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"I've been called everything under the sun over the years...even a man! All insults fall under the category of "lucky escapes". I smile, block and jog along. " | |||
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"It amazes me sometimes how quickly people can change on here .. from being so nice with their first message to being abussive if u dare to turn them down We cant all like everyone or the world would be a boring place x Just smile and move on if u get a kb x " It's really amazing how people can change in this environment, and not just at the initial messaging stage. You think you know someone, then something happens or things don't go the way they want or expected, and suddenly.........a totally different person!   | |||
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""you should be on fabguys because you're obviously a faggot" " Oh ffs | |||
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"I've been called everything under the sun over the years...even a man! All insults fall under the category of "lucky escapes". I smile, block and jog along. " K x | |||
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" Excuse me while I reach for the ice cream "LoL You want some strawberry or chocolate sauce on top of your ice cream? Sprinkes too? And a flake  | |||
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"All insults fall under the category of "lucky escapes". I smile, block and jog along. " | |||
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"Isn't this sort of behaviour typical of internet based comms - people think they can say stuff they probably would not dream of saying to your face." exactly! I just laugh at the patheticness of it all move on | |||
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"I've been called everything under the sun over the years...even a man! All insults fall under the category of "lucky escapes". I smile, block and jog along. " | |||
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"I got called "chipolata fingers" tonight. I've no fucking idea where that came from. I've not exactly got small hands ffs! " Is that not another word for sausage fingers? Ie nice & thick? Xxx | |||
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"Isn't this sort of behaviour typical of internet based comms - people think they can say stuff they probably would not dream of saying to your face. exactly! I just laugh at the patheticness of it all move on" Exactly
He was obviously throwing his toys out the pram when he didn't get what he wanted, the poor wee poppet he sounds too immature to be meeting | |||
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"I got called "chipolata fingers" tonight. I've no fucking idea where that came from. I've not exactly got small hands ffs! Is that not another word for sausage fingers? Ie nice & thick? Xxx" No idea. Bizarre thing to call someone on the first message! | |||
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"when I get these messages I am childish and reply.. Even a fatty knocked you back "Love that reply | |||
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"when I get these messages I am childish and reply.. Even a fatty knocked you back " | |||
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"when I get these messages I am childish and reply.. Even a fatty knocked you back " | |||
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""you should be on fabguys because you're obviously a faggot" " Bit rude! | |||
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"on another note .. Women also dont take too kindly to knockbacks. "Wouldn't know
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"on another note .. Women also dont take too kindly to knockbacks. "They really really don't. I've had some quite nasty responses after politely telling someone they're not my type.  | |||
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"when I get these messages I am childish and reply.. Even a fatty knocked you back "Brilliant!!!! Love it!!! Only yesterday I got told to Fuck Off after patiently and politely explaining why I wouldn't meet him... Agree with most here... smile and move on. Red | |||
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"I always leave with a smile.. Especially when I hit back at some rude offensive muppet "If someone degenerates into rudeness I agree they deserve whatever they get... be it a sharp response or a block... To be clear... I have had many, many civil and polite respones to a kb too and it has even made me think.... ooooer maybe............ lolol Red | |||
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"I got called "chipolata fingers" tonight. I've no fucking idea where that came from. I've not exactly got small hands ffs! Is that not another word for sausage fingers? Ie nice & thick? Xxx No idea. Bizarre thing to call someone on the first message! "Oh so she hadn't even met you?! that is very odd!!xx | |||
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"I always leave with a smile.. Especially when I hit back at some rude offensive muppet "Frustratingly, he blocked me before I could reply!!! | |||
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"Someone got pretty aggressive with me because I turned down the opportunity to "try-with-a-guy", though I did take the offer as a compliment. I was initially pretty enraged but then realised that my sexuality wasn't my fault and ergo he was just a bit of a knob! Decided that a lack of reply is probably more suitable than a polite knock-back. Also figured out message filters to prevent recurrence." It's interesting you chose a response many females do - i.e. non response. As I have said there are many many lovely, polite and courteous guys here but as a female you sometimes feel you can never get it right. If you don't respond you are rude and if you do you end up getting abuse or told you are a time waster. I remember one guy asked me "couldn't I just fit him in?" No wonder many men get accused of a "dial a shag" mentality... My response was polite however but DIRECT... | |||
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"Red totally agree Damned if you do, damned if you don't I often get messages asking when we can meet, no previous chat or actually consenting to meet.. It's a bad assumption" It is NB - It's a done to death subject here I know but hopefully it let's both men AND women see both sides of it here lol Red xXx | |||
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"The quicker people learn too handle rejection ..the quicker people will get too move on Btw ..Whats the Dial-a-Shag number ? lol "I thought you alreday had that...  | |||
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"There should be a fab induction process or fab school .. Caned for bad behaviour "Hahaha - I think you might find it gets oversubscribed NB | |||
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"There should be a fab induction process or fab school .. Caned for bad behaviour "Are you the Head Mistress ? | |||
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"There should be a fab induction process or fab school .. Caned for bad behaviour
Are you the Head Mistress ?
