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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If your with a guy and he cums quick compliment or insult ?

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Depends on if he sticks around for round 2

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

First time compliment . Second time not so sure

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

A compliment as long as that's not it, night over. A woman has needs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither just happens

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Suppose its a catch 22 if he takes ages are u doing something wrong

Thankfully not had either issue lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A compliment I suppose. But I wouldn't be happy . They would need to make up for previous short Fallings. After all its only gentle manly to let the woman cum first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if a rush has been asked for. Been in the situation where a friend has went out for a cig and the mood took the ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compliment if he keeps going for round 2 or 3

Insult if he buggers of and leaves you hanging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was dating a guy once and I swear he came within 1 minute no joke! Maybe even less!

The first time I thought..okay wow I must be doing something great lol! but it kept happening lol! I'm afraid to say I never stuck about lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a compliment, but I'd also be well pissed off if his words afterwards we're "I'm done"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it's a quickie that's been on the cards...

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

As others have said it's a compliment if he continues to make sure you get what you need.

If he doesn't it's just plain rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I always make sure a woman is satisfied before I satisfy myself lol, take it as a compliment though . It's a catch 22 for us though, if we take ages to cum then there's the potential for you to think we don't find you attractive lol its a fine line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was dating a guy once and I swear he came within 1 minute no joke! "

As long as that? He's a hero!

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By *rixi DevineWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

have we settled on it being a compliment?

ive had similar experiances a few times in the past couple years causing some major self-doubts!!

thankfully, i don't think ive been with a guy that took too long...

didn't actually realise there was anything else about the time to worry over if it wasn't on how quick he was done

urgh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd feel terrible if I got an insult. Obviously you have made the right moves to make me cum bit I'd never leave it at that I'd be ready for round 2 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy, if I'm gunna cum quick I'll tell you, as you to finish me off with a blow job and eat your pussy till I'm ready to go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long is good and how long is bad? With kissing , foreplay , oral etc anything around 20 mins is good, my thoughts anyway

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"How long is good and how long is bad? With kissing , foreplay , oral etc anything around 20 mins is good, my thoughts anyway

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Personally 20 min to cover all of that is no where near enough for me. If there's not at least a couple of hours I'd rather not bother.

However that's just me. Maybe I'm greedy or my expectations are too high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose in a way it is a compliment, there are times a man gets so turned on he just can't help himself so I would take that as a compliment. Depends on the situation really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long is good and how long is bad? With kissing , foreplay , oral etc anything around 20 mins is good, my thoughts anyway

Personally 20 min to cover all of that is no where near enough for me. If there's not at least a couple of hours I'd rather not bother.

However that's just me. Maybe I'm greedy or my expectations are too high "

Well I know I'm rather greedy girl and I'm with you there ms wyld the words 'it takes me ages to cum' is music to my ears personally and I'm not offended if a guy doesn't cum as he will definitely know that I'm a happy girl!

I used to take ages to cum and some guys used to be offended it's just that sometimes our bodies work differently X

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

As long as that's not the end, don't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your with a guy and he cums quick compliment or insult ? "

I thought you women just called that a disappointment

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"How long is good and how long is bad? With kissing , foreplay , oral etc anything around 20 mins is good, my thoughts anyway

Personally 20 min to cover all of that is no where near enough for me. If there's not at least a couple of hours I'd rather not bother.

However that's just me. Maybe I'm greedy or my expectations are too high

Well I know I'm rather greedy girl and I'm with you there ms wyld the words 'it takes me ages to cum' is music to my ears personally and I'm not offended if a guy doesn't cum as he will definitely know that I'm a happy girl!

I used to take ages to cum and some guys used to be offended it's just that sometimes our bodies work differently X "

As long as everyone is smiling at the end.......then it was good. How slowly or quickly or often someone cums all depends on the person. As has been said, we all work differently.

And what works with one person may not work with someone else.

Just smile and enjoy your time together

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sometimes I wish I could cum within minutes.. . A quicky to me is around an hour!

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By *wallow all givenMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like to last as long as I can 2-4 hour is good for me had a few female moan cant last that long and beg me to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been lucky with a couple of ladies who made me cum very quick with amazing technique a guy should always make the lady cum first in my opinion but if I cum quick give me 5 mins and we will get right back at it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally cum too quickly but my recovery time is good, so a little oral both ways with some kissing and cuddling thrown in and we are good to go for a decent length of time, If I was a lady I'd take it as a compliment.

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