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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What turns you off on a meet? Or what don't you like?

For me I hate getting wanked, I've realised my past few meets as soon as someone starts wanking my cock I go as soft as boiled spaghetti.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

There's too many to mention and that's only on coffee meets. I'm far too fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys that try to make me squirt, or squeeze my nipples too hard.

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By *ackInDundeeMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Unnecessary apostrophes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having to hide under the bed or leave via a window when the husband comes home without warning. That's a pain in the cheeks...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unnecessary apostrophes."
lol yes I know by the time I realised it was too late, it was one of those moments where I knew I didn't need to use one but it didn't look right without it so I used a judgement call that was wrong

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

People who feel the need to publicly pull others up on spelling or grammatical mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a lady tries to impress me asking for things that she hates, like put it in her arse when she doesn't like anal, I like a lady to be herself, see is about both's pleasure, not just mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See was meant to be sex, corrector betrayed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene is the biggest turn off for me and lack of confidence. So I like clean and confident women ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to hide under the bed or leave via a window when the husband comes home without warning. That's a pain in the cheeks... "

I would be telling husband to jump ou window if I had u lying beside me, although I don't have one!

Turn off has to be when asked 'do you swallow really... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that don't trim their nails people that have no clue how to rub a clit most do it too hard that shit hurts! smelly people bad breath also bragging about stamina and lasting 5 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can think of a few thing's but a clock watcher gets right on my tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that don't trim their nails people that have no clue how to rub a clit most do it too hard that shit hurts! smelly people bad breath also bragging about stamina and lasting 5 minutes"

With the stamina thing it can go the other way sometimes. I practiced lasting longer on my own and when it came to sex, I was lasting too long : (

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications! "

This happens to me all the time looks hopefully then boom ruined!!!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

This happens to me all the time looks hopefully then boom ruined!!! "
careful remember on fab no one judges lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications! "

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications! "

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

This happens to me all the time looks hopefully then boom ruined!!! careful remember on fab no one judges lol"

Yeah and pigs might fly

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

This happens to me all the time looks hopefully then boom ruined!!! careful remember on fab no one judges lol

Yeah and pigs might fly "

I saw one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town"

It's a funny old world, we have a similar list (although its it just a couple of fems, there a single blokes and a couple on it too).

It's judgemental I know but I just don't think we will share the same outlook

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town

It's a funny old world, we have a similar list (although its it just a couple of fems, there a single blokes and a couple on it too).

It's judgemental I know but I just don't think we will share the same outlook "

Exactly, and there's health implications too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town

It's a funny old world, we have a similar list (although its it just a couple of fems, there a single blokes and a couple on it too).

It's judgemental I know but I just don't think we will share the same outlook

Exactly, and there's health implications too "

There's no need to ask who they are We've got about the same idea about who meets who and what not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town

It's a funny old world, we have a similar list (although its it just a couple of fems, there a single blokes and a couple on it too).

It's judgemental I know but I just don't think we will share the same outlook

Exactly, and there's health implications too "

It's less numbers and more what I (personally) consider a total lack of standards.

If anyone will do then it's not for us #yesIamjudging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Exactly, and there's health implications too "

Scary! I know what you mean though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Untidy rooms and negative people

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town

It's a funny old world, we have a similar list (although its it just a couple of fems, there a single blokes and a couple on it too).

It's judgemental I know but I just don't think we will share the same outlook

Exactly, and there's health implications too

It's less numbers and more what I (personally) consider a total lack of standards.

If anyone will do then it's not for us #yesIamjudging"

Completely agree, some people must have a revolving door!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Untidy rooms and negative people "

See untidy doesn't bother me, unclean bothers me...

Ok my turn offs, nasty home bathrooms, house that smells of dogs, whining, no personal hygiene, bi-polar, women that make you guess and women that can't say harder/softer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People turning up cocky!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who seem determined to make me squirt

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Most of my swinging has been with people offsite so far, but if someone says on their profile that they wouldn't meet non-whites, transgender people, bi men or women of a certain size then it's a no. I'm not into hatefucking

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Most of my swinging has been with people offsite so far, but if someone says on their profile that they wouldn't meet non-whites, transgender people, bi men or women of a certain size then it's a no. I'm not into hatefucking "

*seeking men or couples but rejecting any bi males, that is. I'm not bi myself, but it's just insecure bigotry imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my swinging has been with people offsite so far, but if someone says on their profile that they wouldn't meet non-whites, transgender people, bi men or women of a certain size then it's a no. I'm not into hatefucking

*seeking men or couples but rejecting any bi males, that is. I'm not bi myself, but it's just insecure bigotry imo."

