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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, after today's exam I was chatting socially to some of the students. There were 4 of them so I asked, out of curiousity, if they thought I was straight or gay since I am so often seen as being gay. 3 out of the 4 said gay.

So...for those who know me, what is it that makes me seem like I'm gay? For the record this is just me asking a genuine question because I'm interested in the answer.

Mr J

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Are you allowed to talk to your students about that kind of thing? Isn't there some kind of code of conduct?

I think it's your mannerisms that would make people think that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you allowed to talk to your students about that kind of thing? Isn't there some kind of code of conduct?

I think it's your mannerisms that would make people think that "

It was a civil chat among adults, (I'm the second youngest in the group,)

Thanks for the input though. That's what one of them said. The others didn't offer a reason.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't know you, but from some of threads and messages you post on here, I'd say you were probably a bit more the oversensitive type.

That may be leading everyone to conclude you are gay?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Come across as a cuck type to me.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

So I've met you Mr J, and we've spoken on numerous occasions.

I've never thought you were gay....however, you do have a 'vibe' that I can't put into words sometimes. To be honest, I wonder if it's just because sometimes you can be misunderstood or whether it's because you don't really care about how people see you.

Either way, it really makes no odds.

You are who you are.

And I wouldn't want you to change as I think it would detract from your personality if you tried to conform to someone else's view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were never going to be in the 'butch man' category if that makes sense (can you use butch for men or is it a term for manly women? No idea but you get my point)

But to be honest i always thought it was maybe just a comment or 2 that had been made (either joking or curious) that had been picked up on and you get teased about it a little til its just kinda stuck and become a running joke?

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"You were never going to be in the 'butch man' category if that makes sense (can you use butch for men or is it a term for manly women? No idea but you get my point)

But to be honest i always thought it was maybe just a comment or 2 that had been made (either joking or curious) that had been picked up on and you get teased about it a little til its just kinda stuck and become a running joke? "

You could be right.....a bit like a cake fiend

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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I don't see it mate. Having seen/met you briefly at CJs on Boxing Day -- I wouldn't have thought it. I get what lingerie said above about not being "butch" but then neither am I...

#... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your too nice, I often get asked if I'm gay becuase I'm too nice. In my life I've only ever been asked out by 4girls but have been asked out by over 20guys, even on fab most of the attention I get is from guys.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

EUREKA!!!!

I've worked it out!!!!!

It's because you don't have a hairy chest like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You were never going to be in the 'butch man' category if that makes sense (can you use butch for men or is it a term for manly women? No idea but you get my point)

But to be honest i always thought it was maybe just a comment or 2 that had been made (either joking or curious) that had been picked up on and you get teased about it a little til its just kinda stuck and become a running joke?

You could be right.....a bit like a cake fiend "

You mean you aren't a cake fiend Furry??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Come across as a cuck type to me. "

What makes you say that?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You were never going to be in the 'butch man' category if that makes sense (can you use butch for men or is it a term for manly women? No idea but you get my point)

But to be honest i always thought it was maybe just a comment or 2 that had been made (either joking or curious) that had been picked up on and you get teased about it a little til its just kinda stuck and become a running joke? "

That could be true on here. Except I had an ex ask me ifi was gay & the chat today was with 4 random people who only know me from uni, 3 of whom assumed I was gay.

It's just a little confusing for someone who is straight is all.

Mr J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You were never going to be in the 'butch man' category if that makes sense (can you use butch for men or is it a term for manly women? No idea but you get my point)

But to be honest i always thought it was maybe just a comment or 2 that had been made (either joking or curious) that had been picked up on and you get teased about it a little til its just kinda stuck and become a running joke?

That could be true on here. Except I had an ex ask me ifi was gay & the chat today was with 4 random people who only know me from uni, 3 of whom assumed I was gay.

It's just a little confusing for someone who is straight is all.

Mr J"

Take this in the light hearted manner its intended

Doth thou protest too much??

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"You were never going to be in the 'butch man' category if that makes sense (can you use butch for men or is it a term for manly women? No idea but you get my point)

But to be honest i always thought it was maybe just a comment or 2 that had been made (either joking or curious) that had been picked up on and you get teased about it a little til its just kinda stuck and become a running joke?

You could be right.....a bit like a cake fiend

You mean you aren't a cake fiend Furry?? "

I never said that.....

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"You were never going to be in the 'butch man' category if that makes sense (can you use butch for men or is it a term for manly women? No idea but you get my point)

But to be honest i always thought it was maybe just a comment or 2 that had been made (either joking or curious) that had been picked up on and you get teased about it a little til its just kinda stuck and become a running joke?

That could be true on here. Except I had an ex ask me ifi was gay & the chat today was with 4 random people who only know me from uni, 3 of whom assumed I was gay.

It's just a little confusing for someone who is straight is all.

Mr J"

It's a bit like friends when they all assumed Chandler was gay as he had a 'quality'. It's not true but sometimes a few people may get a feeling about you that they can't explain except by wondering if you're gay

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By *oftSwingDuoCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Never change Mr J ... Julie and I love having a gay friend!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never change Mr J ... Julie and I love having a gay friend! "

Piss off!!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Never change Mr J ... Julie and I love having a gay friend! "

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never change Mr J ... Julie and I love having a gay friend!

Well said! "

You can piss off too! No cake for you!!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Never change Mr J ... Julie and I love having a gay friend!

Well said!

You can piss off too! No cake for you!! "

Luv ya man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never change Mr J ... Julie and I love having a gay friend!

Well said!

You can piss off too! No cake for you!!

Luv ya man "

Thats almost an offer for your first bf Mr J

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Never change Mr J ... Julie and I love having a gay friend!

Well said!

You can piss off too! No cake for you!!

Luv ya man

Thats almost an offer for your first bf Mr J "

Except it would never work - he's an empire biscuit lover and I'm a lemon drizzle cake lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, after today's exam I was chatting socially to some of the students. There were 4 of them so I asked, out of curiousity, if they thought I was straight or gay since I am so often seen as being gay. 3 out of the 4 said gay.

So...for those who know me, what is it that makes me seem like I'm gay? For the record this is just me asking a genuine question because I'm interested in the answer.

Mr J"

What's wrong with people thinking your gay

Nothing up with being gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empire biscuits a deal breaker then

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Empire biscuits a deal breaker then "

It would never work

The only thing we have in common is our love of boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

mmmmmmmmmmm boobs....wait did someone say something??

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