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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am not sure what kind of person you guys are but all the mails am not interested in I still reply with a sorry not thanks ...

Nothing more frustrating or may be its cause am horny any merry Christmas .. Santa came early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is so rude not to reply and when you see who doesn't reply, it tends to be persons with no verifications.

Are they real swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thinks its more that they get waaaay to many emails to reply or even open!, a female friend of mine who is on here gets literally 100+ emails per day, she doesn't even open most of the mails just insta delete its the only way to handle it.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Am not sure what kind of person you guys are but all the mails am not interested in I still reply with a sorry not thanks ...

Nothing more frustrating or may be its cause am horny any merry Christmas .. Santa came early "
Far too many think its their god given right to get their emails answered when its not .

the site says take a no reply as a no thank you.

My no thank you is on my profile so if folk choose to ignore it thats upto them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am not sure what kind of person you guys are but all the mails am not interested in I still reply with a sorry not thanks ...

Nothing more frustrating or may be its cause am horny any merry Christmas .. Santa came early Far too many think its their god given right to get their emails answered when its not .

the site says take a no reply as a no thank you.

My no thank you is on my profile so if folk choose to ignore it thats upto them "
just you pipe down nawty

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Am not sure what kind of person you guys are but all the mails am not interested in I still reply with a sorry not thanks ...

Nothing more frustrating or may be its cause am horny any merry Christmas .. Santa came early Far too many think its their god given right to get their emails answered when its not .

the site says take a no reply as a no thank you.

My no thank you is on my profile so if folk choose to ignore it thats upto them just you pipe down nawty "
oi cheeky dont speak to your elders like that or youl get a slapped ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had the too many emails to not answer problem.

Closest to the frustration you're talking about was some lassie who blocked me without me ever messaging her.

I didn't know my status updates were that annoying :|

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Am not sure what kind of person you guys are but all the mails am not interested in I still reply with a sorry not thanks ...

Nothing more frustrating or may be its cause am horny any merry Christmas .. Santa came early Far too many think its their god given right to get their emails answered when its not .

the site says take a no reply as a no thank you.

My no thank you is on my profile so if folk choose to ignore it thats upto them "

This is correct. No reply = no thanks.

No need to be offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes reply though don't bother replying to people that haven't read profile and decided just to message anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive just teplied to a guy saying sorry but not meeting... he replied to me its ok al take you for dinner and fuck you the next time!! I replied saying not doing socials either as much as his offer had me excited (sarcasm) to which he replied what outfit will you wear for me!! Seriously Omg is it any wonder we dont reply.. fucking nutters (and before yous stast i know yous arent all nutters)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes reply though don't bother replying to people that haven't read profile and decided just to message anyway."

I agree with this wholeheartedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely reply. Not because I'm full of myself but because even a "no thanks" ends up in message ping pong. I seek out what I want when I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest, we used to respond to 99% of messages,even a "no thanks". However, since opening up our profile to include single guys, it is staggering the amount of messages received. It's just not possible to respond to them all. (Mr)

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

This has been done to death. If people don't reply, it's not rude....just practical as it's impossible to reply to 200 messages a day if you're a couple or woman. There isn't time.

Blokes tend to reply more as they get less. Simple maths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being honest, we used to respond to 99% of messages,even a "no thanks". However, since opening up our profile to include single guys, it is staggering the amount of messages received. It's just not possible to respond to them all. (Mr) "

Ah so that's why my100+messages are not answered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the FAQs site etiquette, a no reply means not interested. Some people get hundreds of messages per day. Mostly from single guys who haven't bothered to read the profile etc. it is boring, tiring and repetitive to reply to every single one.

It's a two way street, if we get a decent message we will reply at least. But hardly ever get one on them these days.

If you's have the right to send an unsolicited message without any encouragement to do so, then others have the right to ignore and not reply!

Fab should create something to allow you to select a lot of messages at the same time and reply a standard no thanks / not interested. Hopefully this will stop people getting their panties in a twist. Or alternatively they could grow a set and deal with it.

Sorry rant over!

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland

It's quite simple I guess blokes don't get all that many messages as so many to choose from couples get alot of mail and single ladies get bombarded

I would say the fewer mails u receive the more % u reply to if u look at a profile and think wow I've got to mail her think how many others are doing the same

Only my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than replying no thanks then being sent a lot of abuse for it. Or ending up in a conversation you didn't really want.

I rarely read all my emails then I mass delete. I really couldn't care less if I seem rude as a result. I'm here for my own benefit no one elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been done to death. If people don't reply, it's not rude....just practical as it's impossible to reply to 200 messages a day if you're a couple or woman. There isn't time.

Blokes tend to reply more as they get less. Simple maths.

"

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing worse than replying no thanks then being sent a lot of abuse for it. Or ending up in a conversation you didn't really want.

I rarely read all my emails then I mass delete. I really couldn't care less if I seem rude as a result. I'm here for my own benefit no one elses "

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the FAQs site etiquette, a no reply means not interested. Some people get hundreds of messages per day. Mostly from single guys who haven't bothered to read the profile etc. it is boring, tiring and repetitive to reply to every single one.

