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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wondered if anyone else has had this issue:

Seems to be difficult to get verified when starting out. How did everyone overcome this?

Im aware not everyone would want to meet me, to be frank i dont want to meet everyone either, I'm just concerned I'm missing out as there's obviously an element of uncertainty surrounding a new-comer.

Do we think social meets/groups are the best to start out? Thanks to all x

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Your lack of a meet and subsequent verification might have something to do with the statement on your profile "I won't fuck anyone or anything" well if that's the case then I imagine anyone who's on here hoping to meet you would be immediately put off by that just saying...and secondly...patience is a virtue...although I didn't have to wait but a few days after a first joined up before I'd been speaking to two separate couples who wanted to meet me so I suggested to either couple that we should all meet up and that's exactly what we did and boy did we all have an awesome first meet all round...not everyone is as fortunate as me for their first meet...I've had lots of ups and downs on here...you just have to take the good with the bad and keep on keeping on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your lack of a meet and subsequent verification might have something to do with the statement on your profile "I won't fuck anyone or anything" well if that's the case then I imagine anyone who's on here hoping to meet you would be immediately put off by that just saying...and secondly...patience is a virtue...although I didn't have to wait but a few days after a first joined up before I'd been speaking to two separate couples who wanted to meet me so I suggested to either couple that we should all meet up and that's exactly what we did and boy did we all have an awesome first meet all round...not everyone is as fortunate as me for their first meet...I've had lots of ups and downs on here...you just have to take the good with the bad and keep on keeping on "

Thanks for the feedback mate, greatly appreciated.

On the first point; well, its true. I'd imagine most people are the same, would you just fuck anyone? Or anything? Probably not put the best way, but we all have tastes and i'm no different. I do take your point though.

Secondly, yeah i agree patience pays off. Ive no issue being patient, sometimes seems like the lack of communication or engagement is down to my "newbie" status. I've no doubt its also down to me not being to everyones taste...what was my first point again

Again, thanks for the feedback, and the tales of glory. Not jealous at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if anyone else has had this issue:

Seems to be difficult to get verified when starting out. How did everyone overcome this?

Im aware not everyone would want to meet me, to be frank i dont want to meet everyone either, I'm just concerned I'm missing out as there's obviously an element of uncertainty surrounding a new-comer.

Do we think social meets/groups are the best to start out? Thanks to all x"

you don't have any public pics, what you have wrote isnt that bad, apart from the slightly crude bit ninja mentioned. You also smoke, so for those 3 things you'll have put off quite a few girls on fab, not suggesting you lie about smoking!! You say you'll reply to all msgs! Of course you will, if you ever get any, that's not a biggy to girls on here, they know guys are lucky to get one a week, fortnight or month, they get a 100 plus a day!!! I was on for a while before I got a lucky break, girl messaged me, wet met often I got my first veri and things picked up from there on fab for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, the old "Catch 22". Can't get a meet because you're not verified, and can't get verified because you can't get a meet.

Not many women have this problem, I'll wager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get along to cjs mingle and you never know you might get a verifi and a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get along to cjs mingle and you never know you might get a verifi and a meet "

socials work well too

Organised events or just a wee coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get along to cjs mingle and you never know you might get a verifi and a meet

socials work well too

Organised events or just a wee coffee "

That aswell. Been a long time since I met for just a coffee lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meet or webcam

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all for the advice and taking the time to post. Hopefully thank some personally in the future

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Personally, meets in person carry more weight than cam veris so if someone could meet you for a coffee, or you can get along to a club/social, that's your way forward

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