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By *oanne_Mac OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Seems to be a lot of folk who even though having been told no in varying strengths from "a polite no thank you" all the way up to "fuck right off" still message you looking for meets...

If i message someone and get a KB i just say "ok, no probs have fun" and never bother them again..

No means No.... its not difficult...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a lot of folk who even though having been told no in varying strengths from "a polite no thank you" all the way up to "fuck right off" still message you looking for meets...

If i message someone and get a KB i just say "ok, no probs have fun" and never bother them again..

No means No.... its not difficult..."

If I get a kb reply I always reply with a thanks for letting me know, happy fabbing. I'll only re message someone if my original message didn't get read, and if it does get read with no reply I'll wait a couple of months before sending another.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Seems to be a lot of folk who even though having been told no in varying strengths from "a polite no thank you" all the way up to "fuck right off" still message you looking for meets...

If i message someone and get a KB i just say "ok, no probs have fun" and never bother them again..

No means No.... its not difficult..."

Ah are you sure your on here so you must be desparate

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By *oftSwingDuoCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

A lot of people take a knockback really personally, although we'd always rather reply with a polite "no thanks" than completely ignore.

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By *oftSwingDuoCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Ah are you sure your on here so you must be desparate "

How very dare you

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By *oanne_Mac OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"I'll only re message someone if my original message didn't get read, and if it does get read with no reply I'll wait a couple of months before sending another. "

If i have a message read with no reply then i dont message again. To me thats a No.... a no reply doesnt bother me. I just know to try somewhere else

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By *oanne_Mac OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"A lot of people take a knockback really personally, although we'd always rather reply with a polite "no thanks" than completely ignore."

Im generally the same.

Unless its clear they havent read profile and are asking for stuff i dont/cant do, or its a pretty rude message, then it doesnt warrant a response which usually escalates into a reply of "but why not?" Etc...

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By *oanne_Mac OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


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Ah are you sure your on here so you must be desparate "

You've just made one of my lists

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


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Ah are you sure your on here so you must be desparate

You've just made one of my lists

"

Your hotlist ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ffs Jo, no need to make a forum on our behalf

We'll stop pestering you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll only re message someone if my original message didn't get read, and if it does get read with no reply I'll wait a couple of months before sending another.

If i have a message read with no reply then i dont message again. To me thats a No.... a no reply doesnt bother me. I just know to try somewhere else "

I go on the assumption that humans change their minds on a regular basis, by waiting a month or so I'm not harassing anyone or bombarding them with msgs, and before you ask I meet a couple of girls from the site who replied to me on the second or third msg I sent them, I've also looked at a few profiles and thought nah, then after viewing a few times and seeing or reading something different sent them a msg. But I agree sending msgs repeatedly and daily is wrong and why most girls find it hard to find what they're looking for on fab.

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By *oanne_Mac OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"Oh ffs Jo, no need to make a forum on our behalf

We'll stop pestering you now "

Just stop writing stuff.

All the dirty piccys are fine to keep sending

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By *ollydimplesWoman
over a year ago

hamilton

We can't all like everyone .. so if someone isnt attracted to u or doesnt reply to you just move on

I usually reply if someone has made the effort ..even if its only to say no ..but if i have loads of messages i do sometimes just delete ...if its only a hi or fancy a fuck message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block. Delete. Done.

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By *oanne_Mac OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"Block. Delete. Done."

I do, not after the first message, nothing wrong with being asked.... its the further messages that follow after already being told no that im on about..

Then yes, i block.

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We get random messages and I Gotta say we're pretty bad for replying at the best of time.

However, is there any point in responding to one liners or to peeps who have clearly not read your profile or are hundreds of miles away or all of the above...

Is it rude.. Probably... But, what is more rude, ignoring ones preferences or a random message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a lot of folk who even though having been told no in varying strengths from "a polite no thank you" all the way up to "fuck right off" still message you looking for meets...

If i message someone and get a KB i just say "ok, no probs have fun" and never bother them again..

No means No.... its not difficult..."

block them,,,,,,simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block. Delete. Done."

This.

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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I rarely message new people now these days but I did before, and when I got a no reply I just took a mental note. There's been times now that I've been on more and been more active that those same people I messaged back when I first came on have messaged me now, and it feels good just to no reply them back ha ha. Call me stubborn...

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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There are times tho when you're messaged by a woman who's just clearly not your type and I've ignored before just because I've not really had the heart to say "not interested"... Sometimes I just mark them as unread and move on.

With gay/bi men, I just ignore as I've made it clear in my profile that I'm not looking for that...

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