FabSwingers.com forum: Girls with face as profile picture

By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Don't get me wrong I love to see a face pic but I've always wondered why do they do it?

Don't any of you worry about being spotted or do you like the attention?

I'm not judging anyone just curious as to why anyone would.

Cxxxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Don't get me wrong I love to see a face pic but I've always wondered why do they do it?

Don't any of you worry about being spotted or do you like the attention?

I'm not judging anyone just curious as to why anyone would.

Cxxxxx"
why is this only aimed a girls ?

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've read lots of times on here that best way to get a meet for a single guy is have face pics. So I can understand why a guy would display a face pic.

Also porn sites you can up load to tend to be full of pics of women and not very many guys xxxxx

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

You only have to look at the hot photos to see people like faces. I think that for some people they don't feel the need to be so warey I guess.

To be fair there are far worse things than being on a swingers site.

I thought about making mine public but don't want to induce nightmares

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"You only have to look at the hot photos to see people like faces. I think that for some people they don't feel the need to be so warey I guess.

To be fair there are far worse things than being on a swingers site.

I thought about making mine public but don't want to induce nightmares

I personally couldn't do it. In fact I hid all the pics just incase I'm out somewhere and someone walked up to me and asked if that was me off fab.

I've really not been on here long bit have been warned about posting certain things on here from some more experienced people incase I get some unwanted attention. I've also heard some horror story's but I agree worse things than swinging xxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I've read lots of times on here that best way to get a meet for a single guy is have face pics. So I can understand why a guy would display a face pic.

Also porn sites you can up load to tend to be full of pics of women and not very many guys xxxxx"
I think the best way to get meets for anyone is to have face pics but they dont need to be on public show .

For those who do put face pics on thier public gallery feel they have nothing to hide and are quite happy with the lifestyle they have chosen rather than for attention .

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

But if you display a face pic Dosnt that get you attention either wanted or not?

When I say face pics I don't mean ones like yours that are hard to see your full face but as in a full clear picture.

As I said I've heard some horror story's and just wonder if it's like you said there happy with the lifestyle they have chose.

I would love to have the confidence to display a face pic as my profile picture but I never would as I have two small kids and don't want my lifestyle affecting them. There is a few weirdos around here.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Any photo on here gets attention. To be honest if I didn't want attention I wouldn't be on here. However I'm a single woman so it's perhaps different for couples.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"But if you display a face pic Dosnt that get you attention either wanted or not?

When I say face pics I don't mean ones like yours that are hard to see your full face but as in a full clear picture.

As I said I've heard some horror story's and just wonder if it's like you said there happy with the lifestyle they have chose.

Xxxxxx"
not entirely sure what your getting at with this comment ?

But if you display a face pic Dosnt that get you attention either wanted or not?

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Any photo on here gets attention. To be honest if I didn't want attention I wouldn't be on here. However I'm a single woman so it's perhaps different for couples.

Sorry, I meant in the supermarket or down the school etc. I should of made that more clear.

I love the attention to but wouldn't out in public with my family as I've heard has happened to some people.

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Any photo on here gets attention. To be honest if I didn't want attention I wouldn't be on here. However I'm a single woman so it's perhaps different for couples.

Sorry, I meant in the supermarket or down the school etc. I should of made that more clear.

I love the attention to but wouldn't out in public with my family as I've heard has happened to some people.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Thing is if people saw you out and about the majority would say nothing. Or at least should.

However you should never feel you need to put up anything you aren't comfortable with.

There are weirdos in every walk of life sadly

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Thing is if people saw you out and about the majority would say nothing. Or at least should.

However you should never feel you need to put up anything you aren't comfortable with.

There are weirdos in every walk of life sadly "

But there is always that few that would ruin it. I've read on the forums a few times about people getting reconised and I've also heard of a few failed blackmail attempts.

I've ever reconised two people from there tattoos at my kids school but I would never walk over and say I reconised them from fab.

Don't take me the wrong way I think it's great that some people do have the confidence to put there face pics out there and I honestly wish I did but I'm to much of a coward lol

Xxxxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Any photo on here gets attention. To be honest if I didn't want attention I wouldn't be on here. However I'm a single woman so it's perhaps different for couples.

Sorry, I meant in the supermarket or down the school etc. I should of made that more clear.

I love the attention to but wouldn't out in public with my family as I've heard has happened to some people.

Also when I said there's a few weirdos around here I meant where I live. My friend had a account on here and had a few people from our local area messaging her demanding a face pic. Stupidly she didn't block but instead shut her account down xxxxx"
I think the biggest majority on here know that discretion is a must and would never approach someone they had saw on here if they saw them out in public.

However I am well aware that some have been approached in this way .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Don't take me the wrong way I think it's great that some people do have the confidence to put there face pics out there and I honestly wish I did but I'm to much of a coward lol

Xxxxxx"
why would you want to broadcast the fact your on here looking for sex with strangers ?

You wouldn't discuss your normal sex life with a partner to members of the public or family so why would you want them to know about this lifestyle by displaying a face pic for every Tom dick and Harriet to see?

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Don't take me the wrong way I think it's great that some people do have the confidence to put there face pics out there and I honestly wish I did but I'm to much of a coward lol

Xxxxxxwhy would you want to broadcast the fact your on here looking for sex with strangers ?

That's pretty much what I'm asking just in a diffrent way. When I say I wish I had the confidence to, I really mean I wish I had the confidence to not that I would xxxxx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If I see a new single lady profile in my updates and there's a face pic, I automatically assume it's a fake profile.

