FabSwingers.com forum: When enough is enough

By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You know that moment when you have no other option but to say "Enough is enough"

That time when someone else's behaviour is in danger of having a detrimental affect on those you love. When you feel that enough is enough!

When things get so bad that your only course of action is to speak to the police, give them all the evidence and leave it to them.

Have you ever decided enough is just quite enough?

Mr & Mrs S

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"You know that moment when you have no other option but to say "Enough is enough"

That time when someone else's behaviour is in danger of having a detrimental affect on those you love. When you feel that enough is enough!

When things get so bad that your only course of action is to speak to the police, give them all the evidence and leave it to them.

Have you ever decided enough is just quite enough?

Mr & Mrs S

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Yes I have and no I wouldn't hesitate in doing so again ..in fact seriously considering it with one nasty individual .

If its having that effect on you and those around you then id say do it before things get even further out of hand

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Not to a criminal extent, but I did have to pull the plug on a friendship earlier this year.

She was out of order on something (the latest in a long line of things) and I called her on it. Her response was to have a social media tantrum, so I knew I'd done the right thing.

We have lots of friends in common so it's slightly awkward on occasion, but I just remove myself from her vicinity.

Shame it's had to end this way as we used to be so close, but real friends tell each other when they're being prats.

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By *inkyman looking for funMan
over a year ago

bathgate

"You know that moment when you have no other option but to say "Enough is enough"

That time when someone else's behaviour is in danger of having a detrimental affect on those you love. When you feel that enough is enough!

When things get so bad that your only course of action is to speak to the police, give them all the evidence and leave it to them.

Have you ever decided enough is just quite enough?

Mr & Mrs S

Yep been there and it's not fun at all

But also the games people play are just as hurtful .

Hope it's all sorted for you guys though

Stay save have fun

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"You know that moment when you have no other option but to say "Enough is enough"

That time when someone else's behaviour is in danger of having a detrimental affect on those you love. When you feel that enough is enough!

When things get so bad that your only course of action is to speak to the police, give them all the evidence and leave it to them.

Have you ever decided enough is just quite enough?

Mr & Mrs S

Yep been there and it's not fun at all

But also the games people play are just as hurtful .

Hope it's all sorted for you guys though

Stay save have fun "

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Such a shame there are game playing sly individuals that certainly fool people ....experienced them ourselves and cut them out our life.....we don't need drama especially in what is an extra part of our life.....certainly made me very very wary .

I for one certainly feel cut them out and move on....cut them out every aspect....I would only leave when I felt it was time rather than feeling pushed out because of a situation....a natural end is better than a forced end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,fell out with a friend on Boxing Day who has ruined too many nights out for "friends" etc.

Don't need hassle in my life

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By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks for the input folks. It is not easy when you have a falling out with people you believed to be friends. But am not just describing a falling out between people. It is behaviour I have observed and indirectly been involved in.

For me enough is enough when it involves threats of violence, slander, threats to expose my lifestyle choices and disclosing information given freely with an expectation of discretion.

What never fails to amaze me in these situations is how someone who would stoop so low as to threaten people with exposure for their life style choices can then claim to be discreet. For those who might accept this behaviour be warned - a person like this who claims to be your friend and then turns on you is only going to do the same with the rest of their friends someday! It won't be so much fun when the shoe is on the other foot!

Add to the mix those who jump on the band wagon and try to create their own little drama - involving you, as if you haven't got enough to deal with!

You get to the stage where your not sure where the threats are coming from and worse what is next. So you take steps to protect your loved ones by being open and honest with them. Then you take steps to make it all go away, by involving the police and wishing you had done so at the outset. Because ignoring it hasn't worked!

Jealousy, pettiness and immature behaviour have no place on a swinging site.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Sorry to hear you're in that kind of situation. Hopefully it will be resolved soon for you

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Here's hoping your true friends rally around you both and support you.

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By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Sorry to hear you're in that kind of situation. Hopefully it will be resolved soon for you "

Thankyou, but this is not about us.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Sorry to hear you're in that kind of situation. Hopefully it will be resolved soon for you

Thankyou, but this is not about us.

Ok now I'm confused

I know it doesn't take much to confuse me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know that moment when you have no other option but to say "Enough is enough"

That time when someone else's behaviour is in danger of having a detrimental affect on those you love. When you feel that enough is enough!

When things get so bad that your only course of action is to speak to the police, give them all the evidence and leave it to them.

Have you ever decided enough is just quite enough?

Mr & Mrs S

Happily I have never been in this situation at any time through my life so far, hopefully the best of my past will be the worst of my future, life has been good

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Thanks for the input folks. It is not easy when you have a falling out with people you believed to be friends. But am not just describing a falling out between people. It is behaviour I have observed and indirectly been involved in.

For me enough is enough when it involves threats of violence, slander, threats to expose my lifestyle choices and disclosing information given freely with an expectation of discretion.

Add to the mix those who jump on the band wagon and try to create their own little drama - involving you, as if you haven't got enough to deal with!

Jealousy, pettiness and immature behaviour have no place on a swinging site.

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Tell whoever this is about to stay strong I know it not easy but with good friends for support I'm sure they will come out the other end stronger.

It's not nice when things are being said and your being accused of things uve never done and even worse that people believe the shite others say about you but the truth will out in the end.

If you have gone to the police because these people have been left in a state of fear then the right thing has been done and I hope that puts a stop to it for them .

I hope that by the police getting involved it shows them that not only have they exposed thier intended victims but also themselves

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By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

" I hope that by the police getting involved it shows them that not only have they exposed thier intended victims but also themselves

I bet anyone responsible for pushing someone to say Enough is Enough didn't think that could be a consequence of their behaviour!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

" I hope that by the police getting involved it shows them that not only have they exposed thier intended victims but also themselves

I bet anyone responsible for pushing someone to say Enough is Enough didn't think that could be a consequence of their behaviour! "

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Not to a criminal extent but from an emotional extent I have.. its been the hardest thing I've had to do in a long time.

The emotional pain becomes a physical one that you carry about. It's just horrible.

They say time heals. I only hope they are right.

I hope that whatever has happened in the situation you refer to is being dealt with and things improve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up guys and stay strong. Don't let these ppl get to you. They are looking to hurt and gain a reaction. Report block and cut them from your life (using and doing whatever you need to do).

The hurtful thing is that they used to be so called friends. But as with any kind of Karma they get found out for what/who they really are in the end.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Chin up guys and stay strong. Don't let these ppl get to you. They are looking to hurt and gain a reaction. Report block and cut them from your life (using and doing whatever you need to do).

The hurtful thing is that they used to be so called friends. But as with any kind of Karma they get found out for what/who they really are in the end.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If this is on here....Admin don't like threats of "outing" people so please report the profile/ profiles.

As it is a police investigation it is best not to be on the forum

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