FabSwingers.com forum: Subjects for debate, creepy and or ironic don't you think.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is kiss fuck or avoid or many of the topics on here for that matter making anyone else think this is like school. Seriously I feel like I'm too old for that kinda chat and it creeps me out, scary thing is I'm one of the younger members.

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Light hearted banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 is young?

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Don't read them then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is kiss fuck or avoid or many of the topics on here for that matter making anyone else think this is like school. Seriously I feel like I'm too old for that kinda chat and it creeps me out, scary thing is I'm one of the younger members."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't read them then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Younger....... ha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Andy thanks for taking time to post, however I don't read them but as you scroll you can't help but see them, now I'm sure as it's a discussion group, you have something a wee bit better to add fella, give it a go.... what harm can it do lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My comment to Andy also apply to you to he he

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm pretty sure I summed it all up in my first post.

If you don't like the threads, don't post on them.

If you don't like the topics, start some more yourself.

Anything else you'd like to know?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

We could discuss religion ,politics or even the meaning of life .Sometimes though people just want something less serious and intense . There's nothing wrong with wanting serious conversation and debate ,likewise is you just want light fluffy stuff! That's the great thing about the forums there's a plethora of subjects ,and if they don't engage you then you can add your own!

I'd hate to think I'm ever too old to act abit silly at times ..

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Look to the amount of posters left its the biggest problem. scotland forums has been taken here and as many have elluded to.if you dont join the gang or at least agree with it you get ostracised I still talk to many that wont or cant use the forums anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did all things you said ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am not personally attacking anyone either, yet people take stuff to heart it seems,thing is I have the sort of job where being able to think of stuff is required and your never too old to be thinking like a younger person, but I'm assuming you mean adult and i feel it's a bit school level some of the chat, but not that I have an issue with that other than when it's about sexual content as I find it makes me feel a bit odd as school type chat and sex is strange in my personal opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, I am often abused for bucking the trend, yet I never jump to being defensive, I'm youngest in a large group of siblings so I'm used to being picked on lol but some are quite intense about newcomers

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You could always just ignore threads you don't like, I only open those I feel may interest me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not really what I'm asking though fella. Although I can't say that's not sound advice, I'm just asking if anyone else thinks it's odd or creepy or the likes.

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just humour derived from Snog, Marry, Avoid, that was for adults and on TV ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just humour derived from Snog, Marry, Avoid, that was for adults and on TV ??"

Well each to there own, we are all diff and what is normal, because to me it's something and anyone else it's what ever they think, at the end of they day, I find it creepy, you find it funny, we're both right really and on that note need to move my ass lol take it easy fella

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've no real opinion on it, just see it for what it is, though it does create the risk of offending someone lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We could discuss religion ,politics or even the meaning of life .Sometimes though people just want something less serious and intense . There's nothing wrong with wanting serious conversation and debate ,likewise is you just want light fluffy stuff! That's the great thing about the forums there's a plethora of subjects ,and if they don't engage you then you can add your own!

I'd hate to think I'm ever too old to act abit silly at times ..

This

I guess you "kiss, fuck or avoid" whatever posts you like or don't like

Red

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

In the context of this site and some of the messages that get sent on it, 'Kiss, Fuck or Avoid' threads on the forum are one of the least creepy things here.

Ask any female. They'll tell you Kiss, Fuck or Avoid is the least of their site issues.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"In the context of this site and some of the messages that get sent on it, 'Kiss, Fuck or Avoid' threads on the forum are one of the least creepy things here.

Ask any female. They'll tell you Kiss, Fuck or Avoid is the least of their site issues. "
spot on

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"In the context of this site and some of the messages that get sent on it, 'Kiss, Fuck or Avoid' threads on the forum are one of the least creepy things here.

Ask any female. They'll tell you Kiss, Fuck or Avoid is the least of their site issues. "
why just females ?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I just take kiss ,fuck or avoid threads ,as with anything on here with a HUGE pinch of salt and a fun distraction . I will also say for me it's been a useful tool in getting chatting to folks .Even led to flirting and meeting a guy I consider a good friend now . So like anything it can be negative or posative just depending on way the individual wants to look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why it's "creepy". Enlightenment required.

If its not for you..easily ignored. I'd rather see light hearted nonsense than controversy and rudeness any day.

There are things that make us all go

and that's probably as it should be. Room for us all..no?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I don't get why it's "creepy". Enlightenment required.

If its not for you..easily ignored. I'd rather see light hearted nonsense than controversy and rudeness any day.

There are things that make us all go

and that's probably as it should be. Room for us all..no?

