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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does age really matter? or do we we have parameters we are comfortable within?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think it really matters, we have a window that we are comfortable with but we will expand it for the right people. Also a lot of people lie about their age so how would we really know. As long as its legal and you are comfortable enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think it really matters, we have a window that we are comfortable with but we will expand it for the right people. Also a lot of people lie about their age so how would we really know. As long as its legal and you are comfortable enjoy "

Then again I am a desperate middle aged pervert whos not getting any

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do we have upper and lower limits that we are comfortable with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it doesnt. As the guy above said, if its legal then great. As a 29 yr old male id have no problem having sex with an 18 or 45 yr old. If you click and it feels right, thats the important bit. Yeah we have our comfort zones...but age shouldnt be a deal breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't think age matters, I don't think height weight colour of hair or skin matters either. There are bbw I find attractive and some I don't, there are brunettes I find attractive and some I don't, there are 50-60 year olds I find attractive and some I don't. That said I've yet to meet a 99 year old I find attractive but who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age means nothing as long as the people involved is happy

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By *eektopleaseMan
over a year ago

stirling

Just a number really,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does matter to us. We are probably more fluid with our upper age limit but not on the lower.

Our experience with younger guys (under 25) has been, without exception, poor.

I accept we may have been unlucky but when there are simply heaps of perfectly acceptable guys in our preferred age band we see no need to take the chance on meeting another sexually and emotionally immature young man with inadequate social skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't get with anyone the same age as my kids, just doesn't sit comfortable with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the same age as my grandfather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. I notice how it's all men who say it doesn't matter, but when you are older you have a limited amount of women who will even chat let alone meet. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for men on Fab you tend to fall of the cliff when you reach 50. Women and cpls are still desired no matter what age they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own I suppose. Although I am Fab at 50 I don't suppose I appeal to everyone LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been blocked by people who had an age range and they met me on socials, and wouldn't leave me alone when they saw me, lol

tax men, ehhh

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think it matters hence I have age preferences.

But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.

It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.

But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.

It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion. "

pmsl, cant wait till im 57

lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I have an age window but am willing to expand it depending on the person. I tend not to go below 25 with ladies and 30 with males, mainly because I struggle to find common ground. Occasionally someone comes along that I will be more flexible with, but I'm definitely not comfortable with anyone around 20 or over 55, the age gap feels too much.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.

But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.

It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion.

pmsl, cant wait till im 57

lol "
get your mac in the boxing day sales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter to me at all if I'm honest. I much prefer 45+ plus that's a preference of mines, not a limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.

But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.

It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion.

pmsl, cant wait till im 57

lol get your mac in the boxing day sales "

I think you know im confident enough to just let it out and chat the way the girl desires at the time

cough! cough !

pmsl

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.

But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.

It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion.

pmsl, cant wait till im 57

lol get your mac in the boxing day sales

I think you know im confident enough to just let it out and chat the way the girl desires at the time

cough! cough !

pmsl

"
I sure do cough! Cough! Lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Age is but a number

People are surprised when they find out I'm not really 67!

There are some mature heads on young shoulders, and young heads on mature shoulders. Makes life more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have age limits but they aren't firm. If the person interests us and is interested in us then it is all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a personal preference thing but it doesn't matter to me, the only time it pisses me off is when I see someone I like & can't mail them becuase they're minimum age limit is 27 & I'm 26? Is there really a difference between a 26yo & a 27yo? Naw

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Just a personal preference thing but it doesn't matter to me, the only time it pisses me off is when I see someone I like & can't mail them becuase they're minimum age limit is 27 & I'm 26? Is there really a difference between a 26yo & a 27yo? Naw"
lower it to 26 its then a 25yr old making the same claim yes age is important to me anyway I have very little in common with 20 somethings or 60 somethings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could never go with anyone whose age was close to my kids so never any more than ten years younger than me but upper age limit is more flexible if I found someone attractive age would not make a difference there

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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For me, the age itself, ie. the number, is irrelevant as long as they're not older than my mother.

For me it's more about (well, I'm trying not to sound shallow here) wether or not they're my "type"... and if I'm attracted to them or not, regardless of knowing how old they are.

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

I'd say condition is more important than age.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

My playing age has been 18-42

Belle 21-42

From this site so far.

Age has had little impact. Belle did put her limit at 42 till she met Nawty Max.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think it doesn't matter but often it is set in stone ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is very important to me. I am attracted to older guys and I'm not interested in younger guys

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By *inkyman looking for funMan
over a year ago

bathgate

Age is irrelevant

It's about the connection

If it's legal and consensual

Then enjoy

End of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our age ranges set, but not set in stone. But would avoid ages similar to our kids, just wouldn't seem right (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to say it doesn't but for me it does. I get a lot of messages from younger men and I just think no...

I dare say in 20 years time someone 10 years younger may not be such a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is very important to me. I am attracted to older guys and I'm not interested in younger guys"

Damg, Really

After All these years, Now You Tell Me

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only matters at I think I could go 15 yrs up and 20 yrs down. Probably not much further. Guess the answer is yes but not that much.

