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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You get a single fem or fem from a cpl who say they dont meet single guys socially or otherwise...

But they have or post verifications from meeting a single guy around the time you start chatting or after...

Oooo the irony, such is the fabulous world of fab lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"You get a single fem or fem from a cpl who say they dont meet single guys socially or otherwise...

But they have or post verifications from meeting a single guy around the time you start chatting or after...

Oooo the irony, such is the fabulous world of fab lol "
a veri from known freinds or would you prefer they ignore you or tell you you have a face like a melted piece box.there is no irony alot of fems say not meeting single guys to save them the hassle of the teddy out the cot crew just accept they dont want contact from you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kola is there any time you wont criticise a post I make?

I would actually prefer direct honesty and say im not their type instead of making stuff up.

Whats up with direct communication and being honest and upfront? Better that so you can just move on.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Maybe they don't want to open up then the whole .."but why not conversation". I'm afraid there are some guys who don't react well to any rebuff .So yes ideally just be straight and say just not attracted to them but sadly not worth the kick off ,tantrums or wanting justifications .

Does it really matter why they'll meet other single guys ? They just didn't want to take things further with you so chalk it up and move on then to others who will. Saves you wasting any further time talking to them .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Im not critisising your post im giving a direct opinion something you just wrote you would prefer I dosnt seem that way does it ? And thats the point it saves alot of hassle lets face it single guys are ten a penny makes more sense to ignore and find what they want.instead of what you seem to be after which is justification for meeting a guy when you msged and were told not meeting single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed! it's sometimes easier for us to say:- we are not looking to meet singles at the mo. We have found it saves hassle and abusive replies, when folks ego's get offended. While you may well be ok with the "we don't find you attractive / not our type" reply, others are not.

So rather than play Russian as to what type of guy we are replying too. It's easier and safer to say not meeting singles at the mo, for us anyways.

If they meet a single guy after knocking you back. Take it on the chin, dust down your ego and move on. Am sure your smart enough to know what they mean, and smart enough to know they just don't want to offend. No malice intended on their part.

Plenty of fish out there. Their loss not yours. Next please lol x

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe they can do what they want

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some people lie, fib, stretch the truth, fabricate, say one thing and mean another, and/or just take the piss......

it's the internet, it's allowed

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Maybe they can do what they want "

Joy of joys. A sensible answer. People should concentrate on their own profile and not get tied up with other folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whan the ducks take over I hope they will let op down gently...i see a theme forming going by op post...and yes I talk shite but free will and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they can do what they want "

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

OP - you aren't my type

That being said, if you were at a social I'd still say hello

As for veris and meeting preferences, people can do whatever they want

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You get a single fem or fem from a cpl who say they dont meet single guys socially or otherwise...

But they have or post verifications from meeting a single guy around the time you start chatting or after...

Oooo the irony, such is the fabulous world of fab lol "

I would like to think people would say ur not thier type but some don't. It might be as simple as a timing issue though...I know there are folks I would like to catch up with but availabilities never match

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"You get a single fem or fem from a cpl who say they dont meet single guys socially or otherwise...

But they have or post verifications from meeting a single guy around the time you start chatting or after...

Oooo the irony, such is the fabulous world of fab lol

I would like to think people would say ur not thier type but some don't. It might be as simple as a timing issue though...I know there are folks I would like to catch up with but availabilities never match "

This happens all the time

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