FabSwingers.com forum: Glasgow

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Genuine single guy looking for genuine single girl.

Do the females who are reading this search for men to meet socially or otherwise, or do they just sift through the 100s of messages and choose who takes their fancy?

Im asking after numerous attempts over the years of using all the different options we have on the site with no success; "looking to meet", "social meet listed", private msg with personalised msg and face pic" and "msg from time to time in forum".

Just curious what the single fems do to see if I can change or adapt what im doing

Happy Friday :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey bud I sometimes in the same boat as you .it's a 50/50 split in here I have met some nice genuine girls .but on thr other hand as you day lots o girls might answer u or as u say it's majority down to looks most girls go for .which is shallow and vain .as I have had nasty horrible message from girls only going by looks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im wondering if girls search at all with all the guys that contact...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to cjs and talk to people that is your best option can't think of any other thing you can try

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been a few times, but at 40 quid a time it aint a cheap night if you are only having a social...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

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I'm not on here as a single woman, but if I'm looking for single guys I usually put up a status or a meet request. I occasionally look at guys profiles and might send a wink if I see someone I like the look of, but I don't message first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why wouldn't you send msg first if you are looking and like profile? Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been a few times, but at 40 quid a time it aint a cheap night if you are only having a social..."

If your only having a social??

A club and social setting is the easiest way in my view for single guys to meet people.

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I wouldnt think most girls / cpls look at meets section as they more or less have their choice when thy put a meet up.

Just a case of finding someone thts willing to chat and meet .....even tho havin lots of msgs deleted is a pain in the arse lol....prob why i havent sent a nsg to someone new for a while !!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

About 80% of people I've met for fun the initial contact has been made by me... This includes messaging here or starting a conversation at a social or club.

I'd rather do this as I know the people I'm making contact with interest me enough to start chatting at least...

Honestly can't even remember the last time I read any initial messages that have come into my inbox.

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"About 80% of people I've met for fun the initial contact has been made by me... This includes messaging here or starting a conversation at a social or club.

I'd rather do this as I know the people I'm making contact with interest me enough to start chatting at least...

Honestly can't even remember the last time I read any initial messages that have come into my inbox.

Well seeing as youv blocked me you defo wont be getting a msg from me lol .....dunno why or when this happpened as dont think we have even spoke b4

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems going to socials or clubs is the only way to go. However when there are ppl you know on the site that you dont want to see in person or have the possibility, its a catch 22 thing. Also, due to business, I cant plan ahead as much as the socials are and they seem to fill up fast.

This seems to be the way now, however yrs ago was it not very different? Have so many had bad experiences that they now disregard all online contact vs group settings in person.

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