"Aherm we all know who the naughty boy would be.... | |||
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"It makes me laugh.... the opening messages say "wow, what a stunner etc".... 30 pics get fabbed,you're winked at.... You say, sorry no thanks and you're instantly downgraded to an ugly boot or a freak lol... "But honey, 5 mins ago you were desperate to shag this freak, whats that say about you?" "Jo, I'd love to see some of your responses lolol Red xXx | |||
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"There should be a fab induction process or fab school .. Caned for bad behaviour
Are you the Head Mistress ?
Aherm we all know who the naughty boy would be.... "Ya see ....I get blamed for everything Muahuhuhuhaaaaaaaa | |||
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"There should be a fab induction process or fab school .. Caned for bad behaviour
Are you the Head Mistress ?
Aherm we all know who the naughty boy would be....
Ya see ....I get blamed for everything
Muahuhuhuhaaaaaaaa
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"Just knocked someone back (nicely) and he said I was fat. Awww. Wasn't that nice of him? Excuse me while I reach for the ice cream "You're hot x | |||
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"Just knocked someone back (nicely) and he said I was fat. Awww. Wasn't that nice of him? Excuse me while I reach for the ice cream "hahahaha | |||
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"One charmers replied to us when knocked back with the immortal phrase: "Didn't fancy use onway. Dirty fuckin mingers" Personally I blame his teachers. Even if he could spell it would have been better. Ps he is still out there on fab you lucky girls "Lmao... ohh how lovely but whether you are male or female you do just have to laugh dontcha... at the attitude and/or the spelling | |||
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"One charmers replied to us when knocked back with the immortal phrase: "Didn't fancy use onway. Dirty fuckin mingers" Personally I blame his teachers. Even if he could spell it would have been better. Ps he is still out there on fab you lucky girls
Lmao... ohh how lovely but whether you are male or female you do just have to laugh dontcha... at the attitude and/or the spelling "Yea it gave me a laugh as we blocked the midget sociopath. Then all he became was a nobody behind a funny story. | |||
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"One charmers replied to us when knocked back with the immortal phrase: "Didn't fancy use onway. Dirty fuckin mingers" Personally I blame his teachers. Even if he could spell it would have been better. Ps he is still out there on fab you lucky girls "The lepers rang bells, maybe we should sound an alarm on fab for these delights | |||
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"One charmers replied to us when knocked back with the immortal phrase: "Didn't fancy use onway. Dirty fuckin mingers" Personally I blame his teachers. Even if he could spell it would have been better. Ps he is still out there on fab you lucky girls
Lmao... ohh how lovely but whether you are male or female you do just have to laugh dontcha... at the attitude and/or the spelling
Yea it gave me a laugh as we blocked the midget sociopath. Then all he became was a nobody behind a funny story." | |||
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"It makes me laugh.... the opening messages say "wow, what a stunner etc".... 30 pics get fabbed,you're winked at.... You say, sorry no thanks and you're instantly downgraded to an ugly boot or a freak lol... "But honey, 5 mins ago you were desperate to shag this freak, whats that say about you?"
