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On a serious note, the lady does have a point.....if you aren't going to make the effort of showing up, why bother to ask for an invite. Especially when so many people were wanting to go. If you'd let the organisers know, they could have offered your place to someone else.  | |||
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"I've got to the stage now when certain people add their names I dont even add them to the list because I know they won't show up anyway. " I do that too | |||
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"Just a wee mini rant here dedicated to all those boys who moan about not getting anyone to meet them. Or not being able to get verified. Last night there were 20 single men who didn't show up to the social. Now about 4 of them let me know. That left 16. Half of those asked to be invited for a chance to meet people. 3 of them were messaging us right up until about an hour before.. so.. where did they go?? No wonder there's a lack of sympathy for the 'I can't get a meet brigade' In fact last night men were out numbered by women. " | |||
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"Considering the time and effort it takes to arrange these events people who don't show should hang their heads. 1 consolation they may be too embarassed to come on forums for a while griping about how noone likes them . P.s. glad you all enjoyed yourselves." If I knew that I could have went as got told fully booked and genuine people like us who like to socialise and mingle get no were as people who let u down | |||
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"Considering the time and effort it takes to arrange these events people who don't show should hang their heads. 1 consolation they may be too embarassed to come on forums for a while griping about how noone likes them . P.s. glad you all enjoyed yourselves. If I knew that I could have went as got told fully booked and genuine people like us who like to socialise and mingle get no were as people who let u down" It was fully booked and even with the no shows it was very busy. | |||
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"Always been a problem isnt going to change anytime soon either although some of the blame does lie with the organisers you get guys who are verified but names down late lose out to candy coating just arrived guys not saying I know how to solve it as everyone deserves a chance. Theres also the problem of dont like him he aint coming. " I'll be honest there are one or two people I was never going to allow there. My reasons are my own. I'm organising something to make sure everyone has a good night. Including me. No one in their right mind would host an event and invite folk they don't like or who they believe may cause trouble. | |||
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"Always been a problem isnt going to change anytime soon either although some of the blame does lie with the organisers you get guys who are verified but names down late lose out to candy coating just arrived guys not saying I know how to solve it as everyone deserves a chance. Theres also the problem of dont like him he aint coming. I'll be honest there are one or two people I was never going to allow there. My reasons are my own. I'm organising something to make sure everyone has a good night. Including me. No one in their right mind would host an event and invite folk they don't like or who they believe may cause trouble. " I hope to make 1 of these socials soon but I want to meet a couple people 1st as if I go straight for social I think I might bottle it u never know though I might just bite the bullet and go for it | |||
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"Always been a problem isnt going to change anytime soon either although some of the blame does lie with the organisers you get guys who are verified but names down late lose out to candy coating just arrived guys not saying I know how to solve it as everyone deserves a chance. Theres also the problem of dont like him he aint coming. I'll be honest there are one or two people I was never going to allow there. My reasons are my own. I'm organising something to make sure everyone has a good night. Including me. No one in their right mind would host an event and invite folk they don't like or who they believe may cause trouble. " As the host you have every reason to pick and choose it's your event your rules | |||
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"Always been a problem isnt going to change anytime soon either although some of the blame does lie with the organisers you get guys who are verified but names down late lose out to candy coating just arrived guys not saying I know how to solve it as everyone deserves a chance. Theres also the problem of dont like him he aint coming. I'll be honest there are one or two people I was never going to allow there. My reasons are my own. I'm organising something to make sure everyone has a good night. Including me. No one in their right mind would host an event and invite folk they don't like or who they believe may cause trouble. " and your quite right for you.......but there is more than you attends the social I tried a few yrs ago to devise a social where there was a commitee of diffrent folk each time to make the list of attendees to change it being the same faces at each social. as by and large irrespective of intended or not this is what happens. And a contributing factor to why I seldom bother with socials now.as has been said further up if you want x amount of single guys invite three times as much | |||
