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By *ickyj1978 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dalkeith

If someone sends you a message is it wrong to just delete it and not reply (has common decency gone nowadays) or do you like a reply just to even say sorry but no

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By *arried adventurers!Couple
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I do try and reply to every message but sometimes you just can't. Sometimes I will just delete a message if I'm not interested and is expect the person who sent it to respect that.

I guess if someone is so sensitive that they get upset that a message has been deleted then maybe this isn't the site for them! I don't think it's to be taken too seriously!

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you reply to unsolicited junk mail posted through the door?

It is sometimes just too much to ask to reply to everyone. It isn't about manners or decency and certainly cannot be argued by most guys who ignore your profile or send a one liner such as 'how are you finding it here?'

Just move on.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

The site FAQs clearly state that you should take a no reply as a not interested.

No one is owed anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that does not answer my messages should walk the plank and be sent straight to davey jones locker YARRRRRR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what the message content is, if its fancy a fuck then its deleted n blocked, if I'm not interested I try answer with a no thanks.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply. 

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

That's from the site FAQ. What feel rude is the sense of entitlement alot have ,that they are owed anything from the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply. 

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

That's from the site FAQ. What feel rude is the sense of entitlement alot have ,that they are owed anything from the site

"

Well said, and spot on

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

We will reply to everyone as long as we know they have read our profile if not we just delete without reading. It really is that simple. We dont think its ignorant at all infact its rather ignorant not read ones profile properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We simply delete if there is no attraction or no thought put into the message. States so on our profile. Its not meant to be rude or disrespectful its just impossible to reply to everyone. We get hundreds of god awful copy and pasted messages sadly. We also ignore messages that address Paige only, that happens more than it should.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

It's up to the individual.

As I get 1 a week, I'm happy to reply even if it's no thanks.

If you get 274 a day - would you want to spend all day replying? Nah, neither would I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to reply when I first started but I gave up when the inbox hit 1000.

Now I always delete if you've not supplied a face pic, you're out my age range or you're an ugly bastard.

Simple

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"It's up to the individual.

As I get 1 a week, I'm happy to reply even if it's no thanks.

If you get 274 a day - would you want to spend all day replying? Nah, neither would I "

1 A WEEK!!!!! stop bloody bragging man

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"It's up to the individual.

As I get 1 a week, I'm happy to reply even if it's no thanks.

If you get 274 a day - would you want to spend all day replying? Nah, neither would I

1 A WEEK!!!!! stop bloody bragging man "

It's not my fault I'm popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone sends you a message is it wrong to just delete it and not reply (has common decency gone nowadays) or do you like a reply just to even say sorry but no "

I've seen the shite women get on this site for saying no...

Ive seen the weirdo stalkers that message women's verifications asking for details about meets.

Men who message vile abuse because a woman choose a meet with someone else over them.

This is the busy time of year! Everyone has their own crap to deal with, get a tissue and go watch some porn because few single women are actively looking for meets right now

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