Agreed

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications! "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my swinging has been with people offsite so far, but if someone says on their profile that they wouldn't meet non-whites, transgender people, bi men or women of a certain size then it's a no. I'm not into hatefucking

*seeking men or couples but rejecting any bi males, that is. I'm not bi myself, but it's just insecure bigotry imo."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene, especially oral. Cant stand bad breath.

And even though I'm ex forces and work in ruftie ruftie environments excess swearing isn't endearing to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fishy/pishy smelling bush...dont want to wash my hands 50x in bleach to kill the smell. And aint no way id be giving oral there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drama, like everything is the equivalent to the world ending.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Waaay to many to list but whinging comes close to the top

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By *illi37Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes, people with an inflated sense of there own attractiveness...i have met a few Brad and Angelina couples....well so they claimed...

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Yes, people with an inflated sense of there own attractiveness...i have met a few Brad and Angelina couples....well so they claimed..."

I'm an ugly, short, grey haired hairy ewok so we should get on well

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

poor hygiene..

arrogance..

bad manners..

gender bigots..

one line messages..

ignoring profiles..

thats just for starters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that ask to be sub and don't have a fecking clue

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

People who say they are Dom & take lessons from 50 Shades of Grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigots and lack of personal hygiene are deal breakers for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who say they are Dom & take lessons from 50 Shades of Grey "

At some point I need to read this human garbage of a book, see what the fuss is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance, ignorance and stupid people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Arrogance, ignorance and stupid people "
Scotland really isn't the best country to live in if you want to avoid these things lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth really, really piss me off. And I'm not talking about teeth that are misshapen/not straight - on some people its cute. I'm talking about yellow teeth, plac, blackness (gross) and overall bad breath.

I have gone on a few dates with guys who i got on well with and when they spoke I would notice their teeth and I would be instantly off them.

I know thats quite shallow - but I'm not going to apologise about it.

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Bad teeth really, really piss me off. And I'm not talking about teeth that are misshapen/not straight - on some people its cute. I'm talking about yellow teeth, plac, blackness (gross) and overall bad breath.

I have gone on a few dates with guys who i got on well with and when they spoke I would notice their teeth and I would be instantly off them.

I know thats quite shallow - but I'm not going to apologise about it. "

I don't think that's shallow so much as hygiene and a mark of respect for the person you're meeting. Same here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bad teeth really, really piss me off. And I'm not talking about teeth that are misshapen/not straight - on some people its cute. I'm talking about yellow teeth, plac, blackness (gross) and overall bad breath.

I have gone on a few dates with guys who i got on well with and when they spoke I would notice their teeth and I would be instantly off them.

I know thats quite shallow - but I'm not going to apologise about it.

I don't think that's shallow so much as hygiene and a mark of respect for the person you're meeting. Same here."
not everyone can afford to go to the dentist, and not everyone can afford to get they're teeth cleaned by them all the time. My mate has had toothache for 4months now but he can't go coz he can't afford it not becuase he's unhygienic. It should be a matter of self respect BTW not respect for someone you don't even know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad teeth really, really piss me off. And I'm not talking about teeth that are misshapen/not straight - on some people its cute. I'm talking about yellow teeth, plac, blackness (gross) and overall bad breath.

I have gone on a few dates with guys who i got on well with and when they spoke I would notice their teeth and I would be instantly off them.

I know thats quite shallow - but I'm not going to apologise about it.

I don't think that's shallow so much as hygiene and a mark of respect for the person you're meeting. Same here.not everyone can afford to go to the dentist, and not everyone can afford to get they're teeth cleaned by them all the time. My mate has had toothache for 4months now but he can't go coz he can't afford it not becuase he's unhygienic. It should be a matter of self respect BTW not respect for someone you don't even know "

Glasgow has a dentist hospital for those unregistered with a dentist, no one in scotland needs to go without dental treatment on a cavity. As well as a dentist school where students are always looking for clients to practice on.

