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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies just wondering how others choose which messages to reply to. I'm flattered to get so many a day but sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the numbers and it's sometimes interesting what catches my eye.

So what does it for you? X

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Anything that's a one liner or a cock pic gets automatically deleted. As does anyone sending an essay on what they plan to do to me.

I will respond to messages that remember we're a couple, that are polite, respectful and chatty, and that tell me a bit about themselves and what they have to offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't reply to messages from people who clearly haven't read our profile, or who aren't verified, or who have a bare profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought you all just did bulk deletes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought you all just did bulk deletes? "

Nah that's just to you buddy after your anti-curvy girl thread last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to reply to all, but struggle to make the effort with text speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought you all just did bulk deletes?

Nah that's just to you buddy after your anti-curvy girl thread last week "

That wasn't anti-curvy girls, it was anti Michelle McManus!

Some people are just too touchy.

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By *emon99123Man
over a year ago

London

I reply if the person (or people) seems interesting, or looks super hot, or sometimes just to be polite. Not that i get many unsolicited messages anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more inclined to reply to a message if it has a pic attached and I find them attractive.

I tend not to reply to short messages or cock pics.

I especially don't reply to "fancy a fuck" messages or crude ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything that's a one liner or a cock pic gets automatically deleted. As does anyone sending an essay on what they plan to do to me.

I will respond to messages that remember we're a couple, that are polite, respectful and chatty, and that tell me a bit about themselves and what they have to offer"

Are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies just wondering how others choose which messages to reply to. I'm flattered to get so many a day but sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the numbers and it's sometimes interesting what catches my eye.

So what does it for you? X"

For us, you get a vibe. We're pretty clear on what we don't like in regards to text speak etc - yet still they come. They get deleted immediately and blocked. Same with one liners. The 'how are use?' Or 'do youse ever meet?' We do get some good messages and some funny ones too. They catch our attention. For me (Free) M or F, if it's witty, coherent and sounds like you've a 'noggin', even if we don't find the person to our requirements, I'll respond - even if it's a 'no' or 'we're too busy' (which to be fair is most of the time). F

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Anything that's a one liner or a cock pic gets automatically deleted. As does anyone sending an essay on what they plan to do to me.

I will respond to messages that remember we're a couple, that are polite, respectful and chatty, and that tell me a bit about themselves and what they have to offer

Are you?"

Am I what?

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

People always complain about one liners but when you spend considerable time and effort to write a well thought out message to someone that gets read and ignored or deleted or not even read then it does make one want to economize on time,effort and word's....so rather than one line I like to use one random letter of the alphabet to confuse folk lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"People always complain about one liners but when you spend considerable time and effort to write a well thought out message to someone that gets read and ignored or deleted or not even read then it does make one want to economize on time,effort and word's....so rather than one line I like to use one random letter of the alphabet to confuse folk lol"

I don't need an essay, just a brief blurb about them that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this place never leaves me disappointed i was exchanging messages ping pong style with a couple interested in meeting up on Saturday nite and I minute you ask for the old face pic you get the instant fab block

Is it 1, I'm ugly 2, I'm too nice or 3, I'm a irritating c u next Tuesday type of mild mannered guy ??? Lol

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By *alkirkguy77Man
over a year ago

Falkirk


"this place never leaves me disappointed i was exchanging messages ping pong style with a couple interested in meeting up on Saturday nite and I minute you ask for the old face pic you get the instant fab block

Is it 1, I'm ugly 2, I'm too nice or 3, I'm a irritating c u next Tuesday type of mild mannered guy ??? Lol "

Maybe just a guy pretending and not able to send a couples pic. The lack of photo verification is a giveaway. Had a non photo verified couple interested in me only to leave the site when I asked if his partner was keen (also suggested they should get photo verified).

Just one of those things, I find very few messages result in a meet. But it's worth it when it does.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I tend to have a quick look on the profile before deciding to message back or not.

If there profile is blank or says fill in later then it would need to be a very good informitive message telling me all about them.

I won't reply to any creepy ones or ones that should be in the storys/fantasy threads.

I don't mind one liners as long as it's not the "fancy a fuck" ones or just hello.

Xxxx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I always try to reply to everyone. Even the guys looking for a cock to suck. I explain that if they were female they'd have more luck

But then I don't get 3627 messages every day like you ladies so it's easier for me

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I don't mind one liners as long as it's not the "fancy a fuck" ones or just hello."

A guy once sent me 3 messages in one day, all just saying "hi"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll check there profile before opening the message. I do try and reply to messages as I don't get many (got a lot of filters on). Though I won't bother with one or two word messages like hi or how's you. Or text talk messages mainly cause I'm not cool enough to even know what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind one liners as long as it's not the "fancy a fuck" ones or just hello.

A guy once sent me 3 messages in one day, all just saying "hi" "

I've had this too...maybe it's the same guy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's a filter system

1 - the message - is it nice to read? Engaging? Polite? (I don't need war and piece, but equally "free now?" Will gain no favour)

2 - their profile - any info, pics? If so do they meet our wants?

3 - text speak / approach

Sadly, many fail the filter process on here. They might be great guys but they let themselves down

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I don't mind one liners as long as it's not the "fancy a fuck" ones or just hello.

A guy once sent me 3 messages in one day, all just saying "hi"

I've had this too...maybe it's the same guy!!!"

Could well be, can't remember his name now lol

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