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"It's even more frustrating when the message is a response to one sent to you in the first place. Ah well - that's life. " Yeah I've had that a few times aswell lol | |||
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"Women on here get double if not triple figures in messages in a day bud. Even I'd struggle to get through them all " I'm like a dog at the letterbox as soon as my message button lights up lol..... Sad I know but don't judge me I like talking to new people lol | |||
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"It puts us guy's in a bit of a pickle, if the message was read and then deleted then I would assume that the person wasn't interested so I would know not to bother messaging them again but when it sits there unread for weeks on end do you just leave it or send another one incase it's been swamped with all the other messages lol " Can't really advise on that one. I leave messages in my inbox what i'm thinking of replying to but forget to, and also don't delete the ones i'm not interested in so they don't message me back. Women are complicated...  | |||
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"It puts us guy's in a bit of a pickle, if the message was read and then deleted then I would assume that the person wasn't interested so I would know not to bother messaging them again but when it sits there unread for weeks on end do you just leave it or send another one incase it's been swamped with all the other messages lol Can't really advise on that one. I leave messages in my inbox what i'm thinking of replying to but forget to, and also don't delete the ones i'm not interested in so they don't message me back. Women are complicated... "Lol I'll have to agree with you on that one lol | |||
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"Delete your sent messages and you won't have to worry about it" lol, Don't think he wanted to hear that. If I send message I normally delete the sent straight away or within a day | |||
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"Just looking through my sent messages folder and there's messages I sent people 3 wks ago that still haven't been read, I appreciate you must get lots of messages but I'm just curious as to what you do with them? Do you just have a quick scan before choosing to view it or do you just let them stack up and then bulk delete? " Most of them don't read the message's Lot's of them reading but they're to lazy to answer. I understand some of them received hundreds message but if they opened then in not to hard send one word " no" etc. I'm stopped sending messages, is not the point on here. Lots of woman looking for Prince but they're not princess. Lol | |||
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"I normaly have my filters on the rare occasions that I allow single males to message me what I do is look for the ones that the headline stands out. If I see a cock pic as the main pic then I skip past it. Even then with the ones I do open and read I then check the senders profile to see if there's anything that would make me want to speak to that person. I used to reply to all even if it was a no thank you but when you put your filters back on after sending a no ta then they can still message you. Xxxx" Shame...id love to message you lol xx | |||
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"I normaly have my filters on the rare occasions that I allow single males to message me what I do is look for the ones that the headline stands out. If I see a cock pic as the main pic then I skip past it. Even then with the ones I do open and read I then check the senders profile to see if there's anything that would make me want to speak to that person. I used to reply to all even if it was a no thank you but when you put your filters back on after sending a no ta then they can still message you. Xxxx Shame...id love to message you lol xx" That's why my filters are on lol  | |||
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"Ooohh burn  lmao"Don't take it to heart but I couldn't help PMSL stands against the wall and knows why I don't message people, lol | |||
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"Just looking through my sent messages folder and there's messages I sent people 3 wks ago that still haven't been read, I appreciate you must get lots of messages but I'm just curious as to what you do with them? Do you just have a quick scan before choosing to view it or do you just let them stack up and then bulk delete? Most of them don't read the message's Lot's of them reading but they're to lazy to answer. I understand some of them received hundreds message but if they opened then in not to hard send one word " no" etc. I'm stopped sending messages, is not the point on here. Lots of woman looking for Prince but they're not princess. Lol" Sorry Spartacus but I don't think that's true (though I appreciate that might be your experience of the site)... If a woman is getting upwards of 100 messages a day then even typing no thanks is difficult... people do have lives. Especially when you often get a "ping pong" mail situation developing of the person then asking you "why not" "can you give me a reason" "perhaps another time" "can we just chat" etc etc... Sometimes I think single men should experience what it's like to be here as a single man to find out exactly how exasperating it can be and before you say it, I'm sure the reverse might be true for females. I always find it interesting that males hate what they call an arrogant or arsey approach from a fem's profile (not one I ever adopt on principle) when men very much have that attitude in general ... for example the male of a couples profile will be totally "direct" with a single man especially if his approach is persistant. Yet from a female it's considered "attitude"... Overall it's an age old question on here as with many others... the solution is as always - discrimintation and manners - use one and exercise the other - no offence given or taken... move on from what you don't like. Oh and lastly OP if someone hasn't read your message and/or not answered - again the answer is right there... they probably are not interested and as the site says... take a non response as a polite no thanks. Red | |||