Plus, my remark was not on professional dentistry, I was talking about hygiene - which could be sorted with toothpaste and a toothbrush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrogance, ignorance and stupid people Scotland really isn't the best country to live in if you want to avoid these things lol "

Tell me about it, should never have moved here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that don't trim their nails people that have no clue how to rub a clit most do it too hard that shit hurts! smelly people bad breath also bragging about stamina and lasting 5 minutes"

Agree with all of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town"

Me too probably same two ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that don't trim their nails people that have no clue how to rub a clit most do it too hard that shit hurts! smelly people bad breath also bragging about stamina and lasting 5 minutes

Agree with all of this "

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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All of the above, mainly hygiene though, and cretain phrases used during sex turn me right off as well for some reason!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bad teeth really, really piss me off. And I'm not talking about teeth that are misshapen/not straight - on some people its cute. I'm talking about yellow teeth, plac, blackness (gross) and overall bad breath.

I have gone on a few dates with guys who i got on well with and when they spoke I would notice their teeth and I would be instantly off them.

I know thats quite shallow - but I'm not going to apologise about it.

I don't think that's shallow so much as hygiene and a mark of respect for the person you're meeting. Same here.not everyone can afford to go to the dentist, and not everyone can afford to get they're teeth cleaned by them all the time. My mate has had toothache for 4months now but he can't go coz he can't afford it not becuase he's unhygienic. It should be a matter of self respect BTW not respect for someone you don't even know

Glasgow has a dentist hospital for those unregistered with a dentist, no one in scotland needs to go without dental treatment on a cavity. As well as a dentist school where students are always looking for clients to practice on.

Plus, my remark was not on professional dentistry, I was talking about hygiene - which could be sorted with toothpaste and a toothbrush. "
I'll let him know about that I didn't know about them, I wasn't aiming my answer toward you sorry if it seemed like I was,

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town

Me too probably same two ladies lol"

Most likely lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

people who name and discuss previous meets during a meet put me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you ask a woman what she would like and the reply is 'anything' time to put the clothes back on and leave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top turn offs to date:

Don't make a noise as the children are sleeping!, PRIORITIES MUST GO

Go easy as I could be pregnant as I missed my periods, GET TO DOCTOR

Do you mind if my gay pal comes in and just wanks in corner, YES

You can rim me if you want but I pass wind a lot, FEBCK OFF

Would you go shopping with me as I like your style and taste, GO TO PRIMARK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

Yep, I won't meet anyone who's met either of two particular ladies in my town

It's a funny old world, we have a similar list (although its it just a couple of fems, there a single blokes and a couple on it too).

It's judgemental I know but I just don't think we will share the same outlook

Exactly, and there's health implications too

It's less numbers and more what I (personally) consider a total lack of standards.

If anyone will do then it's not for us #yesIamjudging

Completely agree, some people must have a revolving door! "

Same this and bad hygiene.

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By *ard to beatMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"People who feel the need to publicly pull others up on spelling or grammatical mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath !! Smell in general not really taking any pride in themselves, and that's just the social meet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once had a woman fart right into my mouth as I was licking her anus... Bad day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spotting someone you really wish wasnt there in their verifications!

This happens to me all the time looks hopefully then boom ruined!!! "

I won't meet certain guys if they have met a certain girl on here as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Top turn offs to date:

Don't make a noise as the children are sleeping!, PRIORITIES MUST GO

Go easy as I could be pregnant as I missed my periods, GET TO DOCTOR

Do you mind if my gay pal comes in and just wanks in corner, YES

You can rim me if you want but I pass wind a lot, FEBCK OFF

Would you go shopping with me as I like your style and taste, GO TO PRIMARK

"

This just made my Monday a whole lot better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be guys that take Dutch courage and take drugs before they meet you and end up stoned out their faces.

Guys who have long n dirty nails

Then there is the ones who turn up with a science experiment growing on their cock.

Pics on here with dirty environments in background is a major turn off.

Smokers with bad breath.

Facial hair turns me off too end up with something like a carpet burn when kissing

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