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By *ripleXrateD OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Does any of the more experienced fabbers give people that are not photo verified or have no verifications a chance, or do you just skip past them?

I'm not talking about people new to the site but the ones that have been around a while.

Xxxxx

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Only if I'd met them in a club. Otherwise zero reply. Or a message with "can't wait for you to get verified" as the only words.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Place no faith in photo veri would meet anyone after I feel they are genuine irrespective of new or not

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Does any of the more experienced fabbers give people that are not photo verified or have no verifications a chance, or do you just skip past them?

I'm not talking about people new to the site but the ones that have been around a while.

Xxxxx"
photo verified doesn't mean a lot so not relevant .

Yes I'd meet someone who wasn't verified and have... we all had to start somewhere .

As kola said if you have a good feel for someone then why not take the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them about CJs and say happy to meet there due to them not being verified. I explain that the site gets easier once you are verified and how laid back it is there and give a description of CJs to them and offer to show around and introduce a couple of people to them. but very few if any ever go after they've been on for 6 months or more. Leading me to believe most aren't genuine or ain't ready to take next step yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does any of the more experienced fabbers give people that are not photo verified or have no verifications a chance, or do you just skip past them?

I'm not talking about people new to the site but the ones that have been around a while.

Xxxxxphoto verified doesn't mean a lot so not relevant .

Yes I'd meet someone who wasn't verified and have... we all had to start somewhere .

As kola said if you have a good feel for someone then why not take the chance "

Amazing eyes dynomite x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm always happy to meet unverified people for a cuppa if we've been talking for a while. Why not? As has been said, we all had to start somewhere

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Agreed, I don't put any stock in photo verified and am happy to meet people for a coffee to give them a verification if I have enough interest in them.

Unfortunately some are just pisstakers though, as a result of 4 guys letting me down over a weekend recently I've now blocked single guys for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed, I don't put any stock in photo verified and am happy to meet people for a coffee to give them a verification if I have enough interest in them.

Unfortunately some are just pisstakers though, as a result of 4 guys letting me down over a weekend recently I've now blocked single guys for a while

"

4? thats shocking no wonder you're pee'd off. I hope they explained why or was it no shows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does any of the more experienced fabbers give people that are not photo verified or have no verifications a chance, or do you just skip past them?

I'm not talking about people new to the site but the ones that have been around a while.

Xxxxx"

It wouldn't put me off but I would need to have had some kind of conversation and pics exchanged. The ususal safety rules etc etc

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By *ifeontheedgeMan
over a year ago

plympton

It wont put me off but def could co tact and a social is essential first meeting x

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By *uncity1Man
over a year ago

dundee

be nice to get an invite lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll talk to anyone really, we've met people who weren't verified & they were lovely.

Going to a club might not be everyone's cup of tea, I know when I first joined I didn't want to go to a club & I didn't really know about socials. But I think it can be reasonably obvious when someone is genuine. I've had worse experiences with prior who are meet verified than with non verified people.

Saying all that, I'd be dubious of a profile with no pics, "fill in later" in the text, no verifications & been on for like 10 months. Then again...they could have joined, not been on for a while due to personal reasons & then come back.

So yeah, I'll basically give anyone a chance till they screw it up.

Mr J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some helpful insights here, good to know

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I give everyone the benefit of the doubt till they give me reason to think otherwise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give a chance but if arranging meet always speak to first or meet socially to be sure.

we all had to start the same way , although recently there seems to be lots of instances where a profile is up one minute then gone soon after .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would give them a chance, people aren't magically more genuine on this site becuase their verified in all the ways possible, I have been fucked about more times on this by verified people than people with no verifications, they're no longer on the site but I've met 2 women on here who had no verifications

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

All you need to remember is that these are all tools the site gives us to help us.

THEY ARE NOT GUARANTEES

Use your instinct, Jedi mind tricks or the force. Meet socially in a public place first for safety. And as is always the way, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All you need to remember is that these are all tools the site gives us to help us.

THEY ARE NOT GUARANTEES

Use your instinct, Jedi mind tricks or the force. Meet socially in a public place first for safety. And as is always the way, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't true.

"

Dunno mate, we said that about Mrs J's creme egg rocky road. It WAS true

Mr J

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"All you need to remember is that these are all tools the site gives us to help us.

THEY ARE NOT GUARANTEES

Use your instinct, Jedi mind tricks or the force. Meet socially in a public place first for safety. And as is always the way, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't true.

Dunno mate, we said that about Mrs J's creme egg rocky road. It WAS true

Mr J"

There's always an exception to every rule

Like you're straight but everyone thinks you're not Mr J

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

No.

We only meet very occasionally so we like to be certain the people we're meeting are genuine and do actually exist.

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By *yz69Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes. If you have chatted via mail on here and think they are ok then that should be enough. If you still feel a little unsure suggest a social. Good luck.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

A photo veri is no big deal, imho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All you need to remember is that these are all tools the site gives us to help us.

THEY ARE NOT GUARANTEES

Use your instinct, Jedi mind tricks or the force. Meet socially in a public place first for safety. And as is always the way, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't true.

Dunno mate, we said that about Mrs J's creme egg rocky road. It WAS true

Mr J

There's always an exception to every rule

Like you're straight but everyone thinks you're not Mr J "

Shhhhh, don't tell anyone #stillnotgay

Mrs J xx

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By *oungmaleformatureMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Really hard getting that first meet.

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Only if I'd met them in a club. Otherwise zero reply. Or a message with "can't wait for you to get verified" as the only words. "

Same!

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