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"Ooohh burn lmao"I'm only having a laugh not intrested in any guy just now lol xxxx | |||
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"Ooohh burn lmao
I'm only having a laugh not intrested in any guy just now lol
xxxx"Lol laugh taken :p all in good spirit xx | |||
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"Just looking through my sent messages folder and there's messages I sent people 3 wks ago that still haven't been read, I appreciate you must get lots of messages but I'm just curious as to what you do with them? Do you just have a quick scan before choosing to view it or do you just let them stack up and then bulk delete? Most of them don't read the message's Lot's of them reading but they're to lazy to answer. I understand some of them received hundreds message but if they opened then in not to hard send one word " no" etc. I'm stopped sending messages, is not the point on here. Lots of woman looking for Prince but they're not princess. Lol Sorry Spartacus but I don't think that's true (though I appreciate that might be your experience of the site)... If a woman is getting upwards of 100 messages a day then even typing no thanks is difficult... people do have lives. Especially when you often get a "ping pong" mail situation developing of the person then asking you "why not" "can you give me a reason" "perhaps another time" "can we just chat" etc etc... Sometimes I think single men should experience what it's like to be here as a single man to find out exactly how exasperating it can be and before you say it, I'm sure the reverse might be true for females. I always find it interesting that males hate what they call an arrogant or arsey approach from a fem's profile (not one I ever adopt on principle) when men very much have that attitude in general ... for example the male of a couples profile will be totally "direct" with a single man especially if his approach is persistant. Yet from a female it's considered "attitude"... Overall it's an age old question on here as with many others... the solution is as always - discrimintation and manners - use one and exercise the other - no offence given or taken... move on from what you don't like. Oh and lastly OP if someone hasn't read your message and/or not answered - again the answer is right there... they probably are not interested and as the site says... take a non response as a polite no thanks. Red "Okkkk But how explain the situation when you start charging and the second person stop answer but still reading your message. That's stupid and I don't want waist my time with "princess" Btw from long time this site is just a joke for me. | |||
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"Just looking through my sent messages folder and there's messages I sent people 3 wks ago that still haven't been read, I appreciate you must get lots of messages but I'm just curious as to what you do with them? Do you just have a quick scan before choosing to view it or do you just let them stack up and then bulk delete? Most of them don't read the message's Lot's of them reading but they're to lazy to answer. I understand some of them received hundreds message but if they opened then in not to hard send one word " no" etc. I'm stopped sending messages, is not the point on here. Lots of woman looking for Prince but they're not princess. Lol Sorry Spartacus but I don't think that's true (though I appreciate that might be your experience of the site)... If a woman is getting upwards of 100 messages a day then even typing no thanks is difficult... people do have lives. Especially when you often get a "ping pong" mail situation developing of the person then asking you "why not" "can you give me a reason" "perhaps another time" "can we just chat" etc etc... Sometimes I think single men should experience what it's like to be here as a single man to find out exactly how exasperating it can be and before you say it, I'm sure the reverse might be true for females. I always find it interesting that males hate what they call an arrogant or arsey approach from a fem's profile (not one I ever adopt on principle) when men very much have that attitude in general ... for example the male of a couples profile will be totally "direct" with a single man especially if his approach is persistant. Yet from a female it's considered "attitude"... Overall it's an age old question on here as with many others... the solution is as always - discrimintation and manners - use one and exercise the other - no offence given or taken... move on from what you don't like. Oh and lastly OP if someone hasn't read your message and/or not answered - again the answer is right there... they probably are not interested and as the site says... take a non response as a polite no thanks. Red
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But how explain the situation when you start charging and the second person stop answer but still reading your message. That's stupid and I don't want waist my time with "princess"
Btw from long time this site is just a joke for me. "
I agree that's bad manners but again I wouldn't waste my time on worrying about it... delete and move on - sadly this is something that is never going to change for some of the reasons I cited and again if it was me, I would take it as a "not interested".
