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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So does anyone here follow the three date rule? I follow the three date rule, I was curious as to what women thought of it or are they aware of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that mean if you don't get a shag on the 3rd date there is no 4th date

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"So does anyone here follow the three date rule? I follow the three date rule, I was curious as to what women thought of it or are they aware of it?"
whas the three date rule ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does that mean if you don't get a shag on the 3rd date there is no 4th date "

yeah thats it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Does that mean if you don't get a shag on the 3rd date there is no 4th date

yeah thats it "
Seems a bit shallow ..so if a girl needs a bit more time she's no chance if she doesn't give out after three dates she's dumped even if you really liked her ?

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a first date kinda girl..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yeah thats it Seems a bit shallow ..so if a girl needs a bit more time she's no chance if she doesn't give out after three dates she's dumped even if you really liked her ?"

I can see it can seem like that but for me this is 2015 not 1915 and sex is nothing to be frightened of, so if someone is attracted enough that we get the third date then why not have sex. if we don't it signals to me that they aren't really into me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I could have worded that a bit better i just tend to think that the fact of the matter is that the strongest, most intensely romantic relationships often start the most passionately.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I could have worded that a bit better i just tend to think that the fact of the matter is that the strongest, most intensely romantic relationships often start the most passionately."
yeah and some are slow burners building to a heatwave because more time has been spent getting to know each other.

And yes it is 2015 altho what that has to do with anything I don't know

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Its a swingers site, if you have a second date it's a sex date, that assumes you are talking about fab dates of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nah talking of offline dates

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could have worded that a bit better i just tend to think that the fact of the matter is that the strongest, most intensely romantic relationships often start the most passionately.yeah and some are slow burners building to a heatwave because more time has been spent getting to know each other.

And yes it is 2015 altho what that has to do with anything I don't know "

1915 folks where more conservative about sex. religious organisations saying it was a sin etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Date 1 coffee and a chat

All subsequent meets are for NSA sex

Ooh unless you mean that vanilla shite that ordinary people get up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't exist anymore with my generation tbh most people when a was growing up were shaggin before we knew what each others names were.

But I have heard of the 3date rule & I thought that was a normal thing between adults mostly Americans though.

Don't know anything about dates though haven't dated since I was a teenager

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Nah talking of offline dates "

Yeah, I would go with three dates then, assuming we are talking mature adults, I think most people would know from the first date but would maybe hold back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a retired door steward the 3 date thing never applied it was usually "I'll suck your dick if you let me in "

Usually after I'd knocked them back for being under age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't even know there was such a thing. Dated when I was younger and didn't have sex for months. We're together about 10 years. Have since separated and not looking to date. Wouldn't have a clue about dating these days. Thank goodness for Fab!

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

OPs approach is a little shallow in my opinion.

Dating is about getting to know someone...enjoying their company and doing silly little things together. Sex isnt always on everyones mind ( yes this is a swingers site) but if you want sex...why date people in the conventional sense??

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

You would be buggered if you were dating me. The last person I dated they had to wait a month and several dates before I even considered sleeping with them.

You could be missing out on some lovely women just because your so desperate for sex

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Could be worse.... How about the Pattie rule (millionaire matchmaker)... No sex before monogamy!!!! Were does that leave a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah thats it Seems a bit shallow ..so if a girl needs a bit more time she's no chance if she doesn't give out after three dates she's dumped even if you really liked her ?

I can see it can seem like that but for me this is 2015 not 1915 and sex is nothing to be frightened of, so if someone is attracted enough that we get the third date then why not have sex. if we don't it signals to me that they aren't really into me."

I've spotted a flaw in your statement, if she's not really into you I dont think you'll be getting a second never mind a third date, not unless she's just wanting to really make sure she's really not into you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a first date kinda girl.. "

Why does that not surprise me lol

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Personally I thing having a line where if u havnt had sex b4 this time of dating then no next date is the silliest thing I've heard seems a bit bizarre especially how there's kind of 2 types of dating normal dateing and sex dateing and I've not looked at your profile and I'm not going to but I assume your about 20 and not much experience in dateing

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"So does anyone here follow the three date rule? I follow the three date rule, I was curious as to what women thought of it or are they aware of it?"

And how is this ...they put out on the 3rd date rule working for you exactly ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in the real world if I was brave enough to start dating, there would be a lot more than 3 dates before sex.

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"I think in the real world if I was brave enough to start dating, there would be a lot more than 3 dates before sex. "

Totally agree my ex I think it was about 3 months b4 we had sex then we were together 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The three date rule - it's just a saying that states 'most' new couples usually sleep together by/on the 3rd date, or that you know whether you're really compatible or not by the 3rd date.

If you really fancy each other, you'd not want to wait beyond 3 dates?

Myself and my OH were gagging for each other on date one - but I held out til date 3. Just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a first date kinda girl..

Why does that not surprise me lol "

Shut up you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience of dating conventionally last few years I would say 3,2,1 date rule does apply. I've never got to a fourth date without some jiggy jiggy ....

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If a guy was living his life by such a rule and was this bothered by conforming to such rules then id be happy for him to pass me by.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

The 3 date rule says more about those who adhere to it than the folk they meet

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

3 dates, fuck that...

I expect to be balls deep after 30 mins

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"So does anyone here follow the three date rule? I follow the three date rule, I was curious as to what women thought of it or are they aware of it?"

Are you talking fab life or personal life here?

Using the word 'date' would mean personal life to me. There would be no rule for me - Dating is just that - time spent together to get to know someone well enough to take the next step towards intimacy.

On here - a 'meet' - most people would get the feeling after one 'social' meet if they were the type to want to shag each others brains out

(Mr)

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By *ostEligibleBachelorMan
over a year ago

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"The 3 date rule says more about those who adhere to it than the folk they meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does anyone here follow the three date rule? I follow the three date rule, I was curious as to what women thought of it or are they aware of it?

Are you talking fab life or personal life here?

Using the word 'date' would mean personal life to me. There would be no rule for me - Dating is just that - time spent together to get to know someone well enough to take the next step towards intimacy.

On here - a 'meet' - most people would get the feeling after one 'social' meet if they were the type to want to shag each others brains out

(Mr)"

Real dating in our case - we met before being on fab.

We don't do socials/dates with any of our meets. That's not what fab is about for us.

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