FabSwingers.com forum: CONDOMS

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

when you go on a meet who should supply the condoms? we have had a few meets where the guy has said " i dont have any with me " . lucky we always carry some or it wouldve been a no go.

hubby recons these guys who dont have them are playing away and scared the misses finds them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say both safe sex is a mutual thing

As for if single guys dont carry them they may be cheating so if single fems dont carry them does this mean they are cheating or just looking for unprotected sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy turning up for a meet with condoms should be sent packing; there's no excuse for that sort of behaviour. It's like turning up for battle and 'forgetting' your weapon.

I doubt it's fear of her indoors finding them. It's the hope of a bareback shag. Anyone worried about being caught with condoms need only stock up en route to the meet and dispose of any unused on the way home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont take any on a 1 to 1 meet as i think the guy shld provide them,,if not,,,tells you something about them?

a cpls meet jas always takes them and would like to think the other cpls male has them also xx

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your invited to a meet then condoms are essential unless the other person has an allergy to latex or similar and likes to provide their own, best to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry my own, assorted sizes and latex free ones. Ultimately I'm responsible for my own health, no-one else, however I have noticed that more and more guys don't carry them.

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By *umboarderMan
over a year ago

east lothian

I can never find them in extra small unless im on a meet in lilliput lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I always carry my own, assorted sizes and latex free ones. Ultimately I'm responsible for my own health, no-one else, however I have noticed that more and more guys don't carry them."

Me too! And I'd rather use my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can never find them in extra small unless im on a meet in lilliput lol"

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By *ilalbaWoman
over a year ago

kilmarnock

always carry my own as someone else said im responsible for my own health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Affy assumptious o the wummin here thinkin theyre gettin a shag. Maybe the guys just wanted a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Affy assumptious o the wummin here thinkin theyre gettin a shag. Maybe the guys just wanted a chat

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By *uck knows41Man
over a year ago

Arbroath

I would never go to a meet without them its just rude not to andy

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling

"I always carry my own, assorted sizes and latex free ones. Ultimately I'm responsible for my own health, no-one else, however I have noticed that more and more guys don't carry them.

Me too! And I'd rather use my own.

the other thing i think is you never know how long a guys been carrying them? especially if they have been kept in a wallet at some point - body heat weakens the latex

btw, there's a thread in the lounge (i think) which is asking the same questions. might be useful to have a look there for some more opinions.

xAx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only every use the condoms I have bought myself...

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

we always tell the guy not to bring them as we will supply. we work in the nhs and get loads

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are thinking everyone involved in any meets has a responsibility to carry condoms.Someone turning up without them makes us think they either dont give a damn about contraception/Safe sex or is just too mean to buy them.

Who uses which condoms is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its standard "swinging kit", would feel more daft than already am without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always carry my own, assorted sizes and latex free ones. Ultimately I'm responsible for my own health."

Totally agree. Both parties should carry them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only every use the condoms I have bought myself..."

Why? Just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree to both male female should bring condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Affy assumptious o the wummin here thinkin theyre gettin a shag. Maybe the guys just wanted a chat

Oooh my kinda guy. Although always best to bring them just incase lol x

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By *implepleasure00Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Condoms are a must.

We generally have some in the car and some in the toy box along with the vibes, strapon etc.

If a guy turned up without condoms, I doubt he would be taking his boxers off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only every use the condoms I have bought myself...

Why? Just curious."
maybe some devious woman wiil prick them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

wow... didint expect so many replies. thanks guys

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

maybe some devious woman will prick them

Or maybe you would prick a dangerous woman?...LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have condoms.... not for sex, but when Im running late on deliveries and need a pee... much less mess then pissing into a bottle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally speaking i always bring my own - even if for a coffee meet - its not presumptous,its just good sense - if the fem prefers her own also good - least we singing from the same prayer book - there is no reason to not play absolutly safe in this community - my 2 cents as always - bloo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our own, and would take some to a meet. Wouldn't want to just assume other person had them, no condoms = no sex. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always have condoms.... not for sex, but when Im running late on deliveries and need a pee... much less mess then pissing into a bottle...

lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring my own to a meet.

Safe sex is a MUST, so no condom, no sex in my opinion. The raspberry sauce is optional...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always carry our own, buy a pack for the night so that, if required they can be opened in front of the other peeps, and they see that they are safe. Could you really look at a condom from a bag and not say it hasnt been stabbed by a pin (or tweezer point, or keyring, or scissor point) that lives in the bottom of the handbag? We then keep a box at ours, that we put all the loose ones in, bring those to peeps that we do meet to meets with them. Ms Sheets has a seperate clutchbag for just those and nothing else goes in that bag.

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By *dultfunscotland2000Man
over a year ago

Scotland and beyond

I find asking beforehand who's providing condoms is an easy solution. I always play safe and expect others to do likewise. I'm not prissy enough to have a favourite brand so don't care if it's mine or theirs that are used. A good session could use up both supplies

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