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

It depends on the person. Some 19 year-olds can be very mature, whilst an old fart like me can be a complete wean. I judge by the person, not the number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the question i dont think so age is a number as is 1 of the reasons id like you to take your age gap down haha !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really matter much to me but I'm not sure I could go for a woman in her early twenties. Might be a stretch too far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats for knicks4u

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Does age matter well not really I'm going to be 38 in 10 mins the countdown is on lol

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Couldn't get with anyone the same age as my kids, just doesn't sit comfortable with me"

This is the reason we have a limit

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo not, age is just a number. I'm attracted to 21 year old a and 51 year olds. Women are beautiful at all ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Defo not, age is just a number. I'm attracted to 21 year old a and 51 year olds. Women are beautiful at all ages"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't get with anyone the same age as my kids, just doesn't sit comfortable with me"

I was young when I had my kids. I feel as if they are not much younger than me now, so I am not comfortable with anyone younger than myself chatting on here or otherwise. Just how I feel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for sex?...not that much at all..

for anything deeper than a shag or two..I'd have to be greatly emotionally involved with the person..

I wouldnt tie myself to someone way over my age range(say 15yrs),mainly because I'd still like to think about having children..its highly unlikely I'd find someone at this age as a viable long term partner.

in cases of younger people than me, theres hardly a limit...over 25 would be preferable, but it really all depends on the person themselves..as some can be more mature in their outlook than those twice their age.

so...superficial fun with any age group really..but limits if there are possibly long term committed plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for commitment from anyone especially from a site like this where all I want is NSA fun.

Therefore age means nothing, if the person is in this for the same as me which I would expect from this site then I don't care for a number

Problem is I am over 50 and majority on here seem to have an upper age parameter of 45 yet say age doesn't matter.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not I look sixty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope not I look sixty "

lol, me neither

Im 46 but I look under 40 but my body is near 30's ouff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for commitment from anyone especially from a site like this where all I want is NSA fun.

Therefore age means nothing, if the person is in this for the same as me which I would expect from this site then I don't care for a number

Problem is I am over 50 and majority on here seem to have an upper age parameter of 45 yet say age doesn't matter......."

Disagree a bit

I usually see

upper age parameter of 40/sometime to 42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope not I look sixty

lol, me neither

Im 46 but I look under 40 but my body is near 30's ouff "

If a wis a wummin ad pump ye whoresy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One look at me, any guy would want to be a women so they could try, pmsl

why the fuck did I go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.

But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.

It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion. "

If you classed the 57yr old a "Dirty Old Manish".

What would you call the 20yr old Girl then ?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.

But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.

It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion.

If you classed the 57yr old a "Dirty Old Manish".

What would you call the 20yr old Girl then ?

"

Jizzabelle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older more mature women. But having said that i dont mind girls around my age either. But something about a milf/cougar is just so damn hot.

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC

I'm not sure I'm 20 years old and struggle to get a chat never mind a meet I don't know if it's because my age or my profile any comments?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"I'm not sure I'm 20 years old and struggle to get a chat never mind a meet I don't know if it's because my age or my profile any comments?"
humm you might be useful.

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

As long as the ppl get along i dont see why age should be relevant .... N anyway ppl dont turn up at meets with their passport so never know for sure haha

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC


"I'm not sure I'm 20 years old and struggle to get a chat never mind a meet I don't know if it's because my age or my profile any comments?humm you might be useful. "
people have said I am useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age dose matter there some younger men I look at and think..theres no way you could handle me. Plus if there under 22 Dosnt feel right. As for older . Some I wonder about there stamina . So round about my own age. Or slightly younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a number in my book xx

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By *p4funduoCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It depends on the person ...?

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By *aviecazCouple
over a year ago

cumbernauld

Could be friends with persons same age group as my older child but could not take that step futher with any one younger than my kids just not on caz xxx ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, for me it matters. If I'm old enough to legally be a guys mother then it's simply not going to happen. For guys older than me it's even stricter, 48-49 is my cut off point as I prefer guys a similar age or younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the person ...?"

I'd agree. My cut offs mid 40s but there is some stunning ladys that are older on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't really concern myself with age, as long as there's a good vibe between you and you both like what you see, crack on ??

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Age obviously matters to some that they feel they need to lie about it .

If your knocking years off or adding years on why is that ?

I believe it's so they can mail and try and meet people who don't wish to meet a certain age group in the first place and that should be respected.

As I've said a few times if your going to lie about your age at least be able to pass for the age your claiming to be ..and many dont

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I've always end preferred older in the past as I found older ladies more dominant but I have met and spoke to some amazing younger girls too xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will Always be exceptions to any rule, our experience of young men to date hasn't been the best, but it's not a hard 'no' from us on age because of it.

Plus people lie about their age on here all the time, some to be older, others to be younger ... I've found from experience that it is really just a number.

Still I'm unwilling to have 18-99 on our profile as that seems a tad ridiculous so had to give a parameter

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