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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just be yourself, relax and chat to the other people there. Everyone feels strange at first but when you start mixing, you start relaxing and enjoying Good luck for whenever your going.

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By *els01Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ask before touching/joining in

Smile, relax & have fun xxd

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You'll be absolutely fine, you seem like a bubbly friendly lady on the forums so you'll have no problem mixing. As above said relax n have fun

K x

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Ask before touching/joining in

"

Ask before touching!! Well that's no fun

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies? "

Just be yourself and be friendly. I was terrified on my first visit but the people who go are generally really nice.

Just treat it like a big house party and just see what happens xx

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By *ruegent101Man
over a year ago

down by the river side

Still don't think I would be able to go myself need to get myself a buddy to go with

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Still don't think I would be able to go myself need to get myself a buddy to go with "

You would be fine... If your chatting to people on forums then you'll probably know someone that's going along

K x

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

Just be yourself and be friendly. I was terrified on my first visit but the people who go are generally really nice.

Just treat it like a big house party and just see what happens xx "

This is good advice, it is honestly just like a big house party. I'll give you a tour of the upstairs part just so you don't get lost

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

Just be yourself and be friendly. I was terrified on my first visit but the people who go are generally really nice.

Just treat it like a big house party and just see what happens xx

This is good advice, it is honestly just like a big house party. I'll give you a tour of the upstairs part just so you don't get lost "

However you're probably hoping yourself n _ab fem get lost together

K X

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

Just be yourself and be friendly. I was terrified on my first visit but the people who go are generally really nice.

Just treat it like a big house party and just see what happens xx

This is good advice, it is honestly just like a big house party. I'll give you a tour of the upstairs part just so you don't get lost "

How kind of you, I do easily get lost.

What's upstairs again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask before touching/joining in

Ask before touching!! Well that's no fun "

You wouldn't have to ask me missus. .nor after seeing your gorgeous photos....

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm planning on going for my first time on the 13th next month.

Can't wait, but terrified!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies? "

I'll look after you, dont worry

Really though, yo be surprised by how relaxed it is. Its a popular place for a reason.

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

I'll look after you, dont worry

And me lou

Really though, yo be surprised by how relaxed it is. Its a popular place for a reason.

Lx"

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

I'll look after you, dont worry

Really though, yo be surprised by how relaxed it is. Its a popular place for a reason.

Lx"

Hold me tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide me under the table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

I'll look after you, dont worry

Really though, yo be surprised by how relaxed it is. Its a popular place for a reason.

Lx

Hold me tight "

Shall do! In a few places. To make you feel secure, not because Im a total perv. Not at all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a proper wimp my first time and pretty nervous again the first time i went alone ... But now i wonder why at all ... Its totally relaxed very friendly , lots of people from the forums so you will already feel like you know them a bit and lots of fun to be had if you feel like it

My only worry about CJs now is what to wear think its about time i got a new dress

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hide me under the table "

No chance..... no hiding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide me under the table

No chance..... no hiding "

Ok but will you hold my hand

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hide me under the table

No chance..... no hiding

Ok but will you hold my hand "

Maybe....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't be afraid of saying no - noones feelings get really hurt and everyone enjoys themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to go but can't do weekends. What's it like on weekdays?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd love to go but can't do weekends. What's it like on weekdays?"

Closed.... mostly

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

Just be yourself and be friendly. I was terrified on my first visit but the people who go are generally really nice.

Just treat it like a big house party and just see what happens xx

This is good advice, it is honestly just like a big house party. I'll give you a tour of the upstairs part just so you don't get lost

How kind of you, I do easily get lost.

What's upstairs again? "

Ha ha I'll show you...

I jest, I jest

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

Just be yourself and be friendly. I was terrified on my first visit but the people who go are generally really nice.

Just treat it like a big house party and just see what happens xx

This is good advice, it is honestly just like a big house party. I'll give you a tour of the upstairs part just so you don't get lost

How kind of you, I do easily get lost.

What's upstairs again? "

Its the room where the knitted gimp masks are sold... Remember and take your entire stock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to go but can't do weekends. What's it like on weekdays?

Closed.... mostly "

Boohoo!

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago


"I'd love to go but can't do weekends. What's it like on weekdays?

Closed.... mostly

Boohoo! "

Having had a quick look through their website it looks like it's only ever greedy girls / gang bangs and TV admirer nights on the weekdays...

