outcome might be

Indeed, it's an admirable confidence to have.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"well surly taking the chance is worth it you just never know what the outcome might be

Indeed, it's an admirable confidence to have.

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agreed

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

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snap

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee

all the time ...

good job i'm patient lol

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

"As some have said what's the worst thing that could possibly happen?

Just go for it you never know you might just gain a new friend if nothing else

Exactly, totally agree

Same here. What's the worst that could happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people I'd like to chat to but I'm too young for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst thing that can happen on here is you get ignored.

If there is someone in here you fancy then go for it.

As for distance.......Scotland is not a big nation and anywhere can be accessed within a day if it's the right person

Who knows what it might lead to

Go for it is my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great Advice ..

Its a strange one ...There are probably vast amounts of people on here that are maybe too shy too ask ..and if they had too ask ..they migt well say AYE DEFINATELY ...

Two profiles wanting too meet each other ..but too afraid too ask ..kinna bizarre .

However on that note ..im just too shy in that way ..

sighssss

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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago

West Lothian

Ear worm for today now is going to be brought to you by Bjorn and his ABBA crew ...sing along if you know it

If you change your mind, I'm the first in line

Honey I'm still free

Take a chance on me

If you need me, let me know, gonna be around

If you've got no place to go, if you're feeling down

If you're all alone when the pretty birds have flown

Honey I'm still free

Take a chance on me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so I messaged them and fessed up............the world hadn't ended either........

So I encourage others to do the same no matter what the outcome ...........

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Ok so I messaged them and fessed up............the world hadn't ended either........

So I encourage others to do the same no matter what the outcome ...........

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great hope it works out for you xx

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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Bit disappointed that the dozens who are thinking of me because of this thread have yet to pluck up the courage to mail me. Lol.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Bit disappointed that the dozens who are thinking of me because of this thread have yet to pluck up the courage to mail me. Lol.

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pmsl me too gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Hin newish to the forums love reading them. A while back there was a post 'say hi to your hot list' song have today. And they said hi back

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By *ickstributerMan
over a year ago

Ocala/Belleview/

It's only a quick paddle across the pond: Nessie can do it in mere moments, electronically you've done it in less ! Saddle-up old trout: the spurs been sharpened already

! Mmmmmmm: Rolo's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only a quick paddle across the pond: Nessie can do it in mere moments, electronically you've done it in less ! Saddle-up old trout: the spurs been sharpened already

! Mmmmmmm: Rolo's

No rolos for you chummy after the "old trout" crack! I may pout but I'm NOT swimming across the puddle!

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By *ickstributerMan
over a year ago

Ocala/Belleview/

All the skittles I've had saved for you: four fingers on a line,& a Twinkie when ya Cum ashore! Scared of the water since that last "wine-fueled" escapade in the tub just recently? Rose-tequila & water don't mix? Cum up for air old girl! There's cake here for us "Land-locked" pirates..! Oh: and Rum!

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By *ickstributerMan
over a year ago

Ocala/Belleview/

A nice soft cream cake: so you'll have no fuss removing them wallies for a nibble..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two but feel the same as most. The fear kicks in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A nice soft cream cake: so you'll have no fuss removing them wallies for a nibble..

Put the tequila away darlin'....wee lie doon? That's it...flat out on the mezzanine. Marco?

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By *ickstributerMan
over a year ago

Ocala/Belleview/

Like a steamship on the high seas? With my flagpole all up & waving of an impending plundering of the booty? More rum? Why yes, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have that one person who you admire but for one reason or another don't make a move on them but instead choose to admire from a distance ?

2becomes1, hoping to meet at a social rather than mailing.

Seem to be getting my mails deleted or attracting time wasters this time round on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boss,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boss, "
and my ex boss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My boss, and my ex boss

Thats true, and another wee driver, oh and their is my best pal, but he knows lol

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Only one at the moment and it will stay that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you mean, like having a dirty horny wank over them?

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"What's the worst that can happen?"

Well a friend can suddenly go all weird on you, and then block you from their profile.

I knew there was a reason I didn't admit feelings.

LOL

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dose it matter if there a big age difference between them and myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few people on fab I'd love to meet but I'm not even close to their league

I think it is up to the person in question if your in their league or not.

Go on.. drop them a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I messaged them and fessed up............the world hadn't ended either........

So I encourage others to do the same no matter what the outcome ...........

Well everyone be brave I was and we are currently chatting away...............you know who you are ........

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Dose it matter if there a big age difference between them and myself "
no if they are interested I'm sure they wI'll let you know

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Ok so I messaged them and fessed up............the world hadn't ended either........

So I encourage others to do the same no matter what the outcome ...........

Well everyone be brave I was and we are currently chatting away...............you know who you are ........

"
brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox is full off the back of this thread! Haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"My inbox is full off the back of this thread! Haha"
enjoy the attention lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u don't make the move u won't get any wer in life. Be bold and don't hold back. True what is the worse that can happen. Most guys get a kb. So you are not the only ones. Doing my job I hav to be be brave and take chances . Just to get that uniqu image. Does not always work but if u don't try then what's the point.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

No issues making my interest known normally .Some have worked well, others have got knock backs but comes with the territory .

Currently though just in phase of admiring from the side lines for time being

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By *rmag3ddonMan
over a year ago

East lothian

"My inbox is full off the back of this thread! Haha"

Lol wish i had that luck but maybe I'm still too much of a unknown.

(this is a unsubtle hint to message me if you like me, I'm totally not a nutter.)

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

First you have to tell her ,,,,, then tell her your a tv ,,,, then watch her walk away !!!! Been there got the t shirt

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate

If u don't ask u don't get and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, plus it's all to do with chemistry, attraction and that vital spark that u need for any partnership to work plus if ur no fast ur last xx

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