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"I've never hosted a social where it's been the same people attending. Yes there will always be a core of people who enjoy the social and like to come along to most of them but then on the other hand there is a group of new people attending too " This | |||
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"I've never hosted a social where it's been the same people attending. Yes there will always be a core of people who enjoy the social and like to come along to most of them but then on the other hand there is a group of new people attending too " What scares me about social is I'm no good in a room of people I don't know I end up sitting there on my own and not talking to any1 and especially when I see a lady I like I defiantly don't aproach them so I might just hav a drink and leave then it's a waiste of a place that sum1 else could have | |||
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"I've never hosted a social where it's been the same people attending. Yes there will always be a core of people who enjoy the social and like to come along to most of them but then on the other hand there is a group of new people attending too What scares me about social is I'm no good in a room of people I don't know I end up sitting there on my own and not talking to any1 and especially when I see a lady I like I defiantly don't aproach them so I might just hav a drink and leave then it's a waiste of a place that sum1 else could have" most folk who attend socials would make you feel very welcome and you wouldn't be left sitting on your own. But if your the type of person who doesn't mix well then maybe socials ain't for you but ultimately never know unless you try one | |||
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"I've never hosted a social where it's been the same people attending. Yes there will always be a core of people who enjoy the social and like to come along to most of them but then on the other hand there is a group of new people attending too " around 90% of most socials are the same folk in the same groups im sure you wont agree but thats my take on it | |||
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"I've never hosted a social where it's been the same people attending. Yes there will always be a core of people who enjoy the social and like to come along to most of them but then on the other hand there is a group of new people attending too around 90% of most socials are the same folk in the same groups im sure you wont agree but thats my take on it" 90% lol no I won't agree with that as I said there are a core of people who do attend most socials but there are equally as many newbies to socials too | |||
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"I've never hosted a social where it's been the same people attending. Yes there will always be a core of people who enjoy the social and like to come along to most of them but then on the other hand there is a group of new people attending too What scares me about social is I'm no good in a room of people I don't know I end up sitting there on my own and not talking to any1 and especially when I see a lady I like I defiantly don't aproach them so I might just hav a drink and leave then it's a waiste of a place that sum1 else could havemost folk who attend socials would make you feel very welcome and you wouldn't be left sitting on your own. But if your the type of person who doesn't mix well then maybe socials ain't for you but ultimately never know unless you try one "Oh I mix well I'm just a nightmare at starting a convo and if I'm wanting to talk to Sum1 I find attractive I would never make 1st move | |||
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"Just a wee mini rant here dedicated to all those boys who moan about not getting anyone to meet them. Or not being able to get verified. Last night there were 20 single men who didn't show up to the social. Now about 4 of them let me know. That left 16. Half of those asked to be invited for a chance to meet people. 3 of them were messaging us right up until about an hour before.. so.. where did they go?? No wonder there's a lack of sympathy for the 'I can't get a meet brigade' In fact last night men were out numbered by women. " Well said. Men were outnumbered by women! Now I'm even more gutted I was on my works night out  | |||
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"How bout all you complaining women in this forum take some of your own advice that I've seen on so many other posts, "we're not all the same so don't put us all in the same pot" just because some waste time doesn't mean we all do it. Oh but right enough we have penis's so we're not aloud to be so self righteous & high and mighty, we can only ride donkeys becuase the high horses are all took by the women!geez a fuckin break, with the attitude of SOME of the women NOT ALL no wonder they back out!" same boat, sorry | |||
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"How bout all you complaining women in this forum take some of your own advice that I've seen on so many other posts, "we're not all the same so don't put us all in the same pot" just because some waste time doesn't mean we all do it. Oh but right enough we have penis's so we're not aloud to be so self righteous & high and mighty, we can only ride donkeys becuase the high horses are all took by the women!geez a fuckin break, with the attitude of SOME of the women NOT ALL no wonder they back out!" I'd never tar all guys with the same brush. There are some very decent guys on here with enough manners to let the host know they can't make it. If they arranged say to go to their mums for dinner they wouldn't just not show up so why do it on here? It's selfish when they know people might be on a reserve list and desperately want to attend but can't because they have been told it's full. | |||
