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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's a few looking for the same thing.

Someone they can meet up with for socials cjs etc a fun buddy.

Surely it can't be that hard.

Add your name here if that is what your looking for.

Going to the same socials , nights out.

Fun buddy fix up mabe ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club buddy for Aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's impossible

I'll second that!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Its really not that difficult...

The 2 guys I meet most regularly are after this..

Unfortunately for them I often like to just do my own thing for clubs / parties... so I'll only ever take either of them along occasionally..

But there are loads of guys out there looking for this.... if my inbox is anything to go by

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know just seen so many status saying the same thing. I know there is people who bottle it. But if that's what your looking for bit if hard work and might just work ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy will tell you anything you wanna hear to get what he wants its finding the genuine ones that's the hard part

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh well.... if said guys think it's what I want to hear theyre barking up the wrong tree...

I've no interest in them if they can't just man up and go to a club / party etc on their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to put it out there but I think a lot of folk on here will say they want a fem to play with regularly and to go along to social events & clubs but actually lack the bottle to go. Is it just words to try and get meets or a possible confidence thing..

Been to a few socials and such in the past and they aren't scary chaps, just grow a pair and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to put it out there but I think a lot of folk on here will say they want a fem to play with regularly and to go along to social events & clubs but actually lack the bottle to go. Is it just words to try and get meets or a possible confidence thing..

Been to a few socials and such in the past and they aren't scary chaps, just grow a pair and go

Guys are good at talking the talk but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh well.... if said guys think it's what I want to hear theyre barking up the wrong tree...

I've no interest in them if they can't just man up and go to a club / party etc on their own

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By *horstrollMan
over a year ago

Caprona

"It's impossible

Nothing is impossible, it all depends how you give up.

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

"A guy will tell you anything you wanna hear to get what he wants its finding the genuine ones that's the hard part

Starting to notice this alot

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm happy to go alone or with someone. It really doesn't bother me either way. I usually go with someone as I drive so they can drink. But Ive been known to leave them there and head home on my own as they want to head off with someone else and do their own thing. It's no major problem.

Problem is lack of self confidence.

So any extra help guys and girls can get from teaming up as friends can only be a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree,been in this a while with little to no luck.always read that ladies are going mad about cancellations.am finding it pretty hard to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the idea of having to go with someone, its nice..but I feel I can at least have a great time..and essentially only embarrass myself lol

I'd love a proper swing partner(classic boyfriend/girlfriend scenario),not just fuckbuds.

I just find it weird some guys would rather go down the pub n watch footie with a squad of other men..yet might wince at the thought of going to a club/party on their own..

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

"I'm happy to go alone or with someone. It really doesn't bother me either way. I usually go with someone as I drive so they can drink. But Ive been known to leave them there and head home on my own as they want to head off with someone else and do their own thing. It's no major problem.

Problem is lack of self confidence.

So any extra help guys and girls can get from teaming up as friends can only be a good thing

I find this. Im a tad shy at times and still not 100% comfortable so like to go with a friend.

Tend to go off do own thing but means if i start to feel uncomfortable i have a reassuring face about.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Problem is lack of self confidence.

So any extra help guys and girls can get from teaming up as friends can only be a good thing

I find this. Im a tad shy at times and still not 100% comfortable so like to go with a friend.

Tend to go off do own thing but means if i start to feel uncomfortable i have a reassuring face about."

As long as you pick someone who doesn't mind if you don't leave with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is lack of self confidence.

So any extra help guys and girls can get from teaming up as friends can only be a good thing

I find this. Im a tad shy at times and still not 100% comfortable so like to go with a friend.

Tend to go off do own thing but means if i start to feel uncomfortable i have a reassuring face about."

I like that idea a safety blanket sort of thing if it gets to much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Eh love football. Like pubs. Can play pool and beat men at it. Can hold my drink. Dont do the oh I love you Pish when I'm d*unk either . So men what more do you need eh. Actually I don't mind hooking up with a female either. Curiousgirl is usually my fun buddy to be fair. But I talk for Scotland n wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for parties and meet ups. The only issue I have when i've been invited to parties before is they tend to try and turn me into the main dish, and that pisses me off. as I would much prefer to participate rather than be the subject.

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Problem is lack of self confidence.

So any extra help guys and girls can get from teaming up as friends can only be a good thing

I find this. Im a tad shy at times and still not 100% comfortable so like to go with a friend.

Tend to go off do own thing but means if i start to feel uncomfortable i have a reassuring face about.