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"People seem to be getting the wrong idea about this post, I wasn't having a moan I was simply curious as to what went on in a woman's mail box, if I see my message has been read and deleted then yes I take that as a not interested and I move along but if the message I sent hasn't been read in 3 wks or more isn't there a possibility that the recipient has been bombarded by emails and mine has been swallowed up by the following tsunami and in the event of such a thing do you send another one especially if you're replying to one they sent you ? Unfortunately us guy's aren't all mind readers and a little help now and then wouldn't go amiss lol" It take the risk and send another but use a diffrent subject. If she won't message you back after the first time what's the worst that can happen. Xxxx | |||
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"People seem to be getting the wrong idea about this post, I wasn't having a moan I was simply curious as to what went on in a woman's mail box, if I see my message has been read and deleted then yes I take that as a not interested and I move along but if the message I sent hasn't been read in 3 wks or more isn't there a possibility that the recipient has been bombarded by emails and mine has been swallowed up by the following tsunami and in the event of such a thing do you send another one especially if you're replying to one they sent you ? Unfortunately us guy's aren't all mind readers and a little help now and then wouldn't go amiss lol" I appreciate what you're saying here OP... but most of what has been said still stands. Sometimes conversation dies out or the woman might decide she doesn't want to meet or perhaps she has met up with someone else... due to the reasons I stated above i.e. ping pong messages, overload of messages etc etc then she may not reply... just take it as a polite no thanks and move on. Hope that helps
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"We don't get tons of messages a day so it's pretty easy for us to keep on top of them. If a message is for him I'll leave it and let him answer, and vice versa. I usually respond to every mail, if it's someone I'm not interested in I'll reply saying they're not my type or it's a no, make a note of it in the notes section then delete the message. Unless the messages are "hi?" or of that nature. Those I look at the profile, more often than not see nothing to interest me and delete the message. Our profile does say I won't reply to one word or one line messages, so had they read it they would already know that. " You didn't reply when I messaged you a while ago  just a read and delete and it was a decent message aswell lol  | |||
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"Let's be honest women get a shitload of messages and having a partner with a single profile I've seen what it's like, but when you see statuses like "157 messages how will I get through them all" you kind of think a large amount of vanity and self importance comes into it, instead of counting your messages read the ones you want to and delete the ones you don't want, pretty simple." You don't need to count them, it shows you how many messages you have unread at the top of the page. | |||
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"Let's be honest women get a shitload of messages and having a partner with a single profile I've seen what it's like, but when you see statuses like "157 messages how will I get through them all" you kind of think a large amount of vanity and self importance comes into it, instead of counting your messages read the ones you want to and delete the ones you don't want, pretty simple. You don't need to count them, it shows you how many messages you have unread at the top of the page." PMSL, girls get hunners of messages and us guys knows that, some of us don't even bother sending a girl a message because we know their prob already pissed of at the amount of rubbish they have had. Some of us guys get a message we might not even open it so that every day we get online in fab we see a unread message, lol makes us feel better | |||
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"Let's be honest women get a shitload of messages and having a partner with a single profile I've seen what it's like, but when you see statuses like "157 messages how will I get through them all" you kind of think a large amount of vanity and self importance comes into it, instead of counting your messages read the ones you want to and delete the ones you don't want, pretty simple. You don't need to count them, it shows you how many messages you have unread at the top of the page. PMSL, girls get hunners of messages and us guys knows that, some of us don't even bother sending a girl a message because we know their prob already pissed of at the amount of rubbish they have had. Some of us guys get a message we might not even open it so that every day we get online in fab we see a unread message, lol makes us feel better "Well that is a bit poop. Yeah i'd rather have it this way than an empty inbox.  | |||
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"We don't get tons of messages a day so it's pretty easy for us to keep on top of them. If a message is for him I'll leave it and let him answer, and vice versa. I usually respond to every mail, if it's someone I'm not interested in I'll reply saying they're not my type or it's a no, make a note of it in the notes section then delete the message. Unless the messages are "hi?" or of that nature. Those I look at the profile, more often than not see nothing to interest me and delete the message. Our profile does say I won't reply to one word or one line messages, so had they read it they would already know that. You didn't reply when I messaged you a while ago just a read and delete and it was a decent message aswell lol "You haven't messaged us, you must be confusing us with someone else | |||
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"Let's be honest women get a shitload of messages and having a partner with a single profile I've seen what it's like, but when you see statuses like "157 messages how will I get through them all" you kind of think a large amount of vanity and self importance comes into it, instead of counting your messages read the ones you want to and delete the ones you don't want, pretty simple. You don't need to count them, it shows you how many messages you have unread at the top of the page. PMSL, girls get hunners of messages and us guys knows that, some of us don't even bother sending a girl a message because we know their prob already pissed of at the amount of rubbish they have had. Some of us guys get a message we might not even open it so that every day we get online in fab we see a unread message, lol makes us feel better
Well that is a bit poop.
