FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes in know it's an oldie but why/how do people block when you have a) never contacted them b) hz w never looked at their profile

Yours

Confused

Edinburgh (ish)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Go to your block list and type their name in

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

A whole variety of reasons OP, not least simply because they can.

As is soften said here, concentrate on yourself, and leave others to do their own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm having a flick through profiles and I come across one that I would never meet for whatever reason I'll hit the block button, just so I don't waste my time 2 weeks later after forgetting I've looked at it

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sometime people block people based on verifications ie blocked by association alone

John

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By *iss_AvaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I only block for 2 reasons.

1st, you've mailed me, an given the profile An pics that have been sent, I know you in R/L. (It's happened more times than I care to remember) so a Definate no go for me.

2nd, you're a twat an are on the 5th, 10th or 45th reincarnation of a deleted profile that gave me grief on your 1st profile.

Other than that, I don't block.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

People talking shite in the chat rooms that nobody wants to hear. Beeelocked.

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By *lascumMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Blocked by association seems to be popular .. Some folk need to grow up a bit methinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People talking shite in the chat rooms that nobody wants to hear. Beeelocked. "

Then how come you havent blocked me yet

I only really block someone if they are abusive or I said no thanks (or deleted their message) and they take that as a sign they should just try again every day with the same copy pasted message fron the first time ... A block just saves both our time

I sometimes randomly come across someone in a verification or forum post that when i click their profile has blocked me and i have no idea who they are or why ... But im guessing they had their reasons

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Who cares?

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've never blocked anyone but I've been blocked myself...as strange as it is it doesn't really bother me as I'd only ever wish to associate with people who want fo associate with me and I guess people just love to indulge the block facility to feel powerful or something or out of fear or maybe their fingers just slipped and clicked the block button whilst in the heat of the moment of masturbating over profile pics lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

May be they block due to posts in forum .May be cringe worthy status in local updates .May be turned of by pics that person uploaded .

Could be any reason ! End of the day the person isn't interested in any contact so why waste any energy on fathoming them out and focus on the people you can message .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I don't lose any sleep over who's blocked me nor do I care why.

They have their reasons same as I have mine too

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I've blocked purely on the basis of seeing an awful cock pic or gross status comment on local updates. That way I don't see them when I look at updates. My bad lol

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

i only really block after i get an overly rude or offensive opening message..

if someone keeps pestering and wont take no for a fucking answer..

folk in chatrooms who are utter tools..

Transphobic idiots...

and twice when ive saw people i know in real life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number of reasons

Behaviour on the forums

Saying they are drug friendly

Too close to home (quarter of a miles radius)

We think we know them

Their profile states no bi men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone should have to justify why they block. It's a site facility so there to be used. Anyone who wants to block me has my blessing. I couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime people block people based on verifications ie blocked by association alone

John

I do that (fucking fruit loop stalker in my area) also if they have bareback pictures or status that give me the Willie's.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"People talking shite in the chat rooms that nobody wants to hear. Beeelocked. "

Haha, I've done that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People talking shite in the chat rooms that nobody wants to hear. Beeelocked.

Haha, I've done that!"

Likewise

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By *rmag3ddonMan
over a year ago

East lothian

I made I funny status update (dozed off with a butt plug in)

Random woman msg'd me with "that's disgusting I don't need to know that" and blocked me. I proceeded to piss myself laughing at the fact that I somehow offended someone's delicate sensibilities on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking is a tool... it has many uses... as all have said... just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares?

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum is actually very good for showing who is quite rude and obnoxious. Often in messages people can be most charming when ot suits them but put them on here and ....definite block material.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"The forum is actually very good for showing who is quite rude and obnoxious. Often in messages people can be most charming when ot suits them but put them on here and ....definite block material."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The forum is actually very good for showing who is quite rude and obnoxious. Often in messages people can be most charming when ot suits them but put them on here and ....definite block material."

Well thats everyone then including myself & yourself. Its a forum. Just ignore & move on

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Yes in know it's an oldie but why/how do people block when you have a) never contacted them b) hz w never looked at their profile

Yours

Confused

Edinburgh (ish) "

I block on general principles if someone racially discriminates on their profile. Saves us both the bother.

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I don't think anyone should have to justify why they block. It's a site facility so there to be used. Anyone who wants to block me has my blessing. I couldn't care less.

Preach it! I'm more interested in how people use hotlists and winks.

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By *homCrownMan
over a year ago

from West Fife

"....Anyone who wants to block me has my blessing...."

Is that an euphemism ??

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block:

Smokers

People with drug references in profile/status

People who don't have the courtesy to reply to nice messages

People with enormous egos

People who don't read the "looking for" bit, and don't fit what I'm looking for

Barebackers

People outwith my age range

People who's age range I'm outwith

Racists

Sexixts

Bigots

Anybody from East Kilbride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and txt spkrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've blocked purely on the basis of seeing an awful cock pic or gross status comment on local updates. That way I don't see them when I look at updates. My bad lol"

I do this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've blocked purely on the basis of seeing an awful cock pic or gross status comment on local updates. That way I don't see them when I look at updates. My bad lol

I do this too"

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I block folk I think are dicks..... And not the good kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The blocks a good tool just like the filters to use in here. Not sure I'd notice if anyone's blocked me. Who cares?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The forum is actually very good for showing who is quite rude and obnoxious. Often in messages people can be most charming when ot suits them but put them on here and ....definite block material.

Well thats everyone then including myself & yourself. Its a forum. Just ignore & move on"

It's not me actually! Why should rudeness be ignored? I think it should be challenged.

I also block people who return and whose previous profiles I have blocked. If I'm lucky enough to spot them. Fool me once, shame on you etc....

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"The forum is actually very good for showing who is quite rude and obnoxious. Often in messages people can be most charming when ot suits them but put them on here and ....definite block material."

This is probably the biggest reason for me blocking people.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"People talking shite in the chat rooms that nobody wants to hear. Beeelocked.

Haha, I've done that!

Likewise

And by shite I mean directing in the non directing rooms.

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