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By *alkirkguy77Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Quieter but still fun on weekdays, going to my first weekend at the new venue tonight.

From what I've experienced the majority will show respect and those that don't will see the door due to the friendly but firm staff .

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"This is good advice, it is honestly just like a big house party. I'll give you a tour of the upstairs part just so you don't get lost

How kind of you, I do easily get lost.

What's upstairs again?

Ha ha I'll show you...

I jest, I jest "

Well I'm going to need a tour guide

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"What's upstairs again?

Its the room where the knitted gimp masks are sold... Remember and take your entire stock "

I'll just shove them in my pocket then, only got one and a half

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By *alkirkguy77Man
over a year ago

Falkirk


"This is good advice, it is honestly just like a big house party. I'll give you a tour of the upstairs part just so you don't get lost

How kind of you, I do easily get lost.

What's upstairs again?

Ha ha I'll show you...

I jest, I jest

Well I'm going to need a tour guide "

There will be plenty of guys willing to show you around, myself included

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If its your first time cj will give you a tour explain how the place works and answer any questions.

You'll enjoy it like everyone else says it's just like a big house party xxxxx

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Thanks for all the advice. I'm looking forward to meeting you all after chatting on the forums for so long

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Thanks for all the advice. I'm looking forward to meeting you all after chatting on the forums for so long "

Even me? lol

John

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Thanks for all the advice. I'm looking forward to meeting you all after chatting on the forums for so long

Even me? lol

John "

Even you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I've never been before and there are a few others going that haven't been also.

What's the etiquette, any unspoken rules and tips for us newbies?

Just be yourself and be friendly. I was terrified on my first visit but the people who go are generally really nice.

Just treat it like a big house party and just see what happens xx

This is good advice, it is honestly just like a big house party. I'll give you a tour of the upstairs part just so you don't get lost

How kind of you, I do easily get lost.

What's upstairs again? "

I am sure that you will be over run with offers of help!

Willie xxx

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By *ast Coast DelightCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We are going be great to see u there x

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"We are going be great to see u there x"

New profile you two?

Sure will be nice to finally meet you both

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By *ast Coast DelightCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"We are going be great to see u there x

New profile you two?

Sure will be nice to finally meet you both "

We are just greedy

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"We are going be great to see u there x

New profile you two?

Sure will be nice to finally meet you both

We are just greedy "

Greedy girls! Haha I'm sure you will be getting lots of offers on your new profile, have fun x

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By *ast Coast DelightCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"We are going be great to see u there x

New profile you two?

Sure will be nice to finally meet you both

We are just greedy

Greedy girls! Haha I'm sure you will be getting lots of offers on your new profile, have fun x"

We are! See you sat xx

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By *ruegent101Man
over a year ago

down by the river side


"We are going be great to see u there x

New profile you two?

Sure will be nice to finally meet you both

We are just greedy

Greedy girls! Haha I'm sure you will be getting lots of offers on your new profile, have fun x

We are! See you sat xx "

I'm sure you two will be a big hit at cj's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few tips on gaining approval at CJs

- Ass slap fellow fabbers as you wish

- Drink yourself into merriment

- Drink is for everyone, no need to ask

- Condoms are not allowed

- Animals can watch only, no participating

- Face masks must be on at all times

- Bring your on wipes as some can get a bit messy, especially in the anus area. No one wants a jobby boaby.

Enjoy yourself and get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have come on Saturday & we would have put you in the newbie cage with the rest of them

Mr J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we need to give it a try sometime

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A few tips on gaining approval at CJs

- Ass slap fellow fabbers as you wish

- Drink yourself into merriment

- Drink is for everyone, no need to ask

- Condoms are not allowed

- Animals can watch only, no participating

- Face masks must be on at all times

- Bring your on wipes as some can get a bit messy, especially in the anus area. No one wants a jobby boaby.

Enjoy yourself and get involved."

Check, check n check lol

John

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"A few tips on gaining approval at CJs

- Ass slap fellow fabbers as you wish

- Drink yourself into merriment

- Drink is for everyone, no need to ask

- Condoms are not allowed

- Animals can watch only, no participating

- Face masks must be on at all times

- Bring your on wipes as some can get a bit messy, especially in the anus area. No one wants a jobby boaby.

Enjoy yourself and get involved."

Now I see where I've been going wrong .

