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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone ever had a bad meet before?

I was d*unk and horny one night on my old profile and invitied a guy round and he was shaking and everything lol and was done in a minute! Was very strange as well....has kinda put me off meeting guys from here x

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Ive had one bad meet. The guy had to tell people we done all sorts when it was only a coffee meet. It put me off for a while.

Im only meeting one guy now though so no more bad meets for me. I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw and this is why us good guys don't get a chance with you lush ladies.

No bad meets for me so far thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have had 1 or 2.....

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

There's been a couple. From rank flats to people being economical with the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned up to a meet once and the guy had totally lied about his partner being there and involved.

When I went to leave he got pretty abusive. Was a strange one likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a meet a few years ago that wasn't bas as such however...the guy had had too many beers and absolutely couldn't get it up and seemed more interested in watching me with his wife than playing with J, which obviously pissed her off no end!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've been lucky.....I've heard horror stories but I've not had a bad meet

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've yet to see any advantage to Dutch courage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ave had one social meet was great play meet was horrendous now a know why some girls always wanna see cock pics first a will not be making that mistake again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been lucky enough to only have good meets. Long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All been fine for us. Met great folks along the way, even those we haven't got round to 'playing' with. One we both knew wasn't going to properly happen when the guy clearly hadn't changed out of his dirty work clothes. Was nice enough but 'that' wasn't going to happen.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone ever had a bad meet before?

I was d*unk and horny one night on my old profile and invitied a guy round and he was shaking and everything lol and was done in a minute! Was very strange as well....has kinda put me off meeting guys from here x"
awe that's nice, you took the poor guys virginty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone ever had a bad meet before?

I was d*unk and horny one night on my old profile and invitied a guy round and he was shaking and everything lol and was done in a minute! Was very strange as well....has kinda put me off meeting guys from here xawe that's nice, you took the poor guys virginty "

I really do think I did lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone ever had a bad meet before?

I was d*unk and horny one night on my old profile and invitied a guy round and he was shaking and everything lol and was done in a minute! Was very strange as well....has kinda put me off meeting guys from here xawe that's nice, you took the poor guys virginty

I really do think I did lmao "
we've all got to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone ever had a bad meet before?

I was d*unk and horny one night on my old profile and invitied a guy round and he was shaking and everything lol and was done in a minute! Was very strange as well....has kinda put me off meeting guys from here xawe that's nice, you took the poor guys virginty

I really do think I did lmao we've all got to start somewhere "

Yeah well not when I'm d*unk and horny lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely had some shockers when I was on my own here; from being in the back of a car while the driver took drugs to turning up at a house only to be blocked & have their phone turned off to feeling pressured into action within 5 minutes & being unable to get it up.

Mrs J has also had some bad ones in the past.

Thankfully together, we've had only good meets. Probably just wiser & more careful now.

Mr J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy who turned out to have a premature ejaculation problem ... After ridiculous amount of chat about everything and anything to get his mind off it in the hope he might get hard again ... The second time was even quicker than the first would you believe it

At which point he got up and in the shower making it clear he was done and needed to get on with his day selfish idiot!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Never had a bad meet, and only one 'no show', so maybe I've been quite fortunate.

But although it doesn't guarantee anything, the way you go about things before the actual meet can make the difference between success and failure.

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"Met a guy who turned out to have a premature ejaculation problem ... After ridiculous amount of chat about everything and anything to get his mind off it in the hope he might get hard again ... The second time was even quicker than the first would you believe it

At which point he got up and in the shower making it clear he was done and needed to get on with his day selfish idiot! "

He was probably just more embarrassed to stay in your company afterwards ?? Poor guy.

I've had one bad meet, it was hygiene related and scarred me. They sent a message the next day asking when the next week was = insta-blocked there and then.

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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Asking when the next meet was*

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By *r fandangoMan
over a year ago

around

Had a couple from the women's dog that tried to bight me every time she came near me or the good old my wife has been called into work she won't be long am bi if you want to play till she gets here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met a guy who turned out to have a premature ejaculation problem ... After ridiculous amount of chat about everything and anything to get his mind off it in the hope he might get hard again ... The second time was even quicker than the first would you believe it

At which point he got up and in the shower making it clear he was done and needed to get on with his day selfish idiot! "

Sounds like the night I had lmao x

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Met a guy who turned out to have a premature ejaculation problem ... After ridiculous amount of chat about everything and anything to get his mind off it in the hope he might get hard again ... The second time was even quicker than the first would you believe it

At which point he got up and in the shower making it clear he was done and needed to get on with his day selfish idiot!

He was probably just more embarrassed to stay in your company afterwards ?? Poor guy.

I've had one bad meet, it was hygiene related and scarred me. They sent a message the next day asking when the next week was = insta-blocked there and then. "

She not wash??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a pieced chick scratch the hood of my car... does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a guy who turned out to have a premature ejaculation problem ... After ridiculous amount of chat about everything and anything to get his mind off it in the hope he might get hard again ... The second time was even quicker than the first would you believe it

At which point he got up and in the shower making it clear he was done and needed to get on with his day selfish idiot!