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"How bout all you complaining women in this forum take some of your own advice that I've seen on so many other posts, "we're not all the same so don't put us all in the same pot" just because some waste time doesn't mean we all do it. Oh but right enough we have penis's so we're not aloud to be so self righteous & high and mighty, we can only ride donkeys becuase the high horses are all took by the women!geez a fuckin break, with the attitude of SOME of the women NOT ALL no wonder they back out!I'd never tar all guys with the same brush. There are some very decent guys on here with enough manners to let the host know they can't make it. If they arranged say to go to their mums for dinner they wouldn't just not show up so why do it on here? It's selfish when they know people might be on a reserve list and desperately want to attend but can't because they have been told it's full. " Your right, they shouldn't !pmake plans if not going to show I totally agree with that. It's just people treat single guys like lepers on here because of a few bad eggs | |||
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" Oh but right enough we have penis's so we're not aloud to be so self righteous & high and mighty, we can only ride donkeys becuase the high horses are all took by the women!geez a fuckin break, with the attitude of SOME of the women NOT ALL no wonder they back out!" I'm no white knight but how in hells name did you go from 16 men not showing up and not sending an apology along at an organized event to .... A rant about being high and might   | |||
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"How bout all you complaining women in this forum take some of your own advice that I've seen on so many other posts, "we're not all the same so don't put us all in the same pot" just because some waste time doesn't mean we all do it. Oh but right enough we have penis's so we're not aloud to be so self righteous & high and mighty, we can only ride donkeys becuase the high horses are all took by the women!geez a fuckin break, with the attitude of SOME of the women NOT ALL no wonder they back out!I'd never tar all guys with the same brush. There are some very decent guys on here with enough manners to let the host know they can't make it. If they arranged say to go to their mums for dinner they wouldn't just not show up so why do it on here? It's selfish when they know people might be on a reserve list and desperately want to attend but can't because they have been told it's full. Your right, they shouldn't !pmake plans if not going to show I totally agree with that. It's just people treat single guys like lepers on here because of a few bad eggs" yes I agree guys do get a hard time when there really is no need for it at all | |||
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" Oh but right enough we have penis's so we're not aloud to be so self righteous & high and mighty, we can only ride donkeys becuase the high horses are all took by the women!geez a fuckin break, with the attitude of SOME of the women NOT ALL no wonder they back out! I'm no white knight but how in hells name did you go from 16 men not showing up and not sending an apology along at an organized event to .... A rant about being high and might "I meant as a generalized view of the site not just this post. | |||
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"How bout all you complaining women in this forum take some of your own advice that I've seen on so many other posts, "we're not all the same so don't put us all in the same pot" just because some waste time doesn't mean we all do it. Oh but right enough we have penis's so we're not aloud to be so self righteous & high and mighty, we can only ride donkeys becuase the high horses are all took by the women!geez a fuckin break, with the attitude of SOME of the women NOT ALL no wonder they back out!I'd never tar all guys with the same brush. There are some very decent guys on here with enough manners to let the host know they can't make it. If they arranged say to go to their mums for dinner they wouldn't just not show up so why do it on here? It's selfish when they know people might be on a reserve list and desperately want to attend but can't because they have been told it's full. Your right, they shouldn't !pmake plans if not going to show I totally agree with that. It's just people treat single guys like lepers on here because of a few bad eggsyes I agree guys do get a hard time when there really is no need for it at all " | |||
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"Just a wee mini rant here dedicated to all those boys who moan about not getting anyone to meet them. Or not being able to get verified. Last night there were 20 single men who didn't show up to the social. Now about 4 of them let me know. That left 16. Half of those asked to be invited for a chance to meet people. 3 of them were messaging us right up until about an hour before.. so.. where did they go?? No wonder there's a lack of sympathy for the 'I can't get a meet brigade' In fact last night men were out numbered by women. " The only thing stopping me attending these meets is just due to the fact its normally a sausagefest lol next time this happens pm me lol | |||
