FabSwingers.com forum: Sharing in the world of swinging

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

How good are you at sharing when swinging?

We all know that from time to time jealousy can rear it's ugly head when swinging.

Are you happy say for your friends to meet the same people you do or do you prefer not to meet people your friends are having fun with ?

Would you recommend a playmate to your friend knowing they would get on great ?

Just curious to get your thoughts

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By *s cynicalWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I have 2 female friends on the site... we each block guys that the others have met... not because of jealousy. .. but because it would be too weird for us

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think for couples if you can share your husband or wife then you can share others.

I don't have a problem with who meets who and what goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've only met the person once before I don't mind who they meet but there have been a few lads that I've really hit it off with and I dunno, just think it'd be weird if they met friends. Don't mind if they meet others just not people I'm close to.

I've recommended a couple of people in the past before but then it's turned bitchy because they didn't want me still meeting the person haha or the lad compared me to them and they didn't like the answer

I tend to just block people that have played with friends as it saves the hassle of any crazies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is I'd be loving it if someone reccomended me, sharings caring and all that lol. ; )

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If I've only met the person once before I don't mind who they meet but there have been a few lads that I've really hit it off with and I dunno, just think it'd be weird if they met friends. Don't mind if they meet others just not people I'm close to.

I tend to just block people that have played with friends as it saves the hassle of any crazies. "
I don't mind who's meeting who either .

Ive often invited friends to join me and playmates no problem but some have not been so good at letting me join Thier fun with friends lol.

It does make me laugh when others think because they have met someone then you can't.

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think for couples if you can share your husband or wife then you can share others.

I don't have a problem with who meets who and what goes on "

Agree with fabfem, a lot of our friends play together, doesn't bother us at all, makes for a better party

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LMFAO

Oh dear

I thought the whole idea of swinging was sharing.

Or am I outta date and swinging has evolved to vanilla rules

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Oh dear they ran off before I could reply .

Never mind I'm sure they will be watching from thier real profiles ..so I hope all you people who attend my socials have enjoyed shagging me as it seems I only allow those who will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was that towards you or me NMD? Either way that was hilarious whoever it was.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Was that towards you or me NMD? Either way that was hilarious whoever it was.

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no no was to the comments posted by unlos lol

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Aww I always miss the rants

I'm sure they will be back for more though

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Aww I always miss the rants

I'm sure they will be back for more though

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more than likely

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Oh dear they ran off before I could reply .

Never mind I'm sure they will be watching from thier real profiles ..so I hope all you people who attend my socials have enjoyed shagging me as it seems I only allow those who will

Must be our turn soon

or shall we just form an orderly line and wait

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Oh dear they ran off before I could reply .

Never mind I'm sure they will be watching from thier real profiles ..so I hope all you people who attend my socials have enjoyed shagging me as it seems I only allow those who will

Must be our turn soon

or shall we just form an orderly line and wait

"
wait your turn like all the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LMFAO

Oh dear

I thought the whole idea of swinging was sharing.

Or am I outta date and swinging has evolved to vanilla rules "
Who do you have to share?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no been to a social , so I'm blaming all of you for not inviting me

Keeping the rant going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is better than reality tv

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Oh dear they ran off before I could reply .

Never mind I'm sure they will be watching from thier real profiles ..so I hope all you people who attend my socials have enjoyed shagging me as it seems I only allow those who will

Must be our turn soon

or shall we just form an orderly line and wait

wait your turn like all the rest

Bloody queue

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Oh dear they ran off before I could reply .

Never mind I'm sure they will be watching from thier real profiles ..so I hope all you people who attend my socials have enjoyed shagging me as it seems I only allow those who will

Must be our turn soon

or shall we just form an orderly line and wait

wait your turn like all the rest

Bloody queue

"
your near the top now

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

oooh

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By *owboy BebopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never mind NMD, your little friend probably has probably went unlos as his Mum is probably shouting at him to come down from his bedroom. As the headmaster and school truancy officer are at the door asking about his poor attendance record!

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By *oznrayCouple
over a year ago

helensburgh

But on the original question, not sure we'd recommend anybody, as our likes and quirks may be different, happily very people. Fab can and is full of little cliques which we don't really fit into, over the years we've had friends that don't get on with each other but that's never bothered us, if we like you we like you simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very happy to share, apart from my wine gums.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I've always had an invitation to any of your socials but I can't recall you attaching conditions to them!!!!

I'm happy to share my yummy friends, so long as they don't forget about me if we're attending socials together.

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Providing our friends are happy with the profile they see and are also happy with our recommendation, then we don't have a problem sharing.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

No problems sharing.

I've even been know to share cake too....with the right people

But I never got a shag at the socials either MissD - did I miss the queue too??

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"No problems sharing.

I've even been know to share cake too....with the right people

But I never got a shag at the socials either MissD - did I miss the queue too??

"
seems like it will you accept an Iou Andy ?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Come to think of it.....I've even been known to take a lady to a social and go home alone while she went off with someone else

Now if that isn't sharing - what is?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Come to think of it.....I've even been known to take a lady to a social and go home alone while she went off with someone else

Now if that isn't sharing - what is?

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely don't care one bit, got a friend on here that tells me about her meets and gets high fives

if they are good ones

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"No problems sharing.

I've even been know to share cake too....with the right people

But I never got a shag at the socials either MissD - did I miss the queue too??

seems like it will you accept an Iou Andy ?

Seeing as it's you....ok...but you owe me cake now too

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Was that towards you or me NMD? Either way that was hilarious whoever it was.

no no was to the comments posted by unlos lol"

What 'unlos'? Confused.com

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"No problems sharing.

I've even been know to share cake too....with the right people

But I never got a shag at the socials either MissD - did I miss the queue too??

seems like it will you accept an Iou Andy ?

Seeing as it's you....ok...but you owe me cake now too

"
As long as I get my Krispy Kreme

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By *oznrayCouple
over a year ago

helensburgh

"Was that towards you or me NMD? Either way that was hilarious whoever it was.

no no was to the comments posted by unlos lol

What 'unlos'? Confused.com

user no longer on site

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By *alkirkguy77Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Love to share, especially during meets

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

As far as I am concered who you sleep with is no one else's business. So I have no problem with people I've met meeting someone else even if it's someone I don't like.

I did stupidly give my bf and a close friend my blessing to meet each other. They never did thankfully but I have to admit when I thought they were I wasn't happy. So with swingers yes close friends no. Xxxxxxx

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Cake doughnuts what am I missing out on ? Where's the queue ?

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Was that towards you or me NMD? Either way that was hilarious whoever it was.

no no was to the comments posted by unlos lol

What 'unlos'? Confused.com

Post's were removed after poster went unlos Bothy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you cannot share openly and honestly then you really have to consider if swinging is for you.

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

we have no problems what so ever with who our friends play with. We will often recommend single males to other couples and vice versa.

I think it's all part of the scene, to pass on details of good meets to your friends.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We like to share, and there's a single guy we're friends with that I have recommended to quite a few ladies.

The only issue I have is the converse - if someone has met a specific person, I won't or are reluctant to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met 2 Women on here separately many years ago when Fab had not long began.Unknown too me the 2 Women hated one another.They even told me this at the time of meeting.I didn't comment or judge and I'm certainly not interested in others dramas.However.several months later after i had met them both They became the best of friends.Although was happy that they had put any bad feelings behind them .It all backfired onto me for shutting my mouth .They made up their own wee Stories that they read out Woman Own and gave me grief.

I would be hesitant ,reluctant too meet 2 Female friends due to the issues above.

Its probably something i would need too deeply digest before committing too ..

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