Sounds like the night I had lmao x"

Mine was a Sunday afternoon... Dragged myself out my hangover bed for that!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met a guy who turned out to have a premature ejaculation problem ... After ridiculous amount of chat about everything and anything to get his mind off it in the hope he might get hard again ... The second time was even quicker than the first would you believe it

At which point he got up and in the shower making it clear he was done and needed to get on with his day selfish idiot!

Sounds like the night I had lmao x

Mine was a Sunday afternoon... Dragged myself out my hangover bed for that!! "

I would have been raging lol! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I had one who got verbally abusive and one who was physically abusive.

Had two lucky escapes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a Cpl and went to the pub with them , they sat and drank for a good while and I only heard the woman say " gin n tonic " all night. I tried to leave and the guy is like just buy us one for the road. I am a polite non pushy guy but really just wanted to go home. Eventually the guy said to go back to there house. By then I really wanted to go home. The guy insisted I buy them a Chinese meal on the way home. I think it was for the whole street they lived in.

I drove them home with the said meal.

We went straight to the bedroom where the " lady " cast off her clothes and started quoting me a price list for sexual acts but I was to be quick as she did not want her food going cold as her partner sat in the corner stuffing his face.

I gently stated that that it might not be right for me to be paying for sex when she got angry and said " we have had expensis you know " !!!

Baring in mind I picked them up , took them to the pub , bought a huge Chinese meal , drove them home I was un sure as to what the expense was !!!

I made my excuses that I need to go to the bank for more money.

I got a txt as I drove passed the airport twenty minutes later asking when I was returning with the money !!!!

I really must go back one day !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a bad meet from this site at all.

I did before this site was born from a previous site. Turned up at this house to be met by the Bride of Chucky who cried for half an hour telling me how Chucky was banging his secretary and how she caught them and was looking for revenge.

Images of Glenn Close flashes in front of me and I still get a shiver down my spine whenever I drive past that neighbourhood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worst meet we ever had was with a couple who looked great, they were a bit over enthusiastic to get down to some action but that wasn't too big a problem!

The real problem was their respective hygiene issues.

Him- Boxer shorts from the 1980s, all over body odour, kind of fusty fungus time smell. Bev didn't even go near his knob naturally.

Her- First thing i noticed was that her clothing was covered in hair, fluff and assorted debris that could only be achieved if you kept your clothes on the floor and allow your cat/dog/gerbil to sleep on then.

She clearly had designs on sitting on my face however before she even got past my chest area (no pants on) the smell almost made me sick, the smell of urine and unwashed vag was beyond anything i'd ever known.

I looked over to see the look of horror on Bev's face and immediately stopped proceeding suggesting as we walked out they should consider washing themselves and their clothes more often!

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I have been lucky enough only really have had one bad experience! Chatted to a girl from here for ages exchanged pics and she looked great! Seemed on the same wave length and all going well!

She invited me over to her place one day, all looking great!

Picked up a wee bottle of wine and headed over for the time! Walked up to the house and started to get the fear! The garden looked like a scrap yard for kids toys, standard rusty trampoline in garden!

Chapped the door and she answered wearing the worst grey tracksuit I've ever seen! It got worse from then!

As she opened the door I heard what could only be described as a wolf barking! Behind a small baby gate in the kitchen was the hound of the Baskerville dog or an Akita I'm not sure! The house was howling!

In the door five minutes and she was rubbing my cock, all I could think of was that dog which I'm sure would have eaten me!

Made my excuses and left after a bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worst meet we ever had was with a couple who looked great, they were a bit over enthusiastic to get down to some action but that wasn't too big a problem!

The real problem was their respective hygiene issues.

Him- Boxer shorts from the 1980s, all over body odour, kind of fusty fungus time smell. Bev didn't even go near his knob naturally.

Her- First thing i noticed was that her clothing was covered in hair, fluff and assorted debris that could only be achieved if you kept your clothes on the floor and allow your cat/dog/gerbil to sleep on then.

She clearly had designs on sitting on my face however before she even got past my chest area (no pants on) the smell almost made me sick, the smell of urine and unwashed vag was beyond anything i'd ever known.

I looked over to see the look of horror on Bev's face and immediately stopped proceeding suggesting as we walked out they should consider washing themselves and their clothes more often!"

But apart from that what was actually wrong with them ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a guy who turned out to have a premature ejaculation problem ... After ridiculous amount of chat about everything and anything to get his mind off it in the hope he might get hard again ... The second time was even quicker than the first would you believe it

At which point he got up and in the shower making it clear he was done and needed to get on with his day selfish idiot! "

We invited a premature ejaculator round to ours one night but we weren't in when he got here. He came to early

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By *ard to beatMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I turned up to a meet once and the guy had totally lied about his partner being there and involved.

When I went to leave he got pretty abusive. Was a strange one likes. "

I had a similar one when a couple messaged me but only the guy turned up. I sent him on his way.

