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Not giving the under 25's a chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First off I'll start by saying yes this is through experience as I'm 23.

So many times I browse profiles and see that there within range and meet the "criteria" then to find they don't accept messages from people my age. It's so frsutating why is this? Is it they think they'll be to immature won't be able to hold a conversation don't want to be bombarded by "want to fuck tonight" or is it they just don't find those ages attractive. What's your thoughts?

Jack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a preference mate need to get over it, it is frustrating but that's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, under 25 is too close to my oldest son's age. Under 25's usually can't accommodate for the reason we don't accommodate.

R

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

For me, guys under 30 are rather immature, and I've always been drawn to older men. I wouldn't have anything in common with a guy that young, just as I wouldn't be able to relate to a 60yr old guy.

Most people want to meet similar people to them, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally prefer younger men but ultimately it's down to attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us will have children your age x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer younger guys and have been with a few guys in their early 20s, prefer a wee bit older and a guy who can accomodate and usually the younger guy cant

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By *yz69Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not a lot you can do about it. I'm over 25 and still out with the age range on some profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All down to preferences.

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By *gag001Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"For me, under 25 is too close to my oldest son's age. Under 25's usually can't accommodate for the reason we don't accommodate.

R"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many differences. I get what a lot of you's are saying though can tarnish all young people with same immature brush. For instance I've my own home, car responsibilities etc to man of 40 would have. I just hate to see wasted opportunity not come to be. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many differences. I get what a lot of you's are saying though can tarnish all young people with same immature brush. For instance I've my own home, car responsibilities etc to man of 40 would have. I just hate to see wasted opportunity not come to be. X"

Keep trying you will appeal to someone..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many differences. I get what a lot of you's are saying though can tarnish all young people with same immature brush. For instance I've my own home, car responsibilities etc to man of 40 would have. I just hate to see wasted opportunity not come to be. X

Keep trying you will appeal to someone.."

There's always someone for someone haha

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"So many differences. I get what a lot of you's are saying though can tarnish all young people with same immature brush. For instance I've my own home, car responsibilities etc to man of 40 would have. I just hate to see wasted opportunity not come to be. X"
plenty woman wont meet over 35 does this mean its a wasted opportunity nope it means they dont wish to meet someone older. You may feel your mature for your age dosnt mean you are at the same level of maturity as what the persons after. Swings and roundabouts purging about it will never solve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many differences. I get what a lot of you's are saying though can tarnish all young people with same immature brush. For instance I've my own home, car responsibilities etc to man of 40 would have. I just hate to see wasted opportunity not come to be. X"

Your profile says you can't accommodate.

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have certain preferences on your profile.. It's personal choice and that should be respected, not condemned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because I'm working in Aberdeen through the week and share a flat with workmates. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not trying to come across condemning just putting the question out there. Friendly discussion and all that jazz

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well...on the up side ...within two years you'll join club 25 where the other half of the site who would've met ya coz you were under 25 now won't meet ya coz your too old lol

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

See these straight guys who are "not looking for (straight) single guy's" eh ...tut tut

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"You have certain preferences on your profile.. It's personal choice and that should be respected, not condemned"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

???

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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"they don't accept messages from people my age. It's so frsutating why is this?"

Because you are younger than my children. That is a bottom limit for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the whole I just go for guys a bit older than me. However there are exceptions, but because you've got no public pics if you *were* local to me I wouldn't know if you were one of said exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, under 25 is too close to my oldest son's age. Under 25's usually can't accommodate for the reason we don't accommodate.

R"

You live with your mum as well?

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By *GoodBadGuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Having just turned 41 i find im now out of the under 40 bracket lol, just gotta suck it up and keep looking

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Had a similar situation at the weekend. Young guy 23 in the army posted all his personal details on the forum.

Nothing against the guy but it was the teenage attitude when he messaged us.

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