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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking at Your Profile Continually

I have had girls and couples coming back to my profile but never message me. Does this ever happen to you and why do you think they keep coming back without getting in contact. These are the ones who don't have their "who they looked at" hidden

Maybe they want to see if I have fixed my spelling mistakes

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

All the time Horsey....

I often get the winks, if im interested i wink back.

This is a green light for "ok, message me then"...... few do, just keep visiting and a month down the line winking again...

Pfffttttt... ive winked back, you message me! People are strange lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the time Horsey....

I often get the winks, if im interested i wink back.

This is a green light for "ok, message me then"...... few do, just keep visiting and a month down the line winking again...

Pfffttttt... ive winked back, you message me! People are strange lol"

Yeah forgot about winks, Joanne.

Had girls and couples wink at me and I've replied back to say hiya, thanks for winking ladedadeda but they never look at message or reply.

But the question I have asked also includes no winks either, (My fault, should have said), they just look at profile, leave, come back a few days later, look again and then leave

people ehhh

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Maybe people are admiring your profiles and just don't get round to sending wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we've had this sometimes multiple looks in the same day and no contact! Hey Ho!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe people are admiring your profiles and just don't get round to sending wink "

lol, hmmmm

Auch that's so nice, you've made me feel a little better.

Think I better make it more informative then, just incase so they do wink, lollll

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Don't you message them and ask if they liked what they saw?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Yeah all the time. People in the midlands really seem to like us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't you message them and ask if they liked what they saw?"

nope, stuff that. The only time I've ever wondered was someone came back again this morning from a few days previously so that's why I asked on here.

If they keep looking but don't find the time to send message then I'm not going to rush to send them a message to find out why not, sodz law, ehhhh

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Can understand that. But if it's time after time then curiosity would get the better of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

naw, I might have looked at their profile after the first time but that is enough for me

Deffo is not a chaser, they don't want me, then it's without doubt their loss, lol

My mammy would be so proud

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Look at it as window shopping

We don't all rush out and purchase the first thing we see .

So we window browse for a while often looking at the same thing over and over before deciding yep that's the one I want

For some it's just nosiness to see who uve been meeting and for some theye are just admiring the goods on display

Be patient and one day someine will come back and say yep it's him I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same with the friends request thing. Chat away, accept the request, then nothing lol. Can only assume theyre picture hunters!!!

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Im the same.... if someone keeps viewing, fabbing and winking then im not chasing.

If I wink back then feel free to message. But if your waiting on me to open the messages it'll be a long wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm I'm sure its generally women who "window shop".

Us guys are a bit more simple-we see something we like and its "ill have that one please"

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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I'll occasionally click in to view people's profiles - if they post on the forums, or sometimes even if they post some funny/ranting status - I'll view their profile just for my own amusement!

Even those who do not interest me, I'll still click on to their profile here or there if they're always on the forums etc. Mean nothing by it. I regularly see forum users viewing my profile too, even straight guys, etc... But think it's just one of those things people do!

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"Im the same.... if someone keeps viewing, fabbing and winking then im not chasing.

If I wink back then feel free to message. But if your waiting on me to open the messages it'll be a long wait "

That last bit doesn't read right lol...

I meant if someone is constantly viewing, fabbing and winking yet soesnt respond if I return a wink then it'll e a long wait on me initiating messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always end up clicking the one the same people by accident, reading through the forums and on the updates page. I can't get my head round to remembering usernames as I'm stupid, would hate to think I appeared to be stalking or perving all the time. If I saw the same person looking often, male or female, I'd just put it down to either doing the same as me or just being nosey at my profile, after all it is there to be read I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at Your Profile Continually

I have had girls and couples coming back to my profile but never message me. Does this ever happen to you and why do you think they keep coming back without getting in contact. These are the ones who don't have their "who they looked at" hidden

Maybe they want to see if I have fixed my spelling mistakes

"

It's that profile pic horsey it just gets me going. Can't get enough of it lol

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Look at it as window shopping

We don't all rush out and purchase the first thing we see .

So we window browse for a while often looking at the same thing over and over before deciding yep that's the one I want

For some it's just nosiness to see who uve been meeting and for some theye are just admiring the goods on display

Be patient and one day someine will come back and say yep it's him I want "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time,,so?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the time,,so?"

That's why I asked the question.

If you take no notice of someone continually looking at your profile and no contact then cool.

I did, so thought I would start a post and asked everyone's views on it and what they think and you have your view.

Your right if it personally doesn't interest you, kl

xx peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ones that look every hour on the hour, it's creepy as fuck. Grow some balls and say hiya cause most of the time they're absolute hotties

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the ones that look every hour on the hour, it's creepy as fuck. Grow some balls and say hiya cause most of the time they're absolute hotties "

PMSL, never had that, I was mainly thinking of people who come back say two or three times during a whole week.

