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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If the guys on here made profiles like the women who make demands of specific physical traits...

Would they get anywhere? I think not! Wonder why woman get away with it.

Just throwing it out there for 'discussion'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly there's being pick and then just stuck up

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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Wonder why woman get away with it.

p"

Men still pander to them

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Supply and demand maybe .

Also alot of guys(not all!) would even mail a profile with zero on it aslong as it states female . Some don't even read profiles to even know if there's and stipulations on it lol!

End of the day I could demand Hugh Jackman on my profile . My choice to put what ever I feel filters the ppl I would be interested . Don't mean it's going to actually get me anywhere lol.

But Hugh if your on here ..message anytime!! Lol

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Basically it's their profile to do as they please... If you don't like it move along to the next one

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically it's their profile to do as they please... If you don't like it move along to the next one

K "

This I agree with fully, a profile in my eyes reflects a personality. If I don't like a profile I don't email and if they email me....haha who am I kidding....as if single fems need to look for and email single guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. Loads of sleazy men on here spoil it for the rest of us at times. Can't blame women for being more selective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the guys on here made profiles like the women who make demands of specific physical traits...

Would they get anywhere? I think not! Wonder why woman get away with it.

Just throwing it out there for 'discussion'! "

Ha ha I like...

Imagine the demands we may get...could you wear heels, could wear pull ups, could you wear... Oi yoy yoy

I'm just playing X

And it's probably because they can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol indeed!

I just find it humorous to look at the flip side at all the physical demands.

Imagine a guy stating on his profile or status only double d's or bigger should message or only those size 10 etc etc

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Lol indeed!

I just find it humorous to look at the flip side at all the physical demands.

Imagine a guy stating on his profile or status only double d's or bigger should message or only those size 10 etc etc"

I myself wouldn't take offence at this... We all have our own preferences and at least this way it s out what your not interested in. Although I do agree on some profiles it may come accross as demanding, downside of text chat is it mostly comes accross as harsh and straight to the point. K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What demands do you mean ??

What's wrong with clearly stateing what your looking for. ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol indeed!

I just find it humorous to look at the flip side at all the physical demands.

Imagine a guy stating on his profile or status only double d's or bigger should message or only those size 10 etc etc

I myself wouldn't take offence at this... We all have our own preferences and at least this way it s out what your not interested in. Although I do agree on some profiles it may come accross as demanding, downside of text chat is it mostly comes accross as harsh and straight to the point. K "

I haven't took any offence. I just put it out there to be discussed and see ppls opinions

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Lol indeed!

I just find it humorous to look at the flip side at all the physical demands.

Imagine a guy stating on his profile or status only double d's or bigger should message or only those size 10 etc etc

I myself wouldn't take offence at this... We all have our own preferences and at least this way it s out what your not interested in. Although I do agree on some profiles it may come accross as demanding, downside of text chat is it mostly comes accross as harsh and straight to the point. K

I haven't took any offence. I just put it out there to be discussed and see ppls opinions "

I didn't say you had taken offence I was merely giving my opinion. K

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"What demands do you mean ??

What's wrong with clearly stateing what your looking for. ??"

I agree, it's just stating a preference. They are hardly demands lol.

Wouldn't you rather know what someone was looking for so you don't waste time messaging them if you're not their type?

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire

Could u imagine if woman bitched and moaned as much as the guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it matter anyway, most guys don't read profiles and mass message with cut and pastes

oh and I agree that theres nothing wrong in stating preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could u imagine if woman bitched and moaned as much as the guys on here "

I'm trying my best to change that in 2016.

Bottom line . Patience, effort, keep trying pays off. Had loads of knockbacks on here .

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire


"Could u imagine if woman bitched and moaned as much as the guys on here

I'm trying my best to change that in 2016.

Bottom line . Patience, effort, keep trying pays off. Had loads of knockbacks on here ."

I had quite a good 2015 on here. 2016 will be alot quieter x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could u imagine if woman bitched and moaned as much as the guys on here "

This isnt a bitch or moan...

Its been put out for debate, whats wrong with that? Like another thread stated, debates are good.

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire


"Could u imagine if woman bitched and moaned as much as the guys on here

This isnt a bitch or moan...

Its been put out for debate, whats wrong with that? Like another thread stated, debates are good."

If u read my post u will clearly see i didnt reply to his _iew. i wasnt stating his post was bitching or moaning. I was sharing my opinion on what i imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could u imagine if woman bitched and moaned as much as the guys on here

This isnt a bitch or moan...

Its been put out for debate, whats wrong with that? Like another thread stated, debates are good."

You're a card young man...lol

A) no one accused YOU personally of moaning or bitching

B) your middle paragraph would dispute your last claim

Apart from that, yes, debates are good.

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Guys never moan we just voice our opinions in a very annoying way at times lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys never moan we just voice our opinions in a very annoying way at times lol"

Ha!