Jo, I'd love to see some of your responses lolol
Red xXx "There is some epic replies to my stupid messages lol x | |||
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" For some reason though if I've sent a message which isn't vulgar or pushy or whatever and I get an instant deleted. That seems to piss me off more than a simple no thanks does. " | |||
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"Just knocked someone back (nicely) and he said I was fat. Awww. Wasn't that nice of him? Excuse me while I reach for the ice cream "I've tried them all but always go back to good ol vanilla | |||
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Reported him and he was gone within about 20 mins | |||
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"Oh so many... But the most charming one of all, after I deleted his "want to come and suck ma cock" message was... "Fuck you then, hope you get r*ped and stabbed you slut"
Reported him and he was gone within about 20 mins "Omg wtf | |||
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"Just knocked someone back (nicely) and he said I was fat. Awww. Wasn't that nice of him? Excuse me while I reach for the ice cream
I've tried them all but always go back to good ol vanilla "I don't even like ice cream.... | |||
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"It makes me laugh.... the opening messages say "wow, what a stunner etc".... 30 pics get fabbed,you're winked at.... You say, sorry no thanks and you're instantly downgraded to an ugly boot or a freak lol... "But honey, 5 mins ago you were desperate to shag this freak, whats that say about you?"
Jo, I'd love to see some of your responses lolol
Red xXx
There is some epic replies to my stupid messages lol x"I would expect nothing less maluv lol | |||
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"Must be the week for it at least 3 insults a day I'm getting too wtf is wrong with folk" When you find out do let me know lol Red | |||
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"Just knocked someone back (nicely) and he said I was fat. Awww. Wasn't that nice of him? Excuse me while I reach for the ice cream
I've tried them all but always go back to good ol vanilla
I don't even like ice cream...."What!!! You don't like ice cream....what sort of crazy talk is that. Hehe x | |||
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"It makes me laugh.... the opening messages say "wow, what a stunner etc".... 30 pics get fabbed,you're winked at.... You say, sorry no thanks and you're instantly downgraded to an ugly boot or a freak lol... "But honey, 5 mins ago you were desperate to shag this freak, whats that say about you?"
Jo, I'd love to see some of your responses lolol
Red xXx
There is some epic replies to my stupid messages lol x
I would expect nothing less maluv lol "Ha ha..... i often get shitty messages, get wired into the replies and it often ends up with them not handling, spiiting the dummy and them sending one last poor retort and blocking me instead of the other way about. It's ssooooo much fun | |||
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"Why do Women feel inclined too reply to a well soliceted or non-solicited message?. Whether you like it or not...Sometimes being nice on here in a reply just doesnt work .. Use the block button if it gets abusive report and move on .. Using the block button is sound advice and It IS used but it's not about "inclination". I think most guys here would expect a polite no thanks, in fact it's often a complaint on the forums if women don't reply... hence the damned if you do damned if you don't scenario as per Non Blondes comment. What's being commented on here mostly is polite conversation which much be engaged in to determine whether or not you'd meet which then degenerates into abuse if you refuse POLITELY. It's an age old one on fab though and wont ever change in my opinion Red " | |||
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"when I get these messages I am childish and reply.. Even a fatty knocked you back "Fan needs a like button for this, brilliant | |||
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"Felt the need to update this.... I received a message from someone who said they changed their mind about meeting with me. It was a nice polite message and, although I'm disappointed, I'm not planning on sending him random insults. As has been said, we all have a type. I guess I'm not his. It's nice to be nice "It does make your day when folk are nice doesn't it
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"I had the nerve to ask someone if they were free within a few hours which I could guess the answer to but I thought if u don't ask, u don't get. The reply I got told me I was arrogant (despite being polite & tounge in cheek) and that I should take a jump off a high building
I just replied thanks for the feedback, have a nice day "I got a mail from a couple at 2am on Saturday night there with the opening message "free now?" I wasn't and that was the end of that chain of communication, they were verified etc so I guess it's relatively common for people to ask for last minute meets on here and not arrogant at all lol... Anyway, it wasn't for me and thankfully no insults were traded .
I think I've been lucky, I've not had a bad experience yet in the year I have been on here. | |||
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"I had the nerve to ask someone if they were free within a few hours which I could guess the answer to but I thought if u don't ask, u don't get. The reply I got told me I was arrogant (despite being polite & tounge in cheek) and that I should take a jump off a high building
I just replied thanks for the feedback, have a nice day
I got a mail from a couple at 2am on Saturday night there with the opening message "free now?" I wasn't and that was the end of that chain of communication, they were verified etc so I guess it's relatively common for people to ask for last minute meets on here and not arrogant at all lol... Anyway, it wasn't for me and thankfully no insults were traded .
I think I've been lucky, I've not had a bad experience yet in the year I have been on here. "It's one if the very few bad experiences I've had but nothing surprises me on here. | |||
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