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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone, needing some advice. What do you do if after meeting a couple and playing with them, they then stop messaging as often as they did before arranging the meet? In other words, very chatty before meet and after meet not really replying to your messages. They did say they would like to keep chatting and arrange another meet. Do you assume they are no longer interested? Do you send them a message and ask them outright if they're still interested in meeting again?

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Ask them outright it's the only way you'll know for sure what's happening xxxxx

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

With nsa sex half of the fun is in the first time. That's a shame as second times can be better.

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By *avid1Man
over a year ago

Dubai

Message and ask, you will then know if they do not reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate when that happens.... It's just rude and immature in my opinion. Happened to me recently too.... Met twice...Fed me all the charm then fell off the planet x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah we didn't want to come across as desperate or pushy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like the single guys on here maybe you need to take the hint......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They got what they wanted and are happy or maybe they didn't enjoy it as much as they thought.

Don't worry about it, I get used all the time. Chin up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would assume they aren't interested anymore and only said they were still interested to be polite maybe. Hope you find more good time either way : )

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'd just leave it and move on to be honest.

But then they do say, if you don't ask you don't get

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

I don't see why you shouldn't message them . It sounds like you've been respectful and honest to them. If they answer you'll know either way, there could be lots of reasons for not answering but if they don't they probably weren't worth waiting to hear from. Happy fabbing!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

There's one person I've now met a few times who does go silent on me . Initially I was a bit offended. However I've just accepted it's how it goes. Fab is not real life. He's not here to be chatting every day. It's a place that you visit now and again and when you do its great. I no longer take it personally. In fact I'm learning to view it in the same way.

I wouldn't get hung up on it. You can move on and either decide you no longer wish to play on their terms or you can set out your own.

It's meant to be fun not cause upset.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Perhaps the meeting wasn't as good as expected for them .

Maybe they were just being polite in saying they would keep in touch who knows .

Just chalk it up to experience and take the hint in an adult way

Loads more fun for you both to be had I'm sure xx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Would seem you now know the another type of folk you dont wish to meet so change your meet method to them out also

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