FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi folks,

I'm just wondering if anyone can give me advice on my profile and whether I should change it.

And also how to message people in the initial message to make contact.

I know that's maybe a strange question to ask but I've tried being myself, a genuinely nice guy that just wants to chat (and no one wants to talk), I've tried being dirty, and I've tried telling people what I think they want to hear. None seem to work.

I know I'm not Brad Pitt or anything like that but I wouldn't say I was horrible looking and I know I'm a nice guy who could get on with anyone if given the chance.

So how do I manage to get talking to people? Any advice you could give would be much appreciated

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you have written more on this thread than your profile.

it's worth the effort

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you have written more on this thread than your profile.

it's worth the effort"

Thanks. I'll put a lot more on. It's just hard to write things about yourself sometimes

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"you have written more on this thread than your profile.

it's worth the effort

Thanks. I'll put a lot more on. It's just hard to write things about yourself sometimes"

there are loads of guys, it's worth crafting something that makes you stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More pics!"
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Ok I'll get more up! Any particular pics you'd suggest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More pics!a

Ok I'll get more up! Any particular pics you'd suggest? "

Chest and bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More pics!a

Ok I'll get more up! Any particular pics you'd suggest? "

Look at other profiles for suggestions, just don't fill it with cock pics!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not easy on the site regardless of what you have.

don't write what you think people want to hear, just be you and go with the flow.

try getting to know people at a club or a social, doesn't matter how great a guy you are, on here you're a black and white txt and a pic or two

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More pics!a

Ok I'll get more up! Any particular pics you'd suggest?

Chest and bum

I'll get them up soon :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More pics!a

Ok I'll get more up! Any particular pics you'd suggest?

Look at other profiles for suggestions, just don't fill it with cock pics!!!"

I know. I've only got one up. I'll make sure other pics go up and update my profile text. Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not easy on the site regardless of what you have.

don't write what you think people want to hear, just be you and go with the flow.

try getting to know people at a club or a social, doesn't matter how great a guy you are, on here you're a black and white txt and a pic or two"

Thanks. That's a very good point. I never really thought about it like that. I'll try get along to a club. Would just have preferred to go with someone that has been before first. I'll man up haha

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