FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone actually meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

God sake what a boring day with endless bullshit msgs back and forth wi no end result starting to get sick ae this

anyone feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not a box of milk tray where you open up the box n just choose what sweetie you fancy at the time.

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

nope lol - we get enough fun to stop the timewasters getting to us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

God majority of people on here have no intention of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they are put off by the idea of meeting you with a 'mate'

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

or could it b that after msgin back n forth they decided u just didnt fit the criteria they were looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

canny understand it mate, afterall you got a really creative profile going for you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe cos you say nothing in yr profile. Plus the fact that you say you are straight but want to meet mm couples???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes its all in ur atttitude

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By *cottishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

near irvine, ayrshire

oh aye every one wants to meet a silhouette who cant take the time to fill in what hes looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye cos after being on here three months your profile still says " will fill in later "

ermmmmmmmmmmm how longs later????

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

you have no details on your profile. You have no pics either. What exactly are you selling to people??

Think of your profile as your advert. What do you want from your time on here? What kind of people do you want to meet? What are your likes and dislikes? I wouldn't reply to your messages because you clearly can't be bothered filling in your profile

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

think too many people nowadays seem to label everyone that doesnt meet them at drop of a hat as a timewaster or decide that whole site is full of wannabees not everyone is everyone elses cup of tea i'm affraid thats just life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think you should change your profile son ,as to what u actually are str8 or bi or gay then u maybe get messages flowing as your profiles a bit mixed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking the same for a while but have now taken some advice from the forum and hopefully it will help me to meet people.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

(1)u say u will fill in ur profile but uve been here for 3 months

(2) no pix

(3)what your looking for is a little confusing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aye I know guys,constructive criticism or what!lol

I'll get the profile sorted in the next few days then I hope u can tell me if it's better.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

1 other wee point to take on board for future reference whingin about not gettin a meet after 5mins on site doesnt go doon well wi the ladies ..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've no bn on for 5 mins

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

"I've no bn on for 5 mins "

there has been folk on for a damn sight longer than you who still haven't had a meet. Get yourself noticed .... and not for whinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get profile sorted in next few days ? time youve spent on this thread you coulda done it many times over. you dont seem to be puting much effort in so you not going to reap any rewards. then again who am i to criticise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Steady petal!novodys whinging u was only asking the question.

I'm sorry if I offended all u hardened swingers ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

God why have a struck such a blow to all of yous isn't a forum there to ask questions?or wd u rather I asked spit or swallow? Or do u like anal?

God sake

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

had you come on and said "finding it difficult getting from the chatting stage to the meet stage, does anyone have any suggestions?" then you might have got a different response.

It's all about the attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair comment

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By *hickencurryCouple
over a year ago

brisbane

would you really meet a 99 year tv and his boyfriend. says so on your profile which is short and snappy give you that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok....look at peoples profiles and you will see feedback from meets....so yes people do meet.

your profile says you are straight yet you are looking for tv's ts's men etc...

you have no pic

your profile says nowt

and lets be honest its all about ur attitude, personality, chemistry, fun...sence of humour ......all this brings fun and sex....

you gotta remember theres thousands of men on this site....why should people pick you? you need to think why and make urself stand out...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Point taken cheers

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

One guy has already said he asked for some advice and when given it he was quick to respond to peoples suggestions perhaps you should try the same ?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

To answer the OP of "Does anyone actually meet?"

Yup I meet lots!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman who has plenty of meets thanks a couple of points - tho as always just my opinion

1. boring profile = boring sex

2. lazy profile = lazy sex

3. whingy profile = selfish sex

4. meet for sex with 2 complete strangers, no pics or verifications = very dodgy and not entirely safe

70% of the profiles I read from single men have one line usually saying "single guy looking for nsa fun" or something similar- you ask me how Im supposed to choose if you're all the same!

Happy swinging xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am Different .........lol

Buboo xxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

ur not diffrent bub ur unique no one else quite like u is there lol

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"As a single woman who has plenty of meets thanks a couple of points - tho as always just my opinion

1. boring profile = boring sex

2. lazy profile = lazy sex

3. whingy profile = selfish sex

4. meet for sex with 2 complete strangers, no pics or verifications = very dodgy and not entirely safe

70% of the profiles I read from single men have one line usually saying "single guy looking for nsa fun" or something similar- you ask me how Im supposed to choose if you're all the same!

