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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Due to the wife losing her sex drive I have joined this site and I am looking for invites to meets. I have never done this type of thing before but willing to learn the ropes. Unfortunately because I'm stil with the wife I can't accommodate but would love to go to some in Inverness depending where or when and any help would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it not be a good idea to support her and address why her sex drive is down?

The typical hormonal imbalances can be corrected through nutrition and sex drive can return naturally, alternatively you could look into re-initiating a connection of intimacy wither it involves sex or builds up to it...

Just my 2 cents.

Take it or leave it happily :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need to make it a lot clearer a sin does your wife know

A lot of people on here don't want to play with married people incase they are involved in a backlash of some kind.

if she knows, and gives her consent, then great if not, let people know, girls will appreciated it more.

I've had hassle before with a girl who was married and didn't tell me, pure murder.

Anyway, all going well, have fun and merry xams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it not be a good idea to support her and address why her sex drive is down?

The typical hormonal imbalances can be corrected through nutrition and sex drive can return naturally, alternatively you could look into re-initiating a connection of intimacy wither it involves sex or builds up to it...

Just my 2 cents.

Take it or leave it happily :p"

He might not take it but its deffo good for you comment to be here, think a few people could look into it

just saying like

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Don't sit back and wait. Meets won't come to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it not be a good idea to support her and address why her sex drive is down?

The typical hormonal imbalances can be corrected through nutrition and sex drive can return naturally, alternatively you could look into re-initiating a connection of intimacy wither it involves sex or builds up to it...

Just my 2 cents.

Take it or leave it happily :p

He might not take it but its deffo good for you comment to be here, think a few people could look into it

just saying like"

Cheers dude, part of why I shared it. Thanks for the support

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback all much appreciated

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Would it not be a good idea to support her and address why her sex drive is down?

The typical hormonal imbalances can be corrected through nutrition and sex drive can return naturally, alternatively you could look into re-initiating a connection of intimacy wither it involves sex or builds up to it...

Just my 2 cents.

I agree with you on that. When I had my accident years ago I was put on steroid injections and told to change my diet.

Worst thing I ever done. I wasn't eating right as my body craved food so that made me crabbit I lost so much weight constant headaces.

After about a year we moved and my new doctor was amazing. Told me eat when I'm hungry just don't eat crap. That alone made a huge difference.

Take it or leave it happily :p"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think her sex drive is down is probably due to her epilepsy and she has gone through the change but it doesn't alter the fact that I miss sex oh so much and I've mentioned open relationship and she firmly said no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude seriously, "going through the change"!

You may miss sex but maybe she misses intimacy...

Health factors can still be addressed through nutrition and the sex can be addressed through a better connection and support to her. That is if you want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think her sex drive is down is probably due to her epilepsy and she has gone through the change but it doesn't alter the fact that I miss sex oh so much and I've mentioned open relationship and she firmly said no "

And you still joined a swingers site after discussing it with your wife and she firmly said no?

You show a lot of respect for someone you claim to love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm so sorry

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personal opinion here: communication and trust are the foundations of any relationship.

If you aren't happy, talk about it or try some romance/intimacy.

Just my opinion, but cheating and making girls on here feel used isn't going to help anyone.

Mrs J xx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Ok, let's all calm down a second.

The OP hasn't been here that long and he has a story just like everyone else has. His may be different but he's happy to admit it.

Maybe naively.

However, as I've said before, never judge as we never know what's going on unless we talk to the person.

OP - good luck and I hope you find what ever it is you are looking for.

(Just maybe don't post another thread like this lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said AK

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Don't sit back and wait. Meets won't come to you"

Oh, and this is good advice OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have tried to have sex with her for the past 25yrs to no avail and I admit their may be a bit of desperation appearing but I really do miss my sex life so im sorry if I gave upset anybody perhaps it's best I leave the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Correction 15yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, let's all calm down a second.

The OP hasn't been here that long and he has a story just like everyone else has. His may be different but he's happy to admit it.

Maybe naively.

However, as I've said before, never judge as we never know what's going on unless we talk to the person.

OP - good luck and I hope you find what ever it is you are looking for.

(Just maybe don't post another thread like this lol)"

Agree at least he was upfront and honest!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I have tried to have sex with her for the past 25yrs to no avail and I admit their may be a bit of desperation appearing but I really do miss my sex life so im sorry if I gave upset anybody perhaps it's best I leave the site "

No need to leave. Just read my first post and take the advice.

Just keep messaging. You'll find someone who is right for you.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Ok, let's all calm down a second.

The OP hasn't been here that long and he has a story just like everyone else has. His may be different but he's happy to admit it.

Maybe naively.

However, as I've said before, never judge as we never know what's going on unless we talk to the person.

OP - good luck and I hope you find what ever it is you are looking for.

(Just maybe don't post an

ther thread like this lol)"

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