As long as you pick someone who doesn't mind if you don't leave with them

Well i have a agreement with someone to play with whoever we like but go home together.

But i tend to attend with friends mostly

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Problem is lack of self confidence.

So any extra help guys and girls can get from teaming up as friends can only be a good thing

I find this. Im a tad shy at times and still not 100% comfortable so like to go with a friend.

Tend to go off do own thing but means if i start to feel uncomfortable i have a reassuring face about.

I like that idea a safety blanket sort of thing if it gets to much "

Its a big thing for me. Luckily i have meet a few people i have this with now.

Some people might find it weird. I randomly appear and disappear just makes me relax and more comfortable to play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its really not that difficult...

The 2 guys I meet most regularly are after this..

Unfortunately for them I often like to just do my own thing for clubs / parties... so I'll only ever take either of them along occasionally..

But there are loads of guys out there looking for this.... if my inbox is anything to go by

I'd say this is spot on, if you want it get it, plenty of decent guys and gals looking for just this, maybe we are a little too picky in what we want in terms of the people we chat to and meet.

Miss B has obviously got the balance right and that's how it should be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys are good at talking the talk but...."

As are fems and couples though. Only way to fight through the ones that don't meet their word is to maybe not pre-decide on people because of previous let downs. Just my 2p really

Btw, take it as a compliment if youv been accused of having fake boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys are good at talking the talk but....

As are fems and couples though. Only way to fight through the ones that don't meet their word is to maybe not pre-decide on people because of previous let downs. Just my 2p really

Btw, take it as a compliment if youv been accused of having fake boobs

Thanks

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By *toddieMan
over a year ago

Loch lomond

I would live to find the time to go to a social and I will wen I can , never had a meet from here so I'd have to man up n go alone anyway , I'm sure no 1 bites. Well no unless I ask first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's impossible

Never give up hope! Xxx

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

"A guy will tell you anything you wanna hear to get what he wants its finding the genuine ones that's the hard part

Is there such a thing as genuine?......I tend to agree very much with your quote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys think this site is as simple as wam bam thank you mam, they give women no respect at all and expect everything in return. Thing is women on this are very clever and can spot a dick a mile off. It's not hard to be honest on here I mean what do you have to hide lol.

Honestly I wouldn't mind trying a club one day, but I'll be honest I'd be cacking myself alone, and I wouldn't just want to go with anyone.

This site for me has been as much about the social side as it has been about the experimenting, you just have to be patient and take your time finding someone with similar interests that you can get along with.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you are best to make your own fortune on here, that way no payback expected.

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Id like a girl to visit cjs with

So feel free to offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm about to start a new kik group for this very reason.

Funbuddiesrus

PM me if interested

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Everyone single took the big jump into fab on their own so why so many will meet and shag complete strangers on their own yet find attending clubs and socials so difficult.

Ive always attended socials on my own and also paired up for company but I dont need anyone holding my hand to do that .

Also I find that if you do have a companion it can also stop people approaching you at socials because they dont know what the situation is and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy will tell you anything you wanna hear to get what he wants its finding the genuine ones that's the hard part

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not true, most guys will tell women what they want to hear.

Where as I don't care what they want to hear, I'll tell people what I want and why I'm on this site and if they don't like it then tough titties, there's nothing wrong with only being on fab for sex & no socials.

Let's be honest is there even one person who joined fab with the idea of only doing social meets? No! Why? Becuase before joining here you wouldn't even know it was a thing like going to cj's or whatever. We all joined here for the same reasons & I have no idea why so many people are ashamed of it.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"A guy will tell you anything you wanna hear to get what he wants its finding the genuine ones that's the hard part

not true, most guys will tell women what they want to hear.

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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I'm fairly happy to attend socials, CJs, events etc on my own as long as there's at least one familiar face I know who'll be there... But I'm happy to go along with someone from here too, and we can do our own thing/catch up once there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i find it hard to get replies etc to get that kind of matching organised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what I'm looking for too. No luck yet

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I've been looking for someone to accompany to me CJs and the like for ages. Have had a couple of lady friend who thoroughly enjoyed it but their interest wains, like the novelty of the adult party wearing off.

7 years on and it's still not worn off me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#believe

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd love to find a regular companion for CJ's, not least because it's always nice to walk in the door already mid-conversation. It can help put others at ease too, I reckon- single males are always gonna have to overcome the stigma of being hormone-addled and desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for social ,meet and partys and mabe a fb if it goes that way! And in true top gear fashion "how hard can it be? "

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