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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there really any need for the abuse that gets hurled at people when they say they're not interested?

Trying to keep my inner psycho Sally at bay.

Why do men do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fragile egos

Keyboard warrior

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surely it's much more dignified to just take it on the chin....?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block. Or if it is abusive, block and report (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really any need for the abuse that gets hurled at people when they say they're not interested?

Trying to keep my inner psycho Sally at bay.

Why do men do it? "

A dented ego and pride. Just means you're better off having said no, as they are children really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just don't get what they hope to achieve by it.

Him: fancy a fuck?

Me: sorry, you're not my type. Good luck!

Him: didn't want to meet you anyway ya fat munter.

How do they expect that to go? Aww no wait please love me! You're my type now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really any need for the abuse that gets hurled at people when they say they're not interested?

Trying to keep my inner psycho Sally at bay.

Why do men do it? "

Well the ones who do obviously don't know what it takes to treat a woman right in the first place. If I do ever send a message its always a polite hello and a few lines first and foremost and not really expecting to hear anything back. A hello back is always a bonus in my book but carries no expectation it will lead to anything else.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Probably the same reason woman do

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Hey I can relate to you on this as I quite often get messages from guys to meet and when I point out that im straight some often respond with some abusive messages....apparently me having sexual contact with another man doesn't make me gay....although I would've considered that as being the dictionary definition....whereas I don't have an issue with anyone else's sexual orientation I at least expect that they offer me the same consideration and respect my sexuality...I've also had single fems and couples respond abusively when I've politely declined their solicitations...it's all part and parcel of fab I guess....upwards and onwards

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Just ignore them and move on,there's lots of fabulous people on fab who are lots of fun and well worth meeting and getting to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just guys, many women on here are just as abusive.

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

U know we can't always be each other's cup of tea. Live and let live my motto x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm fully aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'd much rather be someone's shot of tequila!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's never any need for abuse on here under any circumstances, but some people still feel the need, males AND females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just men, some of the abuse I've had on this site from women would turn the stomachs of some of the most hardened members of the beheading team of Isis.

Guys are arseholes but women have a strange need to be cruel.

No need for it from either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been abusive or pushy n still get knocked back lol yolo

I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I don't understand why !!

As it's has already been said I've had many knock backs (dunno why I'm a belter )

But I'm never anything but respectful to anyone I speak to excluding single guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've had one reply on this site so far, I don't understand the instant jump to abuse if things dont go your way. Surely no one expects a yes everytime they message someone.

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By *rixi DevineWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"I'm fully aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'd much rather be someone's shot of tequila! "

well said!

who wants to be a generic, boring, tepid, cup of standard tea, to suit just any old tea drinkers preferences anyway?,

now, tequila is a whole other story!

i know which i would rather be

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tequila is the devil!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tequila is the devil!! "

Tequila is the devil's nectar! Maybe that's why I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had major abuse from girls thinking they are better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really any need for the abuse that gets hurled at people when they say they're not interested?

Trying to keep my inner psycho Sally at bay.

Why do men do it? "

can you please stop referring to the abusive, immature,can't get a gf, sad little mummy's boys as MEN, I'm a man and don't want associated with the likes of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fully aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'd much rather be someone's shot of tequila! "

You'do be Chinese gunpowder tea

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

We get it for just saying hello to

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Shakira tequila

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Because they can

Doesn't make it right and it is both sexes

Just report them and press BLOCK

It will give you plenty of satisfaction

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow


"Is there really any need for the abuse that gets hurled at people when they say they're not interested?

Trying to keep my inner psycho Sally at bay.

Why do men do it? "
It's their way of confirming that you made the right decision!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get it for just saying hello to "

Ah... But do you mean men or TGirls?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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Why do men do it? "

Because some women act like dicks

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

And 2 wrongs never make a right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just guys, many women on here are just as abusive."

Understatement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm fully aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'd much rather be someone's shot of tequila!

You'do be Chinese gunpowder tea"

I don't even know what you mean by that! Hahaha X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fully aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'd much rather be someone's shot of tequila!

You'do be Chinese gunpowder tea

I don't even know what you mean by that! Hahaha X "

Well, let's say it's a lot more interesting that your average cup of Tetley!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm fully aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'd much rather be someone's shot of tequila!

You'do be Chinese gunpowder tea

I don't even know what you mean by that! Hahaha X

Well, let's say it's a lot more interesting that your average cup of Tetley! "

I'm a Twinnings kinda girl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really any need for the abuse that gets hurled at people when they say they're not interested?

Trying to keep my inner psycho Sally at bay.

Why do men do it? "

Some People Cant Handle Rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fully aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'd much rather be someone's shot of tequila!

You'do be Chinese gunpowder tea

I don't even know what you mean by that! Hahaha X

Well, let's say it's a lot more interesting that your average cup of Tetley!

I'm a Twinnings kinda girl x "

http://www.twinings.co.uk/tea/loose_tea/finest-gunpowder-green

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