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"Our Edinburgh night was fabulous ...I am very glad we counted in the drop out ratio ....If everyone had come we would have certainly have had a big squeeze ...It was busy cosy ...and lots of naughty queezing going on ....u are all on the naughty list!!! lol "it was fantastic!! thank you ladies for organising it. There was lots of squeezing going on of which i am guilty of lol. | |||
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"Our Edinburgh night was fabulous ...I am very glad we counted in the drop out ratio ....If everyone had come we would have certainly have had a big squeeze ...It was busy cosy ...and lots of naughty queezing going on ....u are all on the naughty list!!! lol
it was fantastic!! thank you ladies for organising it. There was lots of squeezing going on of which i am guilty of lol. "Squeezing? Can't mean me    | |||
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"We posted on this subject recently and got a bit slaughtered for our selection process we've tried the new single guys desperate for a meet type mostly ones posting on forum I can't get a meet complete no shows we tried forum regulars again no shows or backed out early/ busy most for good reasons some not and some who bailed incredibly late. Then there's the three we met at party's or socials always come if saying they are going always message early if can't attend. And the worst ones are the ones that can't remember stringing you along for ages not showing then answering your moan saying I'm one of the good guys I always turn up or I messaged them once but they never answered when they just stopped replying mid conversation. There are great guys out there but they are a nightmare to find there is a reason everyone who organised party's or socials complains about them not showing up because it happens repeatedly" The trouble is, people work out who the reliable decent ones are and often invite them but there just isnt enough of them to go around. Maybe the new year will bring people better luck in finding them and hopefully they won't be too busy to actually say yes to an invite  | |||
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"We posted on this subject recently and got a bit slaughtered for our selection process we've tried the new single guys desperate for a meet type mostly ones posting on forum I can't get a meet complete no shows we tried forum regulars again no shows or backed out early/ busy most for good reasons some not and some who bailed incredibly late. Then there's the three we met at party's or socials always come if saying they are going always message early if can't attend. And the worst ones are the ones that can't remember stringing you along for ages not showing then answering your moan saying I'm one of the good guys I always turn up or I messaged them once but they never answered when they just stopped replying mid conversation. There are great guys out there but they are a nightmare to find there is a reason everyone who organised party's or socials complains about them not showing up because it happens repeatedly The trouble is, people work out who the reliable decent ones are and often invite them but there just isnt enough of them to go around. Maybe the new year will bring people better luck in finding them and hopefully they won't be too busy to actually say yes to an invite "people like yourselves will always get invites | |||
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"I appreciate that just as many women and couples can be branded time wasters for various reasons. Heck I even class myself as one in my profile. The post wasn't to slander all men. However if you look at the forums 9 out of 10 times it will be men who claim they can't get a meet. It will men who say they are hard done by. It will be men who moan about women blocking or not replying or changing their minds. Very rarely women. It's not rocket science to work out that the numbers are against guys on here. I totally understand it's not easy. I don't have time to read my emails let alone reply and I'm not even getting the numbers some women and couples do. While I agree that there are many on here with over inflated egos who think the world should fall at their feet. It's not all. And I certainly hope that's not how my original post sounded. " It's not, some people just like to cause an argument | |||
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"I will get slaughtered for this but hey ho.... I think that a significant proportion of guys here who are on this site have low self confidence and difficulty in the real world in dealing with the opposite sex, hence why they are on here in the first place to fill that void and missing female interaction. So it should come as no surprise that when the time comes for the virtual world of fab to cross with the real world of a meet, that these same guys don't have the courage to complete what they started. Of course this is a very general view and will not apply to a lot of guys, but I can appreciate why women and couples tar us all with the same brush. And of course, just like in the real world, some guys might find that all the excitement and enjoyment is in the chase itself. It beggars belief why you would do all that groundwork but I am sure there are folk like that too." Personally Bobby, I think that is pretty much spot on. | |||
