FabSwingers.com forum: Getting verified

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to get verified when your new to this or is it just me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to get verified when your new to this or is it just me lol"

Before you work on getting verified, work on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter what you do, you'll either get lucky or you wont.

You'll be told to sort out your profile & your pics, be told to attend socials, at the end of the day it's down to luck for us guys.

I'm the exact opposite from what 98% of the women on here want, I'm not tall, I'm not in good shape, I'm not hung, I'm not professional "whatever the hell that means" but I've had meets, and had lots of fun.

Just be you & hope someone will meet you one day for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^ what he said.. women will either fancy you or they won't, but sort your profile out 1000s of single guys you need to at least put a wee bit of effort in.. its not make a profile get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion if you want verified don't have any standards.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Its not difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone here will say it's not clique'y. That is wrong. It is. Yes they have socials where all can attend if that your bag but in general I have found it over the years to be a nice wee clique. This is not me being bitter. Had plenty of meets here, I just observe a lot. Starting out on here is hard work. I don't envy you. Being verified helps to get meets but it's far from the start

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Why is it so hard to get verified when your new to this or is it just me lol"
op you joined a week ago it's not instashag lol.

Take your time to get to know people and I'm sure In time you will get verified.

There are socials and parties that goes on if thata your thing poo along and meet some lovely people

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"In my opinion if you want verified don't have any standards. "

Oh so I assume that's what you done?

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

OP, you've been here for a WEEK!!!!!! Could I suggest you try 'instashag.com'.

But the best advice is, the 3 'P's; patience, patience, patience.

And write a decent profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No1 by writing this question thats what it sounds like all i am after is insta shag so i apologise for that as im really not like that

No2 people keep saying fix my profile im hopeless at it so i would really appreciate if someone could give me a few pointers

No3 thank yous for taking your time and replying i really am grateful x

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

" No2 people keep saying fix my profile im hopeless at it so i would really appreciate if someone could give me a few pointers. "

Why don't you have a look at some guys' profiles, get an idea of the sort of thing that's said. But DON'T copy and paste someone's profile.

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I would add that that you need to earn respect. People on here don't know you from Adam so will want to see how you react in forums or chat etc.

It's about chemistry - is there kerb appeal in your profile that says to the ladies - hey I'm worth a look inside.

And of course - we all have family and work etc so may only be only for short periods at a time or only when looking for a meet etc.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club and show you're genuine. Yeah, there are cliques, but just work on going to another club or meet get to know people.

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By *ahootCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

patience respect and more patience is whats needed! give plenty info about yourself! some people want a bad boy! but 99% want a nice reliable discreet and respectful man! go to as many socials as possible! in short be a gentleman it will pay off!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"patience respect and more patience is whats needed! give plenty info about yourself! some people want a bad boy! but 99% want a nice reliable discreet and respectful man! go to as many socials as possible! in short be a gentleman it will pay off! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I'm a firm believer that respect is earned not given, my parents raised me saying "don't dare just give anyone respect not even us, respect is earned not given"

And to this day I don't respect a single person on this planet. Maybe one day I will but not yet.

Sorry just had to input this becuase I do see a lot of female profiles demanding respect & it annoys me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats one thing i was brought up with the believe that manners cost nothing and treat others the way you would like to be treated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can i also say thank yous for all the advice yous have given i really appreciate it

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