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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would like to be more open on here but have a fear that I will be recognised and would affect my Career ... any advice ??

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By *bzguyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen and shire

Not if your line of work is massage mate ??joking apart though i decided to not give a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your line of work. Personally we prefer to be discrete

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah I get the whole discretion thing but its the whole just going for it and being totally open on here without any fear of came back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a single guy so does make it easier for yourself. Harder for couples and single fems to be out in the open if you get me.

Guys get a pat on the back lol .

Do what's best for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah I suppose that's a very good point and I know there are a lot of people on here that will know me off site which is the worry with the judgment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll never get around the privacy thing nothing your doing is illegal but do you want your family or friends knowing your work could possibly be effected. Have heard a couple of horror stories so take your time before you do anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea maybe . There are loads from paisley on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal life shouldn't have any affect on your job, no matter what it is.

When I was working someone on here recognised me from my job & told everyone where I worked, even showed them all my profile, yes was initially a little embarrassing but decided not to give a fuck. Now I tell everyone about fab & tell them to add me as a friend if they join.

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think you should do what ever feels best. I certainly know if I were to bump into someone I knew from here while out I would exercise discretion if either of us was in company of others but that's just me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always someone out there ready to ruin it for others,stick to being discreet OP just my take on things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal life shouldn't have any affect on your job, no matter what it is.

When I was working someone on here recognised me from my job & told everyone where I worked, even showed them all my profile, yes was initially a little embarrassing but decided not to give a fuck. Now I tell everyone about fab & tell them to add me as a friend if they join. "
in an ideal world yes but it really depends on type of job you have particularly if your a professional most have codes of conduct you'll know if that applies to you equally some jobs will worry what their clients would think if you made the papers or if you were open to blackmail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

some fantastic advice guys really appreciate you taking your times to give your opinion , would like to get chatting to people more but hate the "face pic" question not because I'm an ugly guy it's the whole fear effects off site x

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've bumped into someone I know and also had someone tell others I'm on here. I was terrified about it happining but now it's out there I'm happy I don't need to hide it.

I can understand where your coming from if it could effect your Job but you can still meet and be discreet. Most fems or couples you meet will more than Likely also be looking for some descreation.

Xxxxx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"some fantastic advice guys really appreciate you taking your times to give your opinion , would like to get chatting to people more but hate the "face pic" question not because I'm an ugly guy it's the whole fear effects off site x "

The thing is, it's not blind date. The majority of people won't meet without swapping face pics. Eventually you'll have to show your face, and it's a risk every time you do it.

If it would be disastrous to your life if it was discovered you were on here, then perhaps you shouldn't be. You need to weigh up what's important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal life shouldn't have any affect on your job, no matter what it is.

When I was working someone on here recognised me from my job & told everyone where I worked, even showed them all my profile, yes was initially a little embarrassing but decided not to give a fuck. Now I tell everyone about fab & tell them to add me as a friend if they join. in an ideal world yes but it really depends on type of job you have particularly if your a professional most have codes of conduct you'll know if that applies to you equally some jobs will worry what their clients would think if you made the papers or if you were open to blackmail"
fair enough but unless someone is a celebrity i doubt being in the papers or blackmail would happen.

I'm all for discretion but really think people should be able to do what they want in their own time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some fantastic advice guys really appreciate you taking your times to give your opinion , would like to get chatting to people more but hate the "face pic" question not because I'm an ugly guy it's the whole fear effects off site x

The thing is, it's not blind date. The majority of people won't meet without swapping face pics. Eventually you'll have to show your face, and it's a risk every time you do it.

If it would be disastrous to your life if it was discovered you were on here, then perhaps you shouldn't be. You need to weigh up what's important. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to be more open on here but have a fear that I will be recognised and would affect my Career ... any advice ??"

Your Career is far more important than Swinging ..

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Only you know what you do and whether it could be a problem or not. I do think it's a bit easier for singles though because they can say they are only using the site for sex meets, whereas couples meeting for sex is seen as a bit more taboo

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