But was left thinking what did he think was going to happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to mention they had bad breath as well!

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By *bandAbCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire.

Had one just as we were starting out we arranged to meet him at a hotel in glasgow. We booked it and paid for it. But he never showed and never heard from him again. Thats what puts us off single guys for now until we have time to attend a club and actually meet people that meet. Or we get lucky with a couple.

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By *ay and KatieCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Met a guy who turned out to have a premature ejaculation problem ... After ridiculous amount of chat about everything and anything to get his mind off it in the hope he might get hard again ... The second time was even quicker than the first would you believe it

At which point he got up and in the shower making it clear he was done and needed to get on with his day selfish idiot!

We invited a premature ejaculator round to ours one night but we weren't in when he got here. He came to early "

Howling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully not had bad meets touch wood. Only thing a guy turned up to meet me

Stoned and smelling of stale dirty fingernails n made me want to spew in my mouth rather than have fun with him so just left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a young guy had a bit of fun in his car on on the way back to drop me off we were talking about places and he got somthing wrong which i pointed not thinking anything of it til he got arsey calling me a know it all drove rest of the way in silence, i asked him to stop at a shop til i got water when i went in shop he drove away and left me haha to be honest i was glad cause i couldnt wait to get out of there, funny thing when i was on here with my ex this same guy messaged us i politely told him where to go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah... the butcher round the corner is terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh... "meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only newbie on here that's gone through this and got terrible paranoia about meeting fellow fabbers, some of these stories are horrific

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I met a Cpl and went to the pub with them , they sat and drank for a good while and I only heard the woman say " gin n tonic " all night. I tried to leave and the guy is like just buy us one for the road. I am a polite non pushy guy but really just wanted to go home. Eventually the guy said to go back to there house. By then I really wanted to go home. The guy insisted I buy them a Chinese meal on the way home. I think it was for the whole street they lived in.

I drove them home with the said meal.

We went straight to the bedroom where the " lady " cast off her clothes and started quoting me a price list for sexual acts but I was to be quick as she did not want her food going cold as her partner sat in the corner stuffing his face.

I gently stated that that it might not be right for me to be paying for sex when she got angry and said " we have had expensis you know " !!!

Baring in mind I picked them up , took them to the pub , bought a huge Chinese meal , drove them home I was un sure as to what the expense was !!!

I made my excuses that I need to go to the bank for more money.

I got a txt as I drove passed the airport twenty minutes later asking when I was returning with the money !!!!

I really must go back one day !!!!!!!"

And yet those of us who are genuine struggle to get meets.

I'd have just made out I was going the toilet and gone.

Did you report them to admin? Sounds more like a scam than a meet.

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Am I the only newbie on here that's gone through this and got terrible paranoia about meeting fellow fabbers, some of these stories are horrific

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Like any forum, people talk about the bad things more than the good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reading these stories is scary, couples is still on my bucket list as the few I've talked too either quit chatting or given me a bad vibe.

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's no easier as a couple either, was let down plenty of times without explanation, but the good meets made up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had loads of mental bad meets in my years on here.

I've been beaten up, assaulted, had someone steal my kids stuff, someone's wife turned up at my door after following him( he was single)

Had guys turn up unannounced after meeting one time!

Also had guys that had so much cheese under their fore skin I thought they were trying to start a cheese mongers!

Had my fair share of stalkers, bunny boilers, lunatics and weirdos but there is an odd good one that makes it worth it.

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm amazed you are still here after all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had loads of mental bad meets in my years on here.

I've been beaten up, assaulted, had someone steal my kids stuff, someone's wife turned up at my door after following him( he was single)

Had guys turn up unannounced after meeting one time!

Also had guys that had so much cheese under their fore skin I thought they were trying to start a cheese mongers!

Had my fair share of stalkers, bunny boilers, lunatics and weirdos but there is an odd good one that makes it worth it. "

And that was just in the first week !

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Had guys turn up unannounced after meeting one time! "

Which is why I don't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a "really bad meet" as such but had one I remember that was a bit poor. I arranged a regular meet with Cpl when in Ireland and on the night they asked if another Cpl they knew could join us at my hotel?...Being a gent and knowing another Fem would be there I said yes. On the night the second Cpl got really d*unk in hotel bar and the Fem was sick in lift up to room...Kind of put us all off but in fairness to them they came back the next night to apologise face to face and I have played with them since...

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By *uperboabyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not had any bad meets in my 2 years on & off here but did have one girl that looked great in the photos sent but when I turned up was quite different.

Was thinking about getting her done under the Trade Descriptions Act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had guys turn up unannounced after meeting one time! Which is why I don't accommodate"
That's the one you picked up on? holy crap, after that list I'd install a flame thrower on my door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman from FAB around four and years ago. She drove to my house, we shagged then she left without saying much. She didn't really say much at all when we met.

I think she just wanted a ride, which I was happy to oblige but it was weird. Not bad but weird.

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