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"I will get slaughtered for this but hey ho.... I think that a significant proportion of guys here who are on this site have low self confidence and difficulty in the real world in dealing with the opposite sex, hence why they are on here in the first place to fill that void and missing female interaction. So it should come as no surprise that when the time comes for the virtual world of fab to cross with the real world of a meet, that these same guys don't have the courage to complete what they started. Of course this is a very general view and will not apply to a lot of guys, but I can appreciate why women and couples tar us all with the same brush. And of course, just like in the real world, some guys might find that all the excitement and enjoyment is in the chase itself. It beggars belief why you would do all that groundwork but I am sure there are folk like that too." A very valid point
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"I will get slaughtered for this but hey ho.... I think that a significant proportion of guys here who are on this site have low self confidence and difficulty in the real world in dealing with the opposite sex, hence why they are on here in the first place to fill that void and missing female interaction. So it should come as no surprise that when the time comes for the virtual world of fab to cross with the real world of a meet, that these same guys don't have the courage to complete what they started. Of course this is a very general view and will not apply to a lot of guys, but I can appreciate why women and couples tar us all with the same brush. And of course, just like in the real world, some guys might find that all the excitement and enjoyment is in the chase itself. It beggars belief why you would do all that groundwork but I am sure there are folk like that too. A very valid point
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"I will get slaughtered for this but hey ho.... I think that a significant proportion of guys here who are on this site have low self confidence and difficulty in the real world in dealing with the opposite sex, hence why they are on here in the first place to fill that void and missing female interaction. So it should come as no surprise that when the time comes for the virtual world of fab to cross with the real world of a meet, that these same guys don't have the courage to complete what they started. Of course this is a very general view and will not apply to a lot of guys, but I can appreciate why women and couples tar us all with the same brush. And of course, just like in the real world, some guys might find that all the excitement and enjoyment is in the chase itself. It beggars belief why you would do all that groundwork but I am sure there are folk like that too." Yip you're right, and their called time wasters, the women on the site aren't psychologists and aren't here to sort out any guys social issues. So the said guys should go and sort themselves out into normal functioning human beings and then rejoin the site. | |||
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"I will get slaughtered for this but hey ho.... I think that a significant proportion of guys here who are on this site have low self confidence and difficulty in the real world in dealing with the opposite sex, hence why they are on here in the first place to fill that void and missing female interaction. So it should come as no surprise that when the time comes for the virtual world of fab to cross with the real world of a meet, that these same guys don't have the courage to complete what they started. Of course this is a very general view and will not apply to a lot of guys, but I can appreciate why women and couples tar us all with the same brush. And of course, just like in the real world, some guys might find that all the excitement and enjoyment is in the chase itself. It beggars belief why you would do all that groundwork but I am sure there are folk like that too. A very valid point
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"I think the virtual world gives people anonymity. Therefore, they gain false confidence. But when it comes to transferring it to the real world, they lack the ability to do so. It's not right but it does happen. Some are just out for the thrill of the chase and have no interest in meeting face to face. There are some who just think that they have the God given right to do as they please and don't care who they hurt or upset along the way. Unfortunately, it's hard to seperate them all out "The cake lovers are mostly reliable  | |||
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"I think the virtual world gives people anonymity. Therefore, they gain false confidence. But when it comes to transferring it to the real world, they lack the ability to do so. It's not right but it does happen. Some are just out for the thrill of the chase and have no interest in meeting face to face. There are some who just think that they have the God given right to do as they please and don't care who they hurt or upset along the way. Unfortunately, it's hard to seperate them all out
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"I will get slaughtered for this but hey ho.... I think that a significant proportion of guys here who are on this site have low self confidence and difficulty in the real world in dealing with the opposite sex, hence why they are on here in the first place to fill that void and missing female interaction. So it should come as no surprise that when the time comes for the virtual world of fab to cross with the real world of a meet, that these same guys don't have the courage to complete what they started. Of course this is a very general view and will not apply to a lot of guys, but I can appreciate why women and couples tar us all with the same brush. And of course, just like in the real world, some guys might find that all the excitement and enjoyment is in the chase itself. It beggars belief why you would do all that groundwork but I am sure there are folk like that too. A very valid point