Every hour, feck that

pmsl, but then again my profile is a tad boring, lol

xx peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at Your Profile Continually

I have had girls and couples coming back to my profile but never message me. Does this ever happen to you and why do you think they keep coming back without getting in contact. These are the ones who don't have their "who they looked at" hidden

Maybe they want to see if I have fixed my spelling mistakes

"

Maybe they forget who they have looked at x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking at Your Profile Continually

I have had girls and couples coming back to my profile but never message me. Does this ever happen to you and why do you think they keep coming back without getting in contact. These are the ones who don't have their "who they looked at" hidden

Maybe they want to see if I have fixed my spelling mistakes

Maybe they forget who they have looked at x"

nawwwww Me and my profile are unforgettable, lol, wit you want me to say......

If I look at a profile I will remember when I look again. I might click on the profile by mistake but will usually remember. I think the people I'm talking about are the ones who see your profile again and then click on it but these are people who say in the past 4 weeks have looked at your profile 3 times a week but never contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time Horsey....

I often get the winks, if im interested i wink back.

This is a green light for "ok, message me then"...... few do, just keep visiting and a month down the line winking again...

Pfffttttt... ive winked back, you message me! People are strange lol

Yeah forgot about winks, Joanne.

Had girls and couples wink at me and I've replied back to say hiya, thanks for winking ladedadeda but they never look at message or reply.

But the question I have asked also includes no winks either, (My fault, should have said), they just look at profile, leave, come back a few days later, look again and then leave

people ehhh

"

happens to me a lot, one girl in particular, I asked her why, she replied I look at a lot of profiles, and that was it! Same with winks, I send a thanks msg,they read and don't reply, some have winked 3 times and never replied wtf is that all about

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"All the time Horsey....

I often get the winks, if im interested i wink back.

This is a green light for "ok, message me then"...... few do, just keep visiting and a month down the line winking again...

Pfffttttt... ive winked back, you message me! People are strange lol

Yeah forgot about winks, Joanne.

Had girls and couples wink at me and I've replied back to say hiya, thanks for winking ladedadeda but they never look at message or reply.

But the question I have asked also includes no winks either, (My fault, should have said), they just look at profile, leave, come back a few days later, look again and then leave

people ehhh

happens to me a lot, one girl in particular, I asked her why, she replied I look at a lot of profiles, and that was it! Same with winks, I send a thanks msg,they read and don't reply, some have winked 3 times and never replied wtf is that all about "
serial wankers. ..ops I mean winkers

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"All the time Horsey....

I often get the winks, if im interested i wink back.

This is a green light for "ok, message me then"...... few do, just keep visiting and a month down the line winking again...

Pfffttttt... ive winked back, you message me! People are strange lol

Yeah forgot about winks, Joanne.

Had girls and couples wink at me and I've replied back to say hiya, thanks for winking ladedadeda but they never look at message or reply.

But the question I have asked also includes no winks either, (My fault, should have said), they just look at profile, leave, come back a few days later, look again and then leave

people ehhh

happens to me a lot, one girl in particular, I asked her why, she replied I look at a lot of profiles, and that was it! Same with winks, I send a thanks msg,they read and don't reply, some have winked 3 times and never replied wtf is that all about "

I am always looking at ur profile I might save them to my phone

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"It's the ones that look every hour on the hour, it's creepy as fuck. Grow some balls and say hiya cause most of the time they're absolute hotties

PMSL, never had that, I was mainly thinking of people who come back say two or three times during a whole week.

Every hour, feck that

pmsl, but then again my profile is a tad boring, lol

xx peter "

Pmsl...

I thought you meant more often than a few times a week lol.

I meant several times in an hour, same again later that day..... next day repeat cycle lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the ones that look every hour on the hour, it's creepy as fuck. Grow some balls and say hiya cause most of the time they're absolute hotties

PMSL, never had that, I was mainly thinking of people who come back say two or three times during a whole week.

Every hour, feck that

pmsl, but then again my profile is a tad boring, lol

xx peter

Pmsl...

I thought you meant more often than a few times a week lol.

I meant several times in an hour, same again later that day..... next day repeat cycle lol"

lol, now way, if they're like that and no contact then its a total block, no exception, lol

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"It's the ones that look every hour on the hour, it's creepy as fuck. Grow some balls and say hiya cause most of the time they're absolute hotties

PMSL, never had that, I was mainly thinking of people who come back say two or three times during a whole week.

Every hour, feck that

pmsl, but then again my profile is a tad boring, lol

xx peter

Pmsl...

I thought you meant more often than a few times a week lol.

I meant several times in an hour, same again later that day..... next day repeat cycle lol

lol, now way, if they're like that and no contact then its a total block, no exception, lol "

You're cold Horsey, stone cold

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