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Bringing up the subject of swinging to your partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would you bring the subject of swinging to your partner . I would love you bring my other half into the scene but have no idea how to

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Hmmmm

Perhaps leave the computer logged on so she can see your single man profile the she might get the hint!

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

None of our business and not trying to preach but why do you have a "Single Guy" profile on Fab when you have a partner that apparently doesnt know you are into swinging?

You are deffo playing with fire.

Is it worth it considering if she finds out you may well become truely single?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm after advice not someone picking through my personal business . Profile can be deleted etc

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm not picking through anything. You're a single guy asking how to get your partner into swinging. It's not the best start is it?

Is your profile honest about you being in a relationship?

Maybe you could tell her about your single profile and let her make up her own to have some fun too. Fairs fair and all that!

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

No one is picking man......you asked for thoughts and ideas.

You posted and we've added.You dont like it then its no skin off our noses.......chill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok - Some Advice !!

Pluck up the Courage or a grow a set of balls as u men say - and just Fooking Ask Her.... simple..

im not saying it works - but it worked for my hubby !! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask her if she has ever thought about having sex with another guy or woman even in a fantasy, then take it from there.

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By *umboarderMan
over a year ago

east lothian

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By *umboarderMan
over a year ago

east lothian

And if she says yes, I fantasise about having sex with the guy from the Royle Family because he reminds her of you its time to enrol in a gym and get a new wardrobe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you bring up the subject of swinging to your partner?

Answer: Very Carefully!

S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check to see if she has a single profile on here. How would you feel if you stumbled across it?

Her profile name is..... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny you say that Greig, we used to be pals with a couple on here last year. He appeared on a male profile a while back, face pic on view and using his name on profile.

2 weeks ago we get a pals invite from the female half who has on her profile 'married female playing away', again using her name!

It's gonna end in tears!

S.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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"How would you bring the subject of swinging to your partner . I would love you bring my other half into the scene but have no idea how to "

I think sometimes people can't win on this site. When a married men thread comes up, they get told to go and ask the wife to swing ....so this man is asking for advice on how to go about it and that isn't right either.

Hi, I think it all depends on how open you are and your wife are.

We are really open anyway, but to get started we just spoke about fantasies...we ended up writing a list of fantasies we wanted to try, then put yes , no or maybe against it, then we swopped lists to see what the other had put.

It turned out we has a lot of fantasies that were the same, and a few the other hadn't thought of but both wanted to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny you say that Greig, we used to be pals with a couple on here last year. He appeared on a male profile a while back, face pic on view and using his name on profile.

2 weeks ago we get a pals invite from the female half who has on her profile 'married female playing away', again using her name!

It's gonna end in tears!

S. "

Would love to be a fly on the wall when that kicks off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How would you bring the subject of swinging to your partner . I would love you bring my other half into the scene but have no idea how to

I think sometimes people can't win on this site. When a married men thread comes up, they get told to go and ask the wife to swing ....so this man is asking for advice on how to go about it and that isn't right either.

Hi, I think it all depends on how open you are and your wife are.

We are really open anyway, but to get started we just spoke about fantasies...we ended up writing a list of fantasies we wanted to try, then put yes , no or maybe against it, then we swopped lists to see what the other had put.

It turned out we has a lot of fantasies that were the same, and a few the other hadn't thought of but both wanted to try."

Thanks for your advice. At least that's 1 reply worth reading . Sorry i'm not as perfect as some of the posters in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New Rugby would be sensible... now i know why there mods lol... bugga lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as bad as the guy who mails you with their single guy's profile swearing they ARE single - even though they have a couples profile up "we're a couple, love each other, best friends" etc. Fair enough, but when you mention the "couple" bit you get the whole "we've spilt but no-one knows yet" bull.

Some men are very stupid.

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By *issnLickCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Agree with poster above - suggesting it as a fantasy is def the way to go, - whilst in the act too - maybe start with "imagine someone watching us right now" - if you get a frosty response you might not want to continue. If you get a pleasant surprise at the notion, build it up into a fantasy and then, once that is a turn-on for both of you, ask "why not turn it into reality?". I'd also suggest a posh party is the way to go to begin, though we have met a few couples that seduced their friends : )

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