Yeah i'd rather have it this way than an empty inbox. "lol, true I'm sure girls or couples who get tons of messages attitude would change if the messages suddenly dried up, lol I can't complain, I get tons of messages, usually telling me to fix my spelling mistakes or some messages for other reasons cough! cough! lol | |||
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"Let's be honest women get a shitload of messages and having a partner with a single profile I've seen what it's like, but when you see statuses like "157 messages how will I get through them all" you kind of think a large amount of vanity and self importance comes into it, instead of counting your messages read the ones you want to and delete the ones you don't want, pretty simple. You don't need to count them, it shows you how many messages you have unread at the top of the page. PMSL, girls get hunners of messages and us guys knows that, some of us don't even bother sending a girl a message because we know their prob already pissed of at the amount of rubbish they have had. Some of us guys get a message we might not even open it so that every day we get online in fab we see a unread message, lol makes us feel better
Well that is a bit poop.
Yeah i'd rather have it this way than an empty inbox.
lol, true
I'm sure girls or couples who get tons of messages attitude would change if the messages suddenly dried up, lol
I can't complain, I get tons of messages, usually telling me to fix my spelling mistakes or some messages for other reasons cough! cough! lol
"Lol, really? People message about spelling? I like the peace and quiet now i blocked everyone from messaging tbh. | |||
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"Let's be honest women get a shitload of messages and having a partner with a single profile I've seen what it's like, but when you see statuses like "157 messages how will I get through them all" you kind of think a large amount of vanity and self importance comes into it, instead of counting your messages read the ones you want to and delete the ones you don't want, pretty simple. You don't need to count them, it shows you how many messages you have unread at the top of the page. PMSL, girls get hunners of messages and us guys knows that, some of us don't even bother sending a girl a message because we know their prob already pissed of at the amount of rubbish they have had. Some of us guys get a message we might not even open it so that every day we get online in fab we see a unread message, lol makes us feel better
Well that is a bit poop.
Yeah i'd rather have it this way than an empty inbox.
lol, true
I'm sure girls or couples who get tons of messages attitude would change if the messages suddenly dried up, lol
I can't complain, I get tons of messages, usually telling me to fix my spelling mistakes or some messages for other reasons cough! cough! lol
Lol, really? People message about spelling?
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"We don't get tons of messages a day so it's pretty easy for us to keep on top of them. If a message is for him I'll leave it and let him answer, and vice versa. I usually respond to every mail, if it's someone I'm not interested in I'll reply saying they're not my type or it's a no, make a note of it in the notes section then delete the message. Unless the messages are "hi?" or of that nature. Those I look at the profile, more often than not see nothing to interest me and delete the message. Our profile does say I won't reply to one word or one line messages, so had they read it they would already know that. You didn't reply when I messaged you a while ago just a read and delete and it was a decent message aswell lol
You haven't messaged us, you must be confusing us with someone else"Apologies your quite right, I mistook you for someone else lol my bad xx | |||
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"We don't get tons of messages a day so it's pretty easy for us to keep on top of them. If a message is for him I'll leave it and let him answer, and vice versa. I usually respond to every mail, if it's someone I'm not interested in I'll reply saying they're not my type or it's a no, make a note of it in the notes section then delete the message. Unless the messages are "hi?" or of that nature. Those I look at the profile, more often than not see nothing to interest me and delete the message. Our profile does say I won't reply to one word or one line messages, so had they read it they would already know that. You didn't reply when I messaged you a while ago just a read and delete and it was a decent message aswell lol
You haven't messaged us, you must be confusing us with someone else
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"We don't get tons of messages a day so it's pretty easy for us to keep on top of them. If a message is for him I'll leave it and let him answer, and vice versa. I usually respond to every mail, if it's someone I'm not interested in I'll reply saying they're not my type or it's a no, make a note of it in the notes section then delete the message. Unless the messages are "hi?" or of that nature. Those I look at the profile, more often than not see nothing to interest me and delete the message. Our profile does say I won't reply to one word or one line messages, so had they read it they would already know that. You didn't reply when I messaged you a while ago just a read and delete and it was a decent message aswell lol