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"I will get slaughtered for this but hey ho.... I think that a significant proportion of guys here who are on this site have low self confidence and difficulty in the real world in dealing with the opposite sex, hence why they are on here in the first place to fill that void and missing female interaction. So it should come as no surprise that when the time comes for the virtual world of fab to cross with the real world of a meet, that these same guys don't have the courage to complete what they started. Of course this is a very general view and will not apply to a lot of guys, but I can appreciate why women and couples tar us all with the same brush. And of course, just like in the real world, some guys might find that all the excitement and enjoyment is in the chase itself. It beggars belief why you would do all that groundwork but I am sure there are folk like that too. A very valid point
There are also many guys on here who wouldn't dare speak to people in real life they way they do here. i think that's just true of the internet in general there are a few on here who appear to want to twist anything others say "Oh definitely! And never have anything nice to say about anything, ever. Little rain clouds of doom, lol! | |||
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"Oh definitely! And never have anything nice to say about anything, ever. Little rain clouds of doom, lol! " Absolutely. God bless the little rain clouds though. They make the sunbeams shine brighter!! The facts were 16 guys were disrespectful of their hosts and fellow fabbers by their actions. I take my hat off to any social organisers and applaud their efforts. I'm so glad it was a great night for those in attendance. | |||
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"Always been a problem isnt going to change anytime soon either although some of the blame does lie with the organisers you get guys who are verified but names down late lose out to candy coating just arrived guys not saying I know how to solve it as everyone deserves a chance. Theres also the problem of dont like him he aint coming. " Agreed ...I would be grateful for the attendees that came along and shared a great evening.Many a Social over many many years has fell flat on its arse within days of taking place due to non discretion. The People who choose not too attend ,really is know loss to you. Glad it went well X | |||
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"Always been a problem isnt going to change anytime soon either although some of the blame does lie with the organisers you get guys who are verified but names down late lose out to candy coating just arrived guys not saying I know how to solve it as everyone deserves a chance. Theres also the problem of dont like him he aint coming. " Kola do you remember we first met you at a social and next two or three othe rs after so agree was mostly the same faces also always had a good tho!! Got new pots and pans kola will have then ready for you when we meet again lol xxxxx | |||
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"I know your not ment to name and shame but couldn't we put out a guest list and then name the people who attended and who messaged to cancel to get an idea of the good guests " I used to be on a different site many years ago and I never felt comfortable with the post that listed who was attending. For me it kinda goes against the discretion thing. Also sometimes opens it up to 'if they are going we arent' crap. It's really something I'd want to avoid | |||
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"Always been a problem isnt going to change anytime soon either although some of the blame does lie with the organisers you get guys who are verified but names down late lose out to candy coating just arrived guys not saying I know how to solve it as everyone deserves a chance. Theres also the problem of dont like him he aint coming. Kola do you remember we first met you at a social and next two or three othe rs after so agree was mostly the same faces also always had a good tho!! Got new pots and pans kola will have then ready for you when we meet again lol xxxxx "lol yer pots n pans are my fantasy (along with the tights) I think sometimes folk hide from the truth. And then lash out (ever so nicely and non judgementally).those who attended had fun so alls good. | |||
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" I just laugh at the 'can't get a meet' brigade. What they actually mean is they expect to click their fingers and be surrounded by women, and aren't prepared to put any work in to meet people." Always online for a laugh and a giggle and sometimes it might work out that we meet but.......... "click their fingers and be surrounded by women," Ouff Never Thought of That Before, Think I will try it. makes space in room for all the women who are going to appear.  | |||
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"Best Policy BE YOURSELF some people will hopefully like it, some will unfortunately not like it its just like normal life Unfortunately for me, most people don't like it, away fur a greeeeet" I agree with this Donkey.. | |||
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