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire


"Guys never moan we just voice our opinions in a very annoying way at times lol"

U moan all the time

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire


"Guys never moan we just voice our opinions in a very annoying way at times lol

U moan all the time "

Nah that is more of a groan than a moan

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By *oody2shoesWoman
over a year ago

dunbartonshire


"Guys never moan we just voice our opinions in a very annoying way at times lol

U moan all the time

Nah that is more of a groan than a moan"

Haha obv dont pay much attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own. Loads of sleazy men on here spoil it for the rest of us at times. Can't blame women for being more selective. "

Amen

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Each to their own. Loads of sleazy men on here spoil it for the rest of us at times. Can't blame women for being more selective.

Amen"

Utter rubbish in my opinion . They only spoil their own chances here ! The decent eloquent guys then shine like a beacon through the dross . You should actually be thankful as they make you look good if you are a normal ! Also they get deleted/blocked so in fact means less competition to you !!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I kind of know the profiles your referring to and yes some women do make unreasonable demands which are a whole lot different to preferences.

But then again so do some guys .

As some have said if a profile isn't to your liking then move along to the next one as I'm sure there is someone for everyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might have to revisit mine, but fairly sure I don't make demands.

Maybe this is why all my meets have been genuinely lovely guys.

Just a thought.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

like attracts like......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually tried it a few months back just for a joke, made All the demands of things i actually like & things I'd want from a woman, just took a few examples from women's profiles on here, I got some major abuse for it.

Thinks there was 4 women mailing me asking who do I think I am? And how dare I objectify women like that? The one that always stuck with me was.... This site is for everyone not just your sexist idea of what a woman should be or look like!

Then I put my profile back to reality and moved on lol

I don't really care about all the demands of women on here but the one that does bother me is... Must be professional! Wtf does this mean??

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I would be quite happy if men put what they wanted on their profile, I personally don't think I have any demands on mine but at least I would be able to tell if I was what they were looking for or just another hole

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Each to their own. Loads of sleazy men on here spoil it for the rest of us at times. Can't blame women for being more selective.

Amen

Utter rubbish in my opinion . They only spoil their own chances here ! The decent eloquent guys then shine like a beacon through the dross . You should actually be thankful as they make you look good if you are a normal ! Also they get deleted/blocked so in fact means less competition to you !! "

This

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I don't really care about all the demands of women on here but the one that does bother me is... Must be professional! Wtf does this mean??"

That they have to have city and guilds in shaggin ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of know the profiles your referring to and yes some women do make unreasonable demands which are a whole lot different to preferences.

But then again so do some guys .

As some have said if a profile isn't to your liking then move along to the next one as I'm sure there is someone for everyone on here "

Also patience is a virtue.my profile is specific and been waiting 2years so far.in the meantime i will continue my fight against the ducks

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By *ockyjockyMan
over a year ago

G63 countryside

Because they can and female v. male ratio allows it to continue. Not right nor fair, but neither is life.

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Simply because they can !!!

Yes i know lifes a bitch eh ...why cant i find a sexy big titted nawty blonde ???

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


" "I don't really care about all the demands of women on here but the one that does bother me is... Must be professional! Wtf does this mean??"

That they have to have city and guilds in shaggin ?? "

Where do I sign up for that course??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the guys on here made profiles like the women who make demands of specific physical traits...

Would they get anywhere? I think not! Wonder why woman get away with it.

Just throwing it out there for 'discussion'! "

It's because we are the weaker sex

The sooner we realise this, the world will become a better place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys never moan we just voice our opinions in a very annoying way at times lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own. Loads of sleazy men on here spoil it for the rest of us at times. Can't blame women for being more selective.

Amen

Utter rubbish in my opinion . They only spoil their own chances here ! The decent eloquent guys then shine like a beacon through the dross . You should actually be thankful as they make you look good if you are a normal ! Also they get deleted/blocked so in fact means less competition to you !! "
that's also bull, how can you tell if a guy is decent through !!!TEXT!!! The way it is, is that some guys know how to say the right thing to get they're hole and others dont, I'm not saying all guys do this but all I'm saying is its impossible to tell the difference between decent guys & weirdos & guys who dont have a clue how to talk & others who know how to talk or manipulate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they have the pussy they make the rules.... Simples lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Each to their own. Loads of sleazy men on here spoil it for the rest of us at times. Can't blame women for being more selective.

Amen

Utter rubbish in my opinion . They only spoil their own chances here ! The decent eloquent guys then shine like a beacon through the dross . You should actually be thankful as they make you look good if you are a normal ! Also they get deleted/blocked so in fact means less competition to you !! that's also bull, how can you tell if a guy is decent through !!!TEXT!!! The way it is, is that some guys know how to say the right thing to get they're hole and others dont, I'm not saying all guys do this but all I'm saying is its impossible to tell the difference between decent guys & weirdos & guys who dont have a clue how to talk & others who know how to talk or manipulate."

I'll bow to your vast experience of getting mails from guys lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm crap at trying to sell myself in a message

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