It's a two way street, if we get a decent message we will reply at least. But hardly ever get one on them these days.

If you's have the right to send an unsolicited message without any encouragement to do so, then others have the right to ignore and not reply!

Fab should create something to allow you to select a lot of messages at the same time and reply a standard no thanks / not interested. Hopefully this will stop people getting their panties in a twist. Or alternatively they could grow a set and deal with it.

Sorry rant over! "

What she said also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the FAQs site etiquette, a no reply means not interested. Some people get hundreds of messages per day. Mostly from single guys who haven't bothered to read the profile etc. it is boring, tiring and repetitive to reply to every single one.

It's a two way street, if we get a decent message we will reply at least. But hardly ever get one on them these days.

If you's have the right to send an unsolicited message without any encouragement to do so, then others have the right to ignore and not reply!

Fab should create something to allow you to select a lot of messages at the same time and reply a standard no thanks / not interested. Hopefully this will stop people getting their panties in a twist. Or alternatively they could grow a set and deal with it.

Sorry rant over!

What she said also "

Hmm, "he" said lol not she

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

I often dont reply now, as it usually just leads to a follow up message asking "but why not?" Or a petulant abusive retort....

If before messaging someone chooses to

A, not read my profile..

B, ignore my profile..

Then i reserve the right to ignore, or treat the message with the contempt it deserves..

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Theres also only so many times you can reply to a random "Hi" "howz u" "wow" "hey" one liner/one word message thats the 15th before lunchtime....

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it to heart if someone doesn't reply. I always expect they are inundated with messages so they can't reply or maybe they think I'm a minger

oh well, I've just realised why I never send any messages.

Merry Xmas Everyone XX

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Men always think they deserve the right of reply, despite the site FAQs saying otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men always think they deserve the right of reply, despite the site FAQs saying otherwise"

This is the only time I have disagreed with you, it really is BUT

Sorry, not all men

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Men always think they deserve the right of reply, despite the site FAQs saying otherwise

This is the only time I have disagreed with you, it really is BUT

Sorry, not all men "

Yes, not all men. What I meant was its not women or couples who complain about getting no reply.

The men who think this is instashag, make no effort in their profile or messages, and think that because they're here they're entitled to sex.

Better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men always think they deserve the right of reply, despite the site FAQs saying otherwise

This is the only time I have disagreed with you, it really is BUT

Sorry, not all men

Yes, not all men. What I meant was its not women or couples who complain about getting no reply.

The men who think this is instashag, make no effort in their profile or messages, and think that because they're here they're entitled to sex.

Better? "

yes agreed, I did actually thought you meant all men but you know some reading this take it at face value.

I was only sticking up for the genuine, respectful, 6ft 1" st8 muscular thick cocked, amazing to fuck guys

cough!, cough!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Men always think they deserve the right of reply, despite the site FAQs saying otherwise

This is the only time I have disagreed with you, it really is BUT

Sorry, not all men

Yes, not all men. What I meant was its not women or couples who complain about getting no reply.

The men who think this is instashag, make no effort in their profile or messages, and think that because they're here they're entitled to sex.

Better? "
no still not right its not just men you may only recieve this from men but that does not mean its only men. Im sure myself and others have had the indignation from fems and cpls when we said no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men always think they deserve the right of reply, despite the site FAQs saying otherwise

This is the only time I have disagreed with you, it really is BUT

Sorry, not all men

Yes, not all men. What I meant was its not women or couples who complain about getting no reply.

The men who think this is instashag, make no effort in their profile or messages, and think that because they're here they're entitled to sex.

Better? no still not right its not just men you may only recieve this from men but that does not mean its only men. Im sure myself and others have had the indignation from fems and cpls when we said no"

Could be but I don't get messages form women or girl and that I haven't replied.

I reply to everyone even the asshole guys who ask to see my cock, doesn't mean they all get the same reply, lol

So I don't know if they would get offended if I didn't reply

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Lol or dont reply better ?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Men always think they deserve the right of reply, despite the site FAQs saying otherwise

This is the only time I have disagreed with you, it really is BUT

Sorry, not all men

Yes, not all men. What I meant was its not women or couples who complain about getting no reply.

The men who think this is instashag, make no effort in their profile or messages, and think that because they're here they're entitled to sex.

Better?

yes agreed, I did actually thought you meant all men but you know some reading this take it at face value.

I was only sticking up for the genuine, respectful, 6ft 1" st8 muscular thick cocked, amazing to fuck guys

cough!, cough!

"

Haha! And you're doing it magnificently

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Men always think they deserve the right of reply, despite the site FAQs saying otherwise

This is the only time I have disagreed with you, it really is BUT

Sorry, not all men

Yes, not all men. What I meant was its not women or couples who complain about getting no reply.

The men who think this is instashag, make no effort in their profile or messages, and think that because they're here they're entitled to sex.

Better?

no still not right its not just men you may only recieve this from men but that does not mean its only men. Im sure myself and others have had the indignation from fems and cpls when we said no"

They don't post threads about it, is what I mean *sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the site says take a no reply as a no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply is a reply ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck that no time you say thanks but no thanks.

No reply is my reply. Get over it!!

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