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By *abel-30Woman
over a year ago

middle of no-where

I was terrified when I went on my own for the first time. Got chatting to some very nice people and soon put me at ease. Would defo go back once I'm able to, think I would rather go with someone tho, I tend to be a bit socially awkward with people I don't know well so would elevate that if I had someone I knew to bounce conversation with, help me with the courage to chat to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my first time too on Saturday so we can hold hands together...........

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Should have come on Saturday & we would have put you in the newbie cage with the rest of them

Mr J"

Trust me you wouldn't have

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By *ab fem OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"It's my first time too on Saturday so we can hold hands together........... "

It's going to feel like a school trip with everyone holding hands

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By *UN-ALMan
over a year ago

Near Fenwick

Hi as an expat I have experience of clubs in Germany and hoping to visit cjs on the 6th of Feb... Is it easy to walk to from Glasgow west end ? Also what to wear... German clubs have changing rooms so down to nice underwear and sandals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi as an expat I have experience of clubs in Germany and hoping to visit cjs on the 6th of Feb... Is it easy to walk to from Glasgow west end ? Also what to wear... German clubs have changing rooms so down to nice underwear and sandals"

It's about 10 mins in a taxi (£5 or 6) from the west end & it's not a place where everyone gets down to underwear / towels & walks about like that. Downstairs everyone is dressed in normal (or sexy) clothes. Upstairs is the same apart from in the rooms where sexy stuff can happen. In there you could be naked. I'd be embarrassed to be naked or in underwear outwith the designated rooms tbh haha.

Mr J

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By *ord_and_Lady_BiCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

We're thinking about popping our CJ's cherry soon - not sure if it'll be the 30th or 13th Feb though.

Either way, excited & nervous!

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We're thinking about popping our CJ's cherry soon - not sure if it'll be the 30th or 13th Feb though.

Either way, excited & nervous! "

I'm going for the first time on 13th.

Bricking it already lol!

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We're thinking about popping our CJ's cherry soon - not sure if it'll be the 30th or 13th Feb though.

Either way, excited & nervous!

I'm going for the first time on 13th.

Bricking it already lol! "

You can hold my hand K x

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm a CJ's newbie going this Saturday.

Looking forward to it.

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We're thinking about popping our CJ's cherry soon - not sure if it'll be the 30th or 13th Feb though.

Either way, excited & nervous!

I'm going for the first time on 13th.

Bricking it already lol!

You can hold my hand K x"

Promise?!

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We're thinking about popping our CJ's cherry soon - not sure if it'll be the 30th or 13th Feb though.

Either way, excited & nervous!

I'm going for the first time on 13th.

Bricking it already lol!

You can hold my hand K x

Promise?! "

Yep... I'll even make sure I've got a hot handbag for you to admire

K x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We're heading to CJs on the 13th, and I have a new red dress to wear

His first time, hope he likes it!

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We're thinking about popping our CJ's cherry soon - not sure if it'll be the 30th or 13th Feb though.

Either way, excited & nervous!

I'm going for the first time on 13th.

Bricking it already lol!

You can hold my hand K x

Promise?!

Yep... I'll even make sure I've got a hot handbag for you to admire

K x"

LOL!

It's not ALL about the handbags ye know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 more sleeps eeeeekkkkkkk

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We're thinking about popping our CJ's cherry soon - not sure if it'll be the 30th or 13th Feb though.

Either way, excited & nervous!

I'm going for the first time on 13th.

Bricking it already lol!

You can hold my hand K x

Promise?!

Yep... I'll even make sure I've got a hot handbag for you to admire

K x

LOL!

It's not ALL about the handbags ye know! "

Bloody hope not lol K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only just realised that girlinlingerie & me Starbuck are both going to be there on Saturday. Kinda wish we were going for that reason alone. Have a wonderful time both of you, I expect stories

Mr J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only just realised that girlinlingerie & me Starbuck are both going to be there on Saturday. Kinda wish we were going for that reason alone. Have a wonderful time both of you, I expect stories

Mr J"

I hope to have lots of stories to tell from my first time visiting the new place

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only just realised that girlinlingerie & me Starbuck are both going to be there on Saturday. Kinda wish we were going for that reason alone. Have a wonderful time both of you, I expect stories

Mr J"

Are you trying to match make MR J ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea so would you two kindly get it on? Okthanks

Mr J

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