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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You chat for ages. Get on well. Then boom. They just vanish. What are people scared of. That you won't like them. Or you will judge them.

Or do men just don't like confident woman ?? I'm baffled.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"You chat for ages. Get on well. Then boom. They just vanish. What are people scared of. That you won't like them. Or you will judge them.

Or do men just don't like confident woman ?? I'm baffled."

The usual 'all talk'? Pathetic sods!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

It is what it is guys can change their minds also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat for ages. Get on well. Then boom. They just vanish. What are people scared of. That you won't like them. Or you will judge them.

Or do men just don't like confident woman ?? I'm baffled."

Doesn't just happen to me then

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe they decided you weren't their cup of tea. It happens. Plenty more guys on fab

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By *ikchattyfellahMan
over a year ago

Greenock

Nothing better than a confident lady tbh. I guess members of all sexes can be indecisive at times. It's probably not personal, sometimes it's likely a fling has commenced and perhaps they're putting all their energies into that.

If you're asking if it's a case of 'wid' or 'widnae' then I think most fellahs in your case would be 'wid'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with confidence as long as it doesn't border arrogance.

I've chatted to loads of people and most of the time it fizzles out with chat, you just roll with it, that's life.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Any confident ladies in the area come on down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most men will love a confident woman so maybe take that out of the equation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us love confident Ladies, trust me!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"You chat for ages. Get on well. Then boom. They just vanish. What are people scared of. That you won't like them. Or you will judge them.

Or do men just don't like confident woman ?? I'm baffled."
Maybe the wife/partner caught them ? lol(joking)

perhaps they just had a change of mind about being here it does and can happen .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People change their mind.

Just move on and forget.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh well dust myself down. Pick myself back up. Next. LOL Ye very true replys.

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I can't fathom that at all. I only just started chatting to you today. You came across as confident, articulate, someone I'd look forward to getting to know, even if it doesn't end up between the sheets. If I was afraid you wouldn't like me, or that you'd judge me, I'm usually too curious for my own good, and would feel the need to crash and burn in style on a disastrous first social meet

If a guy disappears like that on you I think that says a whole lot more about them than it does about you.

Don't let other's bizarre behaviour knock your confidence though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of Fab

This happens all the time on here

You start to chat, getting on like a house in fire both really clicking and then suddenly pfffft they're gone in a heartbeat.

Some even have the audacity to leave the site

Damn scoundrels how dare they play with our heads like that

You see we all experience it

make and female, just when you think you've hit it off pow the other disappears in a puff of smoke leaving you thinking WTF did I say wrong

Was just chatting to someone earlier tonight. 3 hrs on and off when suddenly they stopped,

Could have been the husband came home and she had to quickly switch the PC off hide what she was up to, could be someone at the door or the phone rang could be a million reasons

The point being they switched off it happens.

Pick oneself up dust oneself down and say "Ah well "

Get on with life's great mystery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same happens to me for some reason its getting anoying haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if there not youre cup of tea then they could say... haha its the least they could do

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Its the ones that do it when a meets more or less arranged, or even worse is arranged...

You chat for ages, sort out likes/dislikes, swap racy images or whatever, agree a meet, sometimes get as far as agreeing the time and place...... bang no warning 'user no longer on site'

Ive had that loads, a few times ive had them come back on a new profile thinking they can repeat the cycle...... told to GTF

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I know the feeling happens to me in virtually every person I speak to on here it's either the way of the site or I must remember not to send a face pic if I'm that off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat for ages. Get on well. Then boom. They just vanish. What are people scared of. That you won't like them. Or you will judge them.

Or do men just don't like confident woman ?? I'm baffled."

I thought the same thing with some women I was kik chatting with so I messaged them again and left kik open, turns out some of my messages had just vanished! Said delivered but nothing on the other end.

Unless you're talking to fake accounts I doubt they gave up... Honestly! Just message them a quick hello and here's some kisses to keep you occupied for now

Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxx oooo xxxxxxxxxx ooo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens all the time on here , just move on and forget about them

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown


"You chat for ages. Get on well. Then boom. They just vanish. What are people scared of. That you won't like them. Or you will judge them.

Or do men just don't like confident woman ?? I'm baffled."

A confident lady is such a turn on for me . Alot of men like the sub lady but I find you have much more fun with a lady who knows what she wants .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat for ages. Get on well. Then boom. They just vanish. What are people scared of. That you won't like them. Or you will judge them.

Or do men just don't like confident woman ?? I'm baffled."
at least you have chatted for a bit better tgan nothing at all tho x

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By *untimeboy69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

move on its his loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just trying to get a single woman to talk to us is impossible ..... we can't figure out what we are doing wrong LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just trying to get a single woman to talk to us is impossible ..... we can't figure out what we are doing wrong LOL"
A gave up along time ago trying to figure them out

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Just trying to get a single woman to talk to us is impossible ..... we can't figure out what we are doing wrong LOL"

They are out there - honest

Get a parrot - works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip pretty much have given up .. we don't actually think single woman exist? ? They are a myth like fairy's and the X-men

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

Maybe saw the pic with the boxing gloves and bag,then bottled it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe saw the pic with the boxing gloves and bag,then bottled it lol"

Boxing gloves and bag ???

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