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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have spent a bit of time on here now, spoken to a few people, been on the chat, and read the forums and I start to realise that the same problems seem to crop up a lot.

Women get lots of creeps and complain they can't find decent men, and the decent men struggle to get to those women who want to find the decent men. Obviously we all suffer from the time wasters and pic collectors lol.

What I find confusing though is that there doesn't seem to be a solution to these problems. People complain about the same things and no solution?

I mean we all want to find something specific yet a lot of people struggle, so what's the answer?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

about 1% use the forums, so your sample size of discontent may be flawed. The many, many people who have a blast are busy having a blast.

the minority who have bad experiences share it in the hope that behaviour may change, they don't as the people they are swiping at, probably never read it

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Plus, as has been said 100s of times before.....the good ones shine through.

Just be patient, carry on being yourself and you shall be rewarded I'm sure

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah my sample size is limited but it does always seem to be the same lol.

I have been very patient on here because it's the only way you can be when you understand what other people are dealing with lol. And it has paid off, met some amazing people.

I guess I just wondered why there hasn't been a solution to these problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course decent men can't get a shag, what guy is gonna call themselves a knob if they are one? half kidding, as a female knob i have no problems finding anyone (and if anyone tells you i'm nice they're lying).

The problem is that people only wanna fuck those they find attractive, so they're looking for a whole package and that can be hard, especially when other people have expectations themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course decent men can't get a shag, what guy is gonna call themselves a knob if they are one? half kidding, as a female knob i have no problems finding anyone (and if anyone tells you i'm nice they're lying).

The problem is that people only wanna fuck those they find attractive, so they're looking for a whole package and that can be hard, especially when other people have expectations themselves."
women don't have a problem though lol wouldn't matter what a woman looks like on here she'll always get a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I'm always honest, I'm nice but a proper cunt lol.

Yeah that seems like the most reasonable explanation though. Just keep going till you find what ya want lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course decent men can't get a shag, what guy is gonna call themselves a knob if they are one? half kidding, as a female knob i have no problems finding anyone (and if anyone tells you i'm nice they're lying).

The problem is that people only wanna fuck those they find attractive, so they're looking for a whole package and that can be hard, especially when other people have expectations themselves.

women don't have a problem though lol wouldn't matter what a woman looks like on here she'll always get a meet "

Dunno, i've seen some women complaining about time wasters, not getting messages, fakes etc. And these women aren't short of admirers on the forums.

Yeah i could get a fuck with anyone on here, most of them i don't fancy though so can still have problems finding what i want, it's the same for almost everyone...and i don't believe all guys are desperate enough to fuck anything, although i think some will i definitely don't they're in the majority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before and I'll say it again....

If you are a single man don't have two heads and don't stink or have a face like a welders bench then this is the last place to come looking for your end away with a single women. It's waaaaaaay easier on the conventional date sites.

I've been on here as a couple also and despite what many couples say they definitely get meets if they really want them.

However if you plug away and put in the effort the " alternative lifestyle" will happen. Just don't forget to let the frustrations go.

It's the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a lot of guys will join what they think is a swingers site, their idea of a swingers site being full of women who will let anyone fuck them whenever they can. It just isn't like that, goodness if it was that easy people would be at it in the streets with David Attenburgh commenting people through the primitive desires.

The fact is a single guy will always struggle to have a number of sexual meets. That's a fact but he will not struggle to make friends if he is well mannered, mature and basically just chilled out. There's so much more than just sex here, like minded people with really good banter, with that can then come the naughty sides. Small steps and all that....but the majority don't want small steps, they want giant leaps with jazz hands and diddy rides (I wanted to slot that in somehow to try and be funny)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me a lot of guys will join what they think is a swingers site, their idea of a swingers site being full of women who will let anyone fuck them whenever they can. It just isn't like that, goodness if it was that easy people would be at it in the streets with David Attenburgh commenting people through the primitive desires.

The fact is a single guy will always struggle to have a number of sexual meets. That's a fact but he will not struggle to make friends if he is well mannered, mature and basically just chilled out. There's so much more than just sex here, like minded people with really good banter, with that can then come the naughty sides. Small steps and all that....but the majority don't want small steps, they want giant leaps with jazz hands and diddy rides (I wanted to slot that in somehow to try and be funny)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me a lot of guys will join what they think is a swingers site, their idea of a swingers site being full of women who will let anyone fuck them whenever they can. It just isn't like that, goodness if it was that easy people would be at it in the streets with David Attenburgh commenting people through the primitive desires.

The fact is a single guy will always struggle to have a number of sexual meets. That's a fact but he will not struggle to make friends if he is well mannered, mature and basically just chilled out. There's so much more than just sex here, like minded people with really good banter, with that can then come the naughty sides. Small steps and all that....but the majority don't want small steps, they want giant leaps with jazz hands and diddy rides (I wanted to slot that in somehow to try and be funny) "

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