You haven't messaged us, you must be confusing us with someone else
Apologies your quite right, I mistook you for someone else lol my bad xx
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"We don't get tons of messages a day so it's pretty easy for us to keep on top of them. If a message is for him I'll leave it and let him answer, and vice versa. I usually respond to every mail, if it's someone I'm not interested in I'll reply saying they're not my type or it's a no, make a note of it in the notes section then delete the message. Unless the messages are "hi?" or of that nature. Those I look at the profile, more often than not see nothing to interest me and delete the message. Our profile does say I won't reply to one word or one line messages, so had they read it they would already know that. You didn't reply when I messaged you a while ago just a read and delete and it was a decent message aswell lol
You haven't messaged us, you must be confusing us with someone else
Apologies your quite right, I mistook you for someone else lol my bad xx
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"I don't always read all messages. If it's a hi or how are you (you can see that without opening) and I've not been on in days I'll just bulk delete. Any proper well thought out messages always get a reply." Like the one I've just sent you ? I know you're not looking for anything but just wanted to give you an example of the sort of message I sometimes send | |||
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"I don't always read all messages. If it's a hi or how are you (you can see that without opening) and I've not been on in days I'll just bulk delete. Any proper well thought out messages always get a reply. Like the one I've just sent you ? I know you're not looking for anything but just wanted to give you an example of the sort of message I sometimes send "All makes sense now | |||
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"I don't always read all messages. If it's a hi or how are you (you can see that without opening) and I've not been on in days I'll just bulk delete. Any proper well thought out messages always get a reply. Like the one I've just sent you ? I know you're not looking for anything but just wanted to give you an example of the sort of message I sometimes send
All makes sense now "Lol | |||
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"There's also the possibility that they have read your message but then hit the 'mark as unread' button.... I'd suggest sending multiple cock pics until they answer you,and also type 'look at my cock' in the message heading.....just to make sure they know they have to open the message,kapeesh. "Send a cocknado lol | |||
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"There's also the possibility that they have read your message but then hit the 'mark as unread' button.... I'd suggest sending multiple cock pics until they answer you,and also type 'look at my cock' in the message heading.....just to make sure they know they have to open the message,kapeesh.
Send a cocknado lol "Or a cockquake,cocknami or even a hurricock...any phallus derived natural disaster based pic will do! Best take the pic in the bathroom preferably over the bog seat.Then use a rubber duck for size comparison.....sky remotes n lynx cans are so passe! Poor ladies don't stand a chance against such a sophisticated and classy move!  | |||
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"There's also the possibility that they have read your message but then hit the 'mark as unread' button.... I'd suggest sending multiple cock pics until they answer you,and also type 'look at my cock' in the message heading.....just to make sure they know they have to open the message,kapeesh.
Send a cocknado lol
Or a cockquake,cocknami or even a hurricock...any phallus derived natural disaster based pic will do!
Best take the pic in the bathroom preferably over the bog seat.Then use a rubber duck for size comparison.....sky remotes n lynx cans are so passe!
Poor ladies don't stand a chance against such a sophisticated and classy move! "Seat up or down, I think seat up with visible floaters and skid marks is sure to tempt any woman lol | |||
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"There's also the possibility that they have read your message but then hit the 'mark as unread' button.... I'd suggest sending multiple cock pics until they answer you,and also type 'look at my cock' in the message heading.....just to make sure they know they have to open the message,kapeesh.
Send a cocknado lol
Or a cockquake,cocknami or even a hurricock...any phallus derived natural disaster based pic will do!
Best take the pic in the bathroom preferably over the bog seat.Then use a rubber duck for size comparison.....sky remotes n lynx cans are so passe!
Poor ladies don't stand a chance against such a sophisticated and classy move!
Seat up or down, I think seat up with visible floaters and skid marks is sure to tempt any woman lol "Eeeewww!! Boaking at that!!  xx | |||
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