Happy swinging xxx"

Phew! I'm just glad none of the above applies to mine!

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

such an interesting profile redhot.amazed you dont have queus waiting for you.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single woman who has plenty of meets thanks a couple of points - tho as always just my opinion

1. boring profile = boring sex

2. lazy profile = lazy sex

3. whingy profile = selfish sex

4. meet for sex with 2 complete strangers, no pics or verifications = very dodgy and not entirely safe

70% of the profiles I read from single men have one line usually saying "single guy looking for nsa fun" or something similar- you ask me how Im supposed to choose if you're all the same!

Happy swinging xxx

Phew! I'm just glad none of the above applies to mine!

exactly hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sound advice given here by people who have been around the site for longer than 3 months (5 mins).

As the advice is what your looking for take it all onboard, jazz up your profile , fill in later , never got anyone a meet. State your true sexuality, (staight means u dont like men.)

A little observation from me is a tv,cd are really men , albeit , they dress as women and some are very convincing but they dont have a vagina , if u not straight , say so , be honest in what u are , what u are looking for and with whom u would like to do it with.

Your profile says who u are , encourages people to choose u from all the others on site , so use the tool to your advantage and get stuck in making it fun, adventurous, chatty and friendly , show ur dazzling personality that i am sure lurks there with that fabulous charm and wit you display.

Having said all that , have fun , put into the site what u want out of it and above all , happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a guy in chat yesterday, been on site for six weeks and wanted to shout from the rooftops that he had his first meet on Saturday night. He was so chuffed.

Looked at his profile and how he was chatting in the room and it was apparent how he had got this meet.

He just had the right attitude and a decent profile. Was polite, funny and respectful and with the other guys giving it the 'gorgeous tits babe, fancy a shag' line in chat he was standing out amongst them.

Many guys and indeed couples can't get a meet in 6 months let alone 6 weeks.

Good luck

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some Hay Meet And Canny Eat ..And Some Hay Meets And Like It ..coorrff

Think Av Said That Wrang ...

However, Preperation and layout of a good profile may stand you out from the crowd..

Then again my profile doesnt say much and its never stopped me from indulging in sexual activity .

Good Luck

Buboo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever meets on this website, cos its all virtual, and all we are really is computer programs!!! Where are you morpheus????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a daft post from somerone with no pictures and no verifications

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

"No one ever meets on this website, cos its all virtual, and all we are really is computer programs!!! Where are you morpheus????

i'm here neo....lol waiting on trinity coming for a virtual shag...

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

now do i take the red pill or the wee blue 1.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm special. :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He still hasnt updated it then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He still hasnt updated it then!!"

Im off to change profile to:

'I will fill in later'

See how much luck I get, lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I don't meet. in fact i don't even exist, i am just a figment of your overactive imagination!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single woman who has plenty of meets "

Lets face it, on this site, a single woman with no arms, no legs, a humph, 2 teeth, no hair and a big pointy nose could still get plenty of meets as there are a huge number of desperados who would shag the crack of dawn if they got the chance.

I'm also not infering you have any of the above afflictions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months and 6 days after posting, and it's still "will fill in later"!!

Says it all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read one with same detail other day, "fill in later", been here a year!!!

Busy Busy Busy boy? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why moan about enless mails

an no take time 2 fill a profile

in..u get out a wat u put in

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

no offence... but if all the effort you put in is "will fill in later".... you deserve what you get.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God majority of people on here have no intention of meeting."

...you. No intention of meeting you.

There, just wanted to finish off the sentence as you got interrupted before the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God majority of people on here have no intention of meeting.

...you. No intention of meeting you.

There, just wanted to finish off the sentence as you got interrupted before the end."

How about me? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God majority of people on here have no intention of meeting.

...you. No intention of meeting you.

There, just wanted to finish off the sentence as you got interrupted before the end.

How about me? Lol"

Stop phishing you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to get your profile filled then chat and be patient, and get some friendly advice about the profile

I'm even open to some and so would anyone else

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