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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many women on here search for and actually initiate first messages with men?

If not, what would it take for you to send the first message, what and how would the guys profile read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, may have been the way he looked, or an amusing or clever profile.

Nothing specific though...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

99% of the time guys mail me as first contact.

But if a profile catches my eye I have no problem in making first contact and why not were living in 2015

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots have initiated contact with me

Then they find out in some insane Yorkshire fella and vanish

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I have done but it never worked out to well.

To be honest I think I'm not going to bother looking for single men off here for meets and keep it for clubs and parties.

Xxxxx

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Sorry posted before I finished

I have initiated the first messages when it's someone I like.

If I see someone that's witty or just really stupidly funny and I like them I have messaged them. I'm not going to hang around waiting for them to take the hint because I'll probably be waiting for a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha - did I miss your hint?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost count how many girls I've msgd, out of them only a small% have replied and out of them, I've only met a few. I have however been msgd first by two girls who I meet regularly, they wanted something specific and would rather do the searching to find it than troll through hundreds of msgs hoping what they're looking for has msgd them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha you must have a superman skill :p

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By *ero StressMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Sorry posted before I finished

I have initiated the first messages when it's someone I like.

If I see someone that's witty or just really stupidly funny and I like them I have messaged them. I'm not going to hang around waiting for them to take the hint because I'll probably be waiting for a while "

Oh u were hinting were u and I just thaught u were polite and I didn't need to reply oh well

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Lol at everyone praying to get a hint msg

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

When we played more it was mostly always me (female) that seleceted meets and made contact....we have different taste that's for sure ....mine better that his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now and again I'll search profiles, though it's usually chatting on chat that I'll nosey profiles and make that first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any fem that has initiated contact with me has been in the chat room. or by winking, normally after responding to something I have written in the forum.

Take the hint guys... share your wit publicly and it pays dividends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rejigged my profile before to make it light hearted and clever (in my head) and it rhymed! I was informed by someone it was crap and she was a good friend!

I guess the moral of my story is stick to safe and sensible or find another friend....

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