And there you go muddying the waters with common sense ! How very dare you ! Tut!tut!

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"In the context of this site and some of the messages that get sent on it, 'Kiss, Fuck or Avoid' threads on the forum are one of the least creepy things here.

Ask any female. They'll tell you Kiss, Fuck or Avoid is the least of their site issues. why just females ?"

Surely you don't really need that explaining?

But as there is always one pedant, then yes, guys will get creepy messages too. We see them complaining about them aaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"In the context of this site and some of the messages that get sent on it, 'Kiss, Fuck or Avoid' threads on the forum are one of the least creepy things here.

Ask any female. They'll tell you Kiss, Fuck or Avoid is the least of their site issues. why just females ?

Surely you don't really need that explaining?

But as there is always one pedant, then yes, guys will get creepy messages too. We see them complaining about them aaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time...

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surely you dont need that explaining? Kind of reads as though your making out im as thick as two planks. Or in the next line im making out my advanced learning lol make up your mind .I think I was quite clear in my question of why just females and your correct I have a theory why you wrote it but its better to hear it from the horses mouth. Not that I expect your reply to confirm what I think though

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"In the context of this site and some of the messages that get sent on it, 'Kiss, Fuck or Avoid' threads on the forum are one of the least creepy things here.

Ask any female. They'll tell you Kiss, Fuck or Avoid is the least of their site issues. why just females ?

Surely you don't really need that explaining?

But as there is always one pedant, then yes, guys will get creepy messages too. We see them complaining about them aaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time...

I got creepy messages daily from bi "straight guys" up until recently, when I ended up just blocking all guys. I've never felt compelled to complain publicly or on the forums about it though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AVOID

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"AVOID

Mikki, You have more balls than me... Was gonna say that but then thought is this thread ready for my cheekiness

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I get unwelcome messages from guys that could be considered creepy, but it's nothing like the volume women and couples get.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"In the context of this site and some of the messages that get sent on it, 'Kiss, Fuck or Avoid' threads on the forum are one of the least creepy things here.

Ask any female. They'll tell you Kiss, Fuck or Avoid is the least of their site issues. why just females ?

Surely you don't really need that explaining?

But as there is always one pedant, then yes, guys will get creepy messages too. We see them complaining about them aaaaaaaaaaaaaaall the time...

surely you dont need that explaining? Kind of reads as though your making out im as thick as two planks. Or in the next line im making out my advanced learning lol make up your mind .I think I was quite clear in my question of why just females and your correct I have a theory why you wrote it but its better to hear it from the horses mouth. Not that I expect your reply to confirm what I think though

I stipulated solely females because due to the male - female ratio on here, we know that invariably, it's females who are receiving the largest volume of messages - therefore more likely to receive the largest volume of (individually defined) 'creepy' messages.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Kiss

Think of kiss, fuck and avoid threads as a simple way to flirt with someone on the forums. It's a little harmless fun that doesn't normally descend into an argument of some sort. You may find it childish but I find it to be innocent fun, especially when I see who wants to do what.

It can't all be about hard fucking, squirting or politics on here. I prefer the fluff threads, you don't need to think too hard about them

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

They're definitely not my thing so I just avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the context of this site and some of the messages that get sent on it, 'Kiss, Fuck or Avoid' threads on the forum are one of the least creepy things here.

Ask any female. They'll tell you Kiss, Fuck or Avoid is the least of their site issues. spot on

When you pose a loaded question of women being treated like rubbish, firstly let let say, I think anyone abusing anyone is never acceptable, I'm actually pro women's rights and pro feminists as it's only fair u guys have equal rights, voice etc, howeversome women in this very chapter in forums (Scotland scotty) mocked me at suggesting this problem would only worsen and create a man bunch of crazed mob mentality blokes in some cases who would not be happy that women were as sacred as hens teeth, on the other side of coin men are discriminated by the majority of women on here as pieces of meat and or ass holes too, so it's catch 22, the site could make members jump through hoops and men would be restricted to even the evergrowim male dominance up a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it odd because reminds me of school and being 14-15, but as I say what's normal, either way no winners losers and to be fair they have put good chat up since

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It reminded me of school and being 14, so I as a male adult who has worked with kids lots find those kinda ages and adult sex thought are not mixable, it's how it makes me feel, thought I had explained that, if not sorry I missed u

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It reminded me of school and being 14, so I as a male adult who has worked with kids lots find those kinda ages and adult sex thought are not mixable, it's how it makes me feel, thought I had explained that, if not sorry I missed u"
Aww shut up Mr grumpy anD gezz a kiss

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