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Are profiles with endless verifications an attraction or a turn off ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thoughts?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think it depends on what those veris are.

Our summary shows that we've been verified by 86 people and had 112 meets in our three years here.

A lot of those are from socials and parties that we've held, a few from the same people. I try to display a good mix - some socials, some play meets together and other play meets with me alone.

I don't display them all, I think at the moment I'm showing 36

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Its not the quantity its the quality of those veris opppps another judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are nearly all social. However I guess the number may put some off.

I'm not a fan of the verification thing. I don't really want to know about what a person got up to with other people.

However I do use it as a filter sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically, outwith socials, yes :p

No big explanation, durect answer for a direct question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither an attraction or turn off. Someone could be on the site for years and years and met more socially than playing. Tend not to bother reading them, nobody ever gives a bad verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't win though as a guy.

No veris = no meets

Too many = folk think your bed hopping.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The vast majority on my profile are from the folks who attended my wee house parties.

I've had one couple message me saying I'm a tart. They had the impression I'd bedded everyone in my verifications.

I wish . Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The vast majority on my profile are from the folks who attended my wee house parties.

I've had one couple message me saying I'm a tart. They had the impression I'd bedded everyone in my verifications.

I wish . Lol "

If someone messaged me with that id reply with "yes, I am, thanks"

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Only worry about a large amount of veris when ALL the veris are from 1 person

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I have a lot of verifications but if you look at them then they are all from social meets. I like to keep a bit of mystery lol

Who I have sex with is my business and I don't need everyone to see it. As far as I'm concerned discretion is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only worry about a large amount of veris when ALL the veris are from 1 person "

Ooooh this, bunny boiler central that shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thoughts?"

Other than to be verified by someone who is "Genuine"

I personally see verifications pointless.

Why does someone need to be rated

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am indifferent to them really. I don't look to see how popular some people are and how regular they have sex.

After the first, on the whole pointless.

If some had sex based ones, nearly every day it would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off for moi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some may find them useful... some may find them pointless... Some may find they benefit from showing them and some may find the opposite...

Luckily the site recognises this and allows us to show or not show as we see fit.

It's all personal choice and as always that is something you will agree with some and disagree with others on.

I personally do not show them as I have found some question you on them and I prefer to keep whom I've met to myself.

Red

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I have a few - all social.

If people don't like it, tough shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv meet 130 people in a year in a bit. Mostly social side. Cjs. Pubs, private party's. Or people leaving coming back and re verifying each other. So most would look at the 130 n think no point her wearing knickers. I'm very selective who ill meet for sex. . Plus you can end up with countless verifications from the same person.

One nutter used it to communicate with me so 20 odd verification used just to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont understand the need for 10's or 100's of verifications. Surely once you've had a few that all that needed...

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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It personally turns me off if they're all "play" verifications but that's just my opinion. I have around 10 verifications? Not sure... but only a few are play meets; the majority are socials. I don't show the raw content of those veris though as someone said above - who I've slept with is my business and I respect other people's privacy as well. I probably could do with just publishing the social ones but then they're all much of the same... "Met this handsome, good looking guy, etc" ha ha ha

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've got a few... Mostly social, no ones business that we display n don't really care what anyone thinks. Think on here to many people bothering what others are doing rather than enjoying the site

K xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many you have makes no difference to me, it's who you've met that might be the issue

I've a fair few since joining back up... Fuck knows how many there'd be if I'd kept the same profile from when I was 20.. No fucks given though, it's people's own business no one else's

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