FabSwingers.com forum: Privacy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya,

New to posting on the forums, but here goes...

Why is it that so many people say they can't upload photos on here?

Then there's the once that say they are in such important jobs that they daren't risk putting pics up just in case they are recognised, but are more than happy to send their mobile number?

Then of course the ones who say I can text you a photo?

Sorry but this isn't blind date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its someone local your talking to maybe they are trying to be discreet about there swinging life and are scared incase you recignise them?

As for the cant upload photos it is a bit lazy but like me if you use an iphone to access the site you cant upload photos from it. Each to there own i suppose but i always have pics to send. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people on here have jobs that if they were recognised, it would be instant dismissal. Having online pictures is direct evidence, whereas texting a photo isn't, it could come from anywhere. It's about not leaving a paper trail for employers etc to follow.

However I do understand that its a bit dodgy when people say not on here, give me your number and I will text you a photo.

I don't put face pics up because I don't want hard evidence of me being on here in the future. And if people want to see my face I am more than happy to go on webcam.

It's not because I am hiding my bad ass boils and scary lookin hook nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with ya Jolene ......x

Buboo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ........

Why is it that so many people say they can't upload photos on here?

Then there's the once that say they are in such important jobs that they daren't risk putting pics up just in case they are recognised, ....."

Have a look at http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/46074

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you... I can appreciate the iPhone issue, but it just seems really lame that they can't just keep a photo in private to only send with a message once it's been established in messages that you don't know one another and that both parties are discreet :@

But it's really not difficult to turn on the computer and add a photo - surely

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

nice pics dont always mean nice people.we would rather meet then decide where we want to go from there.

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By *carletRomanceCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Both Kitty and myself are in "those kinds of jobs", we like our fun but we're not going to risk it.

Sending face pics means that who you send them to can save them and then you never know where they might crop up so we also never send face pics.

Webcams and displaying as an MSN is how we prefer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"nice pics dont always mean nice people.we would rather meet then decide where we want to go from there."

Yeah I like to meet people socially first, but like to know who I'm looking out for - it's not all about what folks look like, it's got to do with being turned on intellectually as well!

I like to message for a while then swap face pictures before a meet - I had no idea people would consider stealing a face pic to post on other sites or copy on to there hard drive - perhaps I'm being naive, but I'd like to think I make friends with like minded people who are here for fun and not to mess people about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's someone prerogative if they don't want to show a face pic. A torso or bum pic can be just as enticing. And if folk recognise that then you are popular. I would never give my mob to receive a pic. You can have a private gallery on here and send pic that way. I have been asked for my mob before for that reason and just say no. Folk have to be aware that not having a face pic can eliminate their chances of a meet. And for poor guys who already struggle with the process of elimination with us fussy gals it would be worth having one in private gallery.

C;)x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"nice pics dont always mean nice people.we would rather meet then decide where we want to go from there."

I agree 100% but there must also be that element of attraction there to i wouldnt meet someone i wasnt physicaly attracted too and i certainly wouldnt take the chance of wasting both my time and theirs if i wasnt so i always insist on seeing a face pic before hand some might say thats me being shallow i dont think it is imjust being selective and making sure i meet the right people i want to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done the opposite, I have put a face pic on my profile so that you know what I look like. On my private gallery there are more revelling, that way once we are friends you get to see a bit more ,and its not so in your face.

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

no right or wrong in this one. we always ask for a face pic and if the guy dont want to send one no probs - we move on. its a big site so everyone has the right to their own rules but have got to expect a fair few rejections too.

we too are in those type of jobs but have face pics in our private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no right or wrong in this one. we always ask for a face pic and if the guy dont want to send one no probs - we move on. its a big site so everyone has the right to their own rules but have got to expect a fair few rejections too.

we too are in those type of jobs but have face pics in our private

agree xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But there's the ones who just say they can't figure out how to upload pics - which to me equals lazy so therefore that in turn equals lazy shaggers

I can fully appreciate not having face pics on the profile page and just keeping them in private to send in a message!

It's the ones who want your mobile number to text a pic that get to me - they don't seem to understand that I don't want to hand out my number to anyone and everyone, so many men think it's ok to text in the middle of the night just because they are horny

Anyways rant over - I guess it boils down to each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something like 40+ pvt pics in my gallery,all of lovely swinging fun being had and all done with consideration to exclude faces etc.

Its automatic, discretion and mutual respect for those nice,sexy and fun enough to trust a fellow swinger.

Alarm bells always ring when pics seem to be anyones priority within a very short space of time of initial first contact.

T x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't ask for a face pic instantly, I like to chat for a bit first and if I'm thinking I'd like to meet for a coffee/drink then I'd like to see a face pic so I know who I'm looking for - Starbucks can be very busy!

I am all for discretion, but it's nice to know who I'm looking for and I always reciprocate with my face pic - ok some might use it to scare the mice away but that's the way it goes!

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