I'll then look at the interests because usually it's the same five items listed, and the profile text if there's any is usually the same too. I'll then block so he doesn't send a message, and keep an eye to see if it disappears. Nine times out of ten it does.

If it looks a bit less generic then I'll note that it could be a single guy, and see what happens.

For profiles that are genuine and have been here a while, I do find it a little odd to have a public face pic but if that's what they want to do it's their choice. I'll make a note to say if I found them attractive or not, in case the photo is deleted and we end up talking to them at some point.

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By *p for anything 123Man
over a year ago

Coatbridge

I'm a single male and don't put any pictures up. I have some I can send privately once I start chatting. Saying that a couple mailed me from my area and wanted to exchange pics. I sent mine and the male recognised me knew where I live and work so refused to send pic's. So double standards. He knows I'm on here but I don't have a clue who they are. And they constantly view my profile . Strange

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I'm a single male and don't put any pictures up. I have some I can send privately once I start chatting. Saying that a couple mailed me from my area and wanted to exchange pics. I sent mine and the male recognised me knew where I live and work so refused to send pic's. So double standards. He knows I'm on here but I don't have a clue who they are. And they constantly view my profile . Strange

I would pass by any profile that has no profile pic or any public pics at all, but that's your choice.

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By *ripleXrateD OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *p for anything 123Man
over a year ago

Coatbridge

That was one of my biggest fears when I first came on here. I bumped into my neighbour in a club recently which was a bit embarrassing but we were both there for the same thing so wasn't to bad. Don't know how I would feel in you situation though I think I'd be paranoid looking at every couple I pass on the street thinking is that them xxxxxx"
I was just a bit annoyed as they kept asking for a picture. Just one of those things. I'm not bothered about recognising people as we are all roughly after the same thing it's just the way they did it annoyed me. Will know the next time

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By *p for anything 123Man
over a year ago

Coatbridge

Also if I looked like Brad Pitt and was packing 12" I'd have my pics everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said, there's worse things than being on a swingers site. Doesn't bother me at all if my face is on show, makes it so much easier if someone isn't interested, saves them messaging.

I've had people come up to me before but luckily I was on my own at the time and if anyone ever tried coming up to me when I was with family they'd get a swift kick to the balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But if you display a face pic Dosnt that get you attention either wanted or not?

When I say face pics I don't mean ones like yours that are hard to see your full face but as in a full clear picture.

As I said I've heard some horror story's and just wonder if it's like you said there happy with the lifestyle they have chose.

Xxxxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single female with face pics on my profile, why? Cause I don't give a flying side ways fuck what people think or do.

My family know about my lifestyle and so do my friends.

In all my years on here I've had everything that can happen to me happen, so now I don't care.

If someone is daft enough to come up to me in the street or when I'm with my family and mention fab or sex etc, they better be prepared to have the nearest object inserted into their anus and ripped out through their left nostril

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By *p for anything 123Man
over a year ago

Coatbridge

"I'm a single female with face pics on my profile, why? Cause I don't give a flying side ways fuck what people think or do.

My family know about my lifestyle and so do my friends.

In all my years on here I've had everything that can happen to me happen, so now I don't care.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Thing is you could send someone a photo privately and still end up with them causing trouble.

I agree with Atomicravens sentiments.

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By *ilversunMan
over a year ago

Cumbernauld

"I'm a single female with face pics on my profile, why? Cause I don't give a flying side ways fuck what people think or do.

My family know about my lifestyle and so do my friends.

In all my years on here I've had everything that can happen to me happen, so now I don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume many men and women feel they have nothing to hide. This is their swxuality and they are proud of it. Why not?

I myself am a cheat and need to be discrete. So no face pics from me. However that could change at some point in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes have my face pic on show. I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic and I find guys are more likely to include one in a message if they can see yours. Saves a lot of wasted time messaging someone you're not interested in.

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

Personally I would get a thrill if someone subtly said "you are _ithardscot, aren't you?".

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Each of us has to make the decision.

For some it's job reasons (e.g. police etc) that professionally need the discretion.

For others its family reasons (not wanting to risk a meet with a cousin or kid's best pal''s mum etc).

For others it's home location. Easier to be anonymous in a city than a wee village.

Whatever the reason, true swingers

For others it's sexuality. Don't want it known I'm bisexuality or gay/lesbian etc.

Whatever the reason, true swingers will respect that and are unlikely tto blurt out "loved your lady garden on fab" or similar whilst in Asda.

OK the nutcase might but they'd be recognised as a nut by security and be booted outta ship.

Just my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a girl or guy putting their face pic on fab as long as they know the consequences, I.e a na=neighbour might see them, a friend etc,.. making it very awkward.

Lots of new people do it which I think is stupid, they should wait until they know how the site works and then decide is they want their mush to be seen in the outside world

here endith the lesson, lol

xx Peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I work with is on this so I wouldn't put a face pic up but he has one lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend on here who was very discreet in every way possible. Unfortunately she had her pic taken at a social by a single guy on here.

Suddenly the messages became sinister, turned up at her work, sat parked outside her house. Threatened to reveal her identity at school parents association and even hurt her pet (alledgedly)

Police were involved but nothing was done.

Took a wee word in his ear one night from one Weegie night club steward with 3 Russians on two to persuade him to disappear before he disappeared on a fast boat to Kiev.

Point being you never can be too careful not especially on a site like this

Remember one persons rejection is anothers Bunny Boiler or worse

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There are enough nutters on here willing to out people without a second thought so why give them the amo to do it with ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had anymore meets since making MA face pic as MA profile photo but do get alot of messages letting me know I'm hot

which